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I thought some people might enjoy looking at my erotic art. Maybe it will even get some attention to my profile ... Maybe.
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so what the fuck else is new
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Posted:Feb 15, 2007 10:25 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:1 pm
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Last summer I had 2 meetings from this site and both were with the same woman. I am surprized it took that long for this one to fade into where ever people fade to. I think it had something to do with me being married which I think is BS because my profile says I am so it should have been understood. I wonder ... do people really think that the only solution for a person like myself to find a special kind of relationship has to be precluded by a divorce? That is real sad folks.
You know what really frosts me? ... This is a swingers site for alternative adult relationships and some of the so called liberal open minded adults are more closed off than vanilla society. Many moons ago I used to be in a biker gang ... a real one. It was the same fucked up mentality with them. One group would war with another over trivial BS never seeming to realize the enemy was convention and the last thing we should have been doing between ourselves was to hassle when we were all collectively rejected by society. But then those who are in the same choir as me will understand and those who think a married man wondering how to feel warmth again could be such a low life creap will remain unchanged so ... what the fuck else is new.
Easier to ask what isn't new. Well, I still think most ads are fake and just a form of shill this site uses to get people to pay them. I still don't get the lack of responce. And worst of all I still am asking what the fuck else is new.
But ... I still have my sense of humor and my trusty right hand which aint new.
I think my computer is wasting energy so will shut it off now.
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romp in the wild
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Posted:Jan 18, 2007 9:16 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:1 pm
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Not everything is BDSM.... but the seclusion did come in handy later 
Bye the way ... I have a site you can visit. Write and I will send the address
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Bound and determined
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Posted:Jan 18, 2007 9:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2007 9:22 pm
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What the heck .... more.
But I better stop soon or every woman who sees this stuff will think all I am interessted in is bondage and whips. Truth is ... I can enjoy parts at times BUT I enjoy caresses and sharing passions of all kinds all of the time
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Bare naked ladies, ties that bind and me
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Posted:Jan 18, 2007 9:10 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:1 pm
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I have no clue why I am in a writing mood. Maybe I am just bored. No ... the truth is I am getting desparate and hope something clicks in someones brain when they read my ramblings and they will say ... I gotta get to know him. But then she will probably live in Moose Jaw or someplace else hell and gone from here.
When I first joined I put up a picture that sort of showed my shadowed face. I never wanted to do the dick shot because I really felt they were pretty tacky. BUT ... I know a couple of guys who have done that and they get laid so since this is a swingers alternative lifestyle site I am finally going to break down and do it!!! Not the cover shot but inside shots for those who get past my ten toes.
As far as in my blog ... it will still be naked ladies, bound breasts, and romps in the wild.
Funny though ... People who see all of my photograhy thingk I have to be getting my bones jumped all the time. Naw ... in genral it is business. Fun business but business ... OK ... there have been a few times the flow took over but ........ on it goes.
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Here we go again, and again and ............
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Posted:Jan 18, 2007 8:38 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2007 8:44 pm
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Well it's been like 6 month and I didn't come back. Now here I find myself typing in this blank box wondering if it will still be white space when I am done in the sense of really saying anything different. Maybe the best thing is to leave news ... an update even though nothing has really changed.
The woman I thought would work out as the one I was hoping I would meet didn't. Nothing bad or odd ... just faded away because I was something or not something or something or other??? That's not a statement from self pitty ... it is just a statement of assumed fact since I had no problem with her and I didn't fade away. Actually I would write her again but I have been gone so long Affairlook deleted my old emails and I don't have her info. which I guess says something too.
So what else is new?
I have gotten kinkier!! My work has gotten more extreme or I should say leans more to the BDSM side with heavy emphasis on bondage. I have given a couple of private group courses and demonstrations on Shibari and Kinbaku. I found a couple of new galleries who like my "alternative" art and photography.
There is more but maybe I'll cover it later. In any event I am back on this site with renewed hope efforts to find my parner or partners will work out. One guy I know suggested I do chat more which I have never done and have a hard time following when I watch the list fly by faster than I can read and absorb ... even on my slow dial-up.
OK ... so here is a pic from a shoot I did in November ... Yes ... I get to see lots of naked sensual flesh and tie numerous intricate knots ... but I would rather get some hugs and feel the warmth and moist passions and and and BUT I do like parts of my work
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bdsm dreamer
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Posted:Jul 22, 2006 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2008 7:04 pm
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What the heck. Here is another form the same session.
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bdsm dreamer
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Posted:Jul 22, 2006 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2007 8:53 pm
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Here is one from another session and different model.
