I recieved a message.
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Posted:Dec 14, 2015 3:00 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2015 12:23 pm
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I got a message from a gold member and I can't read it. Affairlook has made it so that standard members can't even read messages from gold members. I feel for the lady that sent me the note because she will think that I ignored her. This just isn't right. As a standard member, I understand not being able to initiate contact but the gold members need to be able to and then we standard members should be allowed to continue the conversation. What do you think?
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Why do I hide my identity on Affairlook?
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Posted:Dec 8, 2015 3:23 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 1:41 pm
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I see others that are proudly posting their pictures showing their face on this site. I have to ask myself "why don't I?" For one reason, I am on here with out my wife's blessing. I worry that if someone recognizes me, they may tell my wife. That brings up another question. Why am I here? My answer may not be accepted by some but I am here to make friends with women and couples that are into sharing sex. Not necessarily real sex but web cam and erotic story sex. I want to have sex with others but can't bring myself to step outside my marriage. The closest I have come to cheating was masturbating while watching a web cam. I really want the excitement of an extra-marital relationship but I am too chicken to really pursue one. So I hide my face and jack off to web cams. Pathetic? Maybe. Will it change? I don't know. Maybe I am looking for someone to be so sexy, I can't resist.
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messages with a basic membership.
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Posted:Sep 19, 2015 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2015 3:02 pm
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I know that this site has to raise money to keep operating. I also know that I don't financially support this site. That said, why can't I message people without them messaging me first? Especially people in my very short friends list. By the way, I can't request people to be friends without paying for a premium membership. This site is so much larger and diverse than other sites like it but they are also much more restrictive. If someone is in my friends list, I would think I would be able to send them a message now and again.
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Live Member Cams
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Posted:Jul 11, 2015 3:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2015 6:40 am
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I have turned my web cam on a couple of times on here. When I have, the number of viewers have been low and usually it is men tuning in. Do women really watch men's cams? I view women and couple cams but not men's cams. I have also noticed that in the couples cams many are just the male stroking their pud. No female with them. What's up with that?
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Changing my mind
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Posted:May 26, 2012 11:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2015 3:04 pm
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A couple of days ago I got to thinking on my drive to work. I know, thinking is not a good thing. Anyway, I was thinking about what I really want in my sex life at this point in my life. At this point in time, I want to have sex with women other than my wife but I don't want some one I don't know.
There is a woman I used to date before I married. We had fantastic sex and if things had moved slower with my now wife we most likely would have got together and married. She is a wonderful woman and I still have her in my life even though she lives thousands of miles away. When we were together before, I was in it for the sex not for love. I would like to make love with her now.
There is another woman I have in my life that there is a strong sexual chemistry between us. We flirt when we are together but it hasn't gone beyond flirting. She would be fun to get naked with and explore each other. Penetration would be good but there are other ways to satisfy my desires.
Then there is the overweight loud wife of a friend. She turns me on and I can't figure out why. I just want to spend a night with her.
I have decided I don't want every woman I see now but just these three. Oh yeah, and my wife on occasion.
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Time to start my garden.
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Posted:Mar 3, 2012 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2015 2:07 pm
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I now have the dirt tilled. Need to decide what and where to plant. If you have never planted a garden, you need to think about what you plant where. You don't want to have tall tomato plants blocking all the sun light on your low growing squash plants. Last year I put my tomato's too close together and only a couple of plants really produced. I had a lot of peppers late in the season. My squash produced all season. I need to learn more about growing melons. The melons I grew were very inconsistant. Some were large and tasty and some were much smaller and didn't have as much flavor. I waited for all of them to come off the vine naturally. Maybe the problem was that last year I didn't do as much tending my garden in the nude. I just might have to test that this year and do all my garden tending naked. Happy gardening to all of you who like to grow your own veggies.
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Autorama visit
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Posted:Feb 19, 2012 11:15 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 1:41 pm
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Autorama was good this year. The cars were fantastic. There were fewer vendors than previous years which worries me. Without the support of the vendors, it could be that the show is going to attract fewer cars. If the car count drops, the viewers will not want to pay to view. Without the viewers, the show doesn't continue to be put on. Autorama has been an attraction for me and some of my friends for years.
It is a day to look at cars and to people watch. Not a lot in this world at this time is fun. This is fun for me.
Speaking of people watching. The crowd was lighter in the A.M. than it has been in the past. By the afternoon it had picked up. I hope that they had a large enough crowd to keep bringing the show back.
This is Sunday. The show is still going on. Get down there if you haven't been yet this year. I need the once a year trip to recharge my batterys. So I need everyones help to keep the show going.
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Sacramento Autorama!
