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Teenagers and Tantra ! : A neat little primer
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Teenagers and Tantra ! : A neat little primer Hello Future Dakinis !   So I hinted..So it shall be delivered ! Enjoy..this is as simple as it gets in a North American culturized version of Tantra. So this could be called "What I want my (if I had any) to know about Tantra, relationships and sex at some point in their twenties".... First of all, I'm not saying that everyone should go out and be sexually active... Having sex is a great part of a relationship... But it is a really small part... At least if you want it to be any good.. OK.. Here goes.. Basically all we ever know about sex is what I would call Animal Sex. Since we aren't taught anything, when we first become sexually interested/active, all we have are our hormones... and those hormones tell the guys that they need to find a woman to create babies... (obviously not actually what they are thinking ... but that's what their hormones are saying...) And the same is happening with the women... hormones are rising... must find a guy... to make babies (again... obviously not the actual thoughts... but that's what the instincts are saying) So you find each other... and if you're going to have sex, it's pretty simple... cause the parts just fit together... But the problem is that MOST GIRLS HAVE A TOTALLY SHITTY EXPERIENCE!!! It's nothing like they expected.. It's supposed to be all fireworks and holy crap... but it isn't. It's one of life's great disappointments... But they won't tell the guy for sure... And honestly, they might not even admit it to themselves... Because they so desperately want to believe it was great... The guys generally think it's great... They kind have the long end of the stick on this one... lol!! The problem is that these early experiences for the women kind of stick with them.. They kind of believe that this is as good as it gets... and don't really ask for anything better... This causes all kinds of emotional junk between them and their partner... Bring on PMS!!! And the guys have no idea that anything is wrong... and so you start to feel really separate... Anyway... very depressing... So this is where tantra comes in... This is where we learn how to ACTUALLY MAKE LOVE TO EACH OTHER!! We learn how to relax in lovemaking to make it holy-crap-amazing for everyone!! We learn how to talk to each other and really be able to trust each other with our hearts... And the cool thing is that it isn't rocket-science... It isn't weird or yogic or full of tricks... It's easy if we want to do it... ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "Sex is only dirty if your doing it properly" Namaste |
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1 post 6/11/2016 5:52 pm |
Thank you Roxie, That's beautiful..do you know who wrote it ? I cant message you..as your profile is disabled. John
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