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hard core
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Posted:Jul 22, 2006 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2007 12:39 pm
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Here ya go kiddies. Though this shot is fairly hard core BDSM it is probably one of my best works ... the young lady is one of my best friends and most trusted models.
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resistance is futile
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Posted:May 30, 2006 12:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2006 6:20 pm
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I tried to resist very much emphasis in this Affairlook profile of my involvement with BDSM for a number of reasons. I will admit one was my concern that someone who might be a prospective playmate would get spooked and think things are different than they are. Another reason is that for awhile I had some idea I would just take a bit of a break from it. This does not mean I am betraying my belief system. It only says that I have many many interests and one may be no greater that the other when seen as a whole.
Fact is I love the potential BDSM holds and I find the Modern Primitive movement facinating as I watch people explore the limits of themselves and the center of themselves in ecstatic body rites. As the paintng included shows there is a stripping away that can often only be accomplished in these ways.
One side of all of this is a part of my day to day work and another is what I find to be sensual ... intensly sensual. If you would like to talk about it ... ask and we can. Just do so with respect LOL
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bondage and more again and again
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Posted:May 29, 2006 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2006 5:54 pm
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I got some emails from some members and visited a couple of other blogs that touched on BDSM or Ds realtionships and even put in my two cents worth which I am not sure is good or bad. In any event from some of what I have seen I am going to try to put a link to one of my art sites here. Affairlook tries blocking us from doing this but here is and effort ...
Blantent self promotion??? No. Truth is it's all free if you can figure out what I am trying to tell you
You can search the net for
indarkpleasure or try it with the rest of a common internet address.
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bondage for fun and profit
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Posted:May 28, 2006 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2007 8:54 pm
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Geez ... I put up one of my bondage photos just for the hell of it and I got a couple of notes asking for more and howto and so on. OK ... I can do that.
FYI these are my photos and of a model I work with from Sioux Falls. They are not ripped from the internet. I have a website that covers alternative lifestyle activities that touch on BDSM, Dom sub relationships and body modification ... tattooing and piercing etc.
How I got into all of that is a long story but it has evloved from my work as an artist and photographer doing lots of various subjects like landscapes and animals and so on.
I like exploring things with people and this little venture affords me a rare opportunity to get out of the day to day grind and have some adventure.
With that said I am going to compose a few things for the blog that are sort of a how to since I do know how to play this way yet always be safe.
I am guessing it will be OK ... it isn't like this is a vanilla relationship site anyway ... you can go to others for that.
Hope you enjoy this pic too. A little breast binding makes the day interesting and beats the heck out a living bra
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Is there hope?
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Posted:May 27, 2006 10:58 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 3:1 pm
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Amazing ... a real live person dropped by my blog and left a comment that was helpfull and appreciated. I like the idea ... no face, no dick ... instead a picture of my toes. Gonna shoot that Sunday afternoon.
I'm feeling so good here is a newer example of some of my photography. YES ... I am getting a bit of kink into my work. Actually a lot of kink.
But if anybody local is reading this and thinks I would be fun to play with but is afraid after seeing my artwork I will be a sadistic BDSM freak so is scared to meet me ... Fear not ... I am a very nice sadistic BDSM freak
It's a living .
In case you wonder ... the ties are called Shibari which is a very old method of bondage and rope art.
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Bla bla and more Affairlook bla bla
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Posted:May 27, 2006 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2006 10:53 am
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OK ... I was gone for about a year and then one day thought ... you are being a little bit of a whiner and are acting jerkish and so I came back in and joined and now feel more jerkish than I did before ... partly for the waste of good money for a membership that I could have used to go to Subway a couple of times.
One of those things that makes you go HHHMMMMMMMM in life maybe.
What the fuck am I talking about you ask? OK ... I wrote every member in a 100 mile radius of me just to let them know I was one of the 18,746 other men in our area looking for something or other. That number alone indicates a bit of a problem when it is 18 times more than the number of women and many times more than the number of availalbe women or couples in an age range who might lean my way.
I got one nice response but she faded away. One seemingly nice couple wrote but I never heard back. Other than that I have gotten one reply from a woman who wanted $200 an hour and about 8 from fake ads for porn sites that I reported and are still there.... which makes me wonder if Affairlook isn't trying to make another buck off of members. Hell I even wonder if many of the members on here are real considering the lack of replies.
OH well ... such is the internet cyber realm ... never know what is real .... time to go do something else but it would have been fun to find the people I hoped for to do it with me.
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