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Posted:Feb 12, 2012 1:03 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 1:41 pm
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The Autorama is next weekend. Hope the weather is warm. I like it when the girls come out to the show to show their goodies. If it rains and is cold they tend to cover everything up. I don't blame them but looking at cars is only half the fun.
If you like cars the, Autorama is a great show. Many of the cars have more money put into them than most people pay for a house.
I would not spend that kind of money on a car but I like to look at the ones that others have paid for.
If you go and are female, remember that perverts like me like to see skin!
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Family for the holidays
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Posted:Dec 21, 2011 8:01 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2016 10:20 pm
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The holidays are here and I am looking foreward to spending time with my family. Parents, siblings, and grandchildren. A good time should be had by all.
This is the time of year that we need to let go of things that upset us but don't amount to anything. Forgive if only for a few days. If you can't forgive, let it go for the season. Family peace for the holidays is more important than most things we tend to bicker about.
I am going to do my best to not belittle my spouse. I have a bad habit of saying things that make my wife look foolish. I have done this for as long as I can remember. I don't mean to do it but I have a terminal case of foot in mouth disaese. With a little forethought, I may some day be cured.
Merry Christmas and happy new years to all of you out there in Affairlook land.
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slower.
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Posted:Dec 12, 2011 9:37 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2011 6:18 pm
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I am not going to look for a fuck buddy at this time. I don't really know why I was thinking about it in the first place. Sex I can get at home, even if it isn't anything like it was or as often.
That doesn't mean I don't want other things. I want to have women flirt with me. It lets me know I am still desireable and lets me at least think I could be wanted for sex even if it isn't going to happen. I also want to have women flash me. I see pictures of women flashing guys and read stories about it but it doesn't happen to me. Shoot, my wife doesn't flash me unless we are at home and I ask her to. I am a voyour. I like to see female body parts exposed. Bending over to show off their tits. Bending over in a skirt to show their butts. Even tight low rise jeans and a little butt crack. They are gifts that don't really cost anything.
I own a Motorcycle. I would like to take some pictures of women naked or near naked on my bike. How does one approch a woman to model for him? I don't want to be rejected but mostly I don't want to offend.
Like I said, I am going to back off on the idea of haveing a sex buddy but I am not going to try to completely shut down my desires.
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Is it worth the money?
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Posted:Dec 10, 2011 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2011 11:43 am
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Been thinking about getting a premium membership here. I just don't know if it is worth the money.
So far I haven't decided if I am going to hook up at any time. I do like looking at pictures of real people. I do like seeing who is on here and why. I enjoy the blogs. I look for people in my area that may be interesting. So far I have had limited contact with people on here.
I wonder if premium members tend to have more contact and if being able to view more of the profiles is worth the money? Even if I didn't want to have a sexual relationship with people, I would like to have people with like values to discuss things with.
Would being a premium member help that? Maybe I should buy one for a month or two and then decide.
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What to do???
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Posted:Nov 26, 2011 2:47 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2015 2:11 pm
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I have been thinking of looking for a FWB. I know it isn't a good idea for a married man to do without his wife's approval but that isn't what is holding me back.
My wife has just gone through or is still going through menopause. She has had physical discomfort with sex. Maybe it is my fault for not being willing to spend some extra time on foreplay. I didn't have to spend much time before and she was always telling me to stick it in after just a few minutes of play. Now she is dry and even with extra KY it is uncomfortable. I have asked her to go to the OB/GYN. and she hasn't. Maybe she doesn't have the desire for sex. I am not sure.
The few times lately that we have tried, I have had a performance problem. Maybe it is age, maybe it is lack of excitment. I am not sure. I achieve a very stiff erection through the night. It doesn't stay stiff as long as it used to but I have woke up with a hard-on a would be proud of, but it quickly gets soft. So I know it works. I can also masturbate and be fairly hard. Maybe not really hard but it would work in almost any hole.
This is my biggest problem. If I had a FWB, she would expect me to perform. I am not sure it would work. I have tried the ED drugs. I am not sure the headache and backache and stuffy nose are worth the trouble. Plus, if I used these with my wife, she wouldn't be able to keep up. So then, I would have to find another outlet so to speak.
What to do???
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Winter is upon us
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Posted:Nov 12, 2011 9:10 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 1:41 pm
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Looks like the garden is done for this year. Tomorrow I plan on going out and pulling the plants out. Then I will till the ground in preperation for next spring.
My motorcycle will not come out of the garage too much for the next few months. I don't like being cold when I ride and I really don't want to ride in the rain. She is due for an oil change anyway.
I didn't ride nearly as much as I wanted to this last summer. My riding buddy moved away and I am picky about who I ride with. I am thinking I want to find some women in my area to ride with. If they are into married men in their mid 50s maybe riding isn't all we could do. Since most women aren't into married men, I guess that will just have to be a dream. Can't fault me for dreaming can you?
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