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resistance is futile  

canucome2play 73M
12 posts
5/30/2006 12:43 pm

Last Read:
7/22/2006 6:20 pm

resistance is futile

I tried to resist very much emphasis in this Affairlook profile of my involvement with BDSM for a number of reasons. I will admit one was my concern that someone who might be a prospective playmate would get spooked and think things are different than they are. Another reason is that for awhile I had some idea I would just take a bit of a break from it. This does not mean I am betraying my belief system. It only says that I have many many interests and one may be no greater that the other when seen as a whole.
Fact is I love the potential BDSM holds and I find the Modern Primitive movement facinating as I watch people explore the limits of themselves and the center of themselves in ecstatic body rites. As the paintng included shows there is a stripping away that can often only be accomplished in these ways.
One side of all of this is a part of my day to day work and another is what I find to be sensual ... intensly sensual. If you would like to talk about it ... ask and we can. Just do so with respect LOL


Mermaidslut 57F

5/30/2006 4:18 pm

Did you know there is another site, more for this kinda lifestyle as well, owned by the same company? alt.com?


canucome2play replies on 6/2/2006 9:14 am:
Yes I do know about that site and am less impressed with it than this. To be perfectly blunt it should be called wannabeALT.com and most of the men give the concept of Ds and BDSM a bad reputation. I care for my partners ... and am not a player who just uses the concepts as a way to get laid once in awhile or get back at some percieved wrong done by womanhood.
These are not my concepts of the male part ... they have been relayed by women I have talked with ... a couple of whom have been my models and one who was my s prior to a job transfer.
Any fault I ever experienced with a woman I met or talked with there were caused by a bad Dom .... in one way or another.

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