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Entries Post for the Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest! Ready to submit your Affairlook Sexpert Contest entry? You've come to the right place! Remember, your submission must be 500 words or less, and must pertain to one of the 5 subject categories provided. Entries that do not adhere to the contest rules or the site’s Terms of Use will be deleted. This contest has ended. Check out the winners! |
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The clit is a mysterious, often elusive creature. But it needn't be. The first thing to realize is you don't know anything. If you think you do, you're even more wrong. Learn. Experiment. Discover. The first step is don't try to dive right into the clit. On most women it has to be coaxed out of hiding first. For alot of women you have to start with the lips. No, the ones on her face. Going "down" requires starting from higher ground. Kissing, ears, neck, breasts (this is so tough). Also note that "oral sex" does NOT mean that you can't use anything else. As long as your hands are clean and fingernails trimmed, not many women will mind additional stimulation. So we're finally ready to get down to bidnizz, right? Well if that's your attitude then reread the first paragraph. You don't frequently hear women complain that you are spending too much time pleasing her. Assuming she's screaming, "Eat me!" impatiently, let's move on. Women come in different shapes and sizes, so do pussies. You've seen enough porn to know “camel toe” from “roast beef ”, use your tongue and fingers to figure out hers. Don't peel anything like an onion. Use your palm against her upper thighs to aid in opening things up. Labia are sensitive too, so she ain't gonna complain about giving them attention. Experiment with pressure, you're not sanding bondo, but she's not a soap bubble either. What about the freaking clit??? Slow down chief we're getting there. You still have to investigate the “hood”. Follow the inner labia to where they converge, there should be a small pocket. Again this varies alot. If you find a hard bump, then you've found the clit and she has no hood. Run the tip of your tongue around the outside of it. Google clit alphabet. The idea is to keep brushing around it, or lightly over it, but not push directly on it. Relax, the more time you take here, the more gold stars you get. And don't forget to keep your fingers busy with other bits, it all adds up. Otherwise the clit may be underneath the hood, partially or even totally covered. Fear not. The clit itself is NOT the magic “button” you've been lead to believe. Rub a finger or two over the top of her hood. You should feel the bump underneath. If not keep rubbing gently, this ain't NASCAR. When you find the pea under the mattress, you want to surround it without pushing down on it. The trick is to gently massage her hood sliding the clit around underneath to get some friction between them. The up shot is that fully covered clits typically are not used to lots of stimulation, so a little can go a long way. Pay close attention to her reactions. Increases in breathing rate is good, sharp breaths mean pain. Moaning is great, snoring is not. Most importantly keep practicing, take your time, and keep learning.
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10/21/2007 6:47 pm |
The Art of Undressing Your Lover What began as online flirtation quickly move on to steamy chat and then to a desire for more. Your heart leapt the moment your lover from afar asked to meet in person, and it leapt again when you agreed. A meeting for coffee and casual first contact proves to you both that you will soon be spending many hours together, naked. Anticipation builds as the day of your first rendezvous gets near. You have arranged a meeting place and a time. That day, only hours away and you feel your heart beating in your chest, you feel alive, and yet removed from things around you. Your mind is on your lover, and your lover’s lips, your lover’s hands, your two bodies pressing together. Finally the moment arrives and fondling follows. You melt into each other and the time comes for clothes to be removed. You remember to take your time and tantalize. “Take your time”, “Take your time”, you hear yourself thinking, but you are being undressed faster than you are undressing your partner in passion. The built up sensual tension and needs of the past days is more than enough to make your first session hot. Fumbling with buttons and zippers is more frustration than art, but is proof of your excitement. The true art of undressing your lover begins after your first encounter as you use touch and teasing to relive that excitement. You meet again, this time for drinks and dancing. The act of undressing your lover begins the moment you sit down. You look deep into the eyes and gently touch a hand that is resting on the table. Soon it’s time to dance, dance slow and close. Making contact, your hands delight in exploring the body pressed firmly against you. Whispers in the ear and soft kisses on the neck send shivers through both of you. This dance is such sweet torment as excitement builds, but it will find no relief in this place. A private place to indulge your lust is needed. The dancing is left behind and the privacy of an anonymous hotel room is found. The door closes and you are alone again, but this time you will go slow. Your lover sits in a chair waiting as you stand behind. Your hands begin a massage of the shoulders and neck. Soft moans tell you that your hands are finding the right spots. Now they must seek out more. A top button is undone and then your hands roam and caress. When your hands return they find all the buttons undone and a chest ready to be touched. More moans as nipples are teased and the sexual tension rises. You help your lover stand up and begin kissing each other all over. Laying your lover down on the bed you discover that the undressing is happening before your eyes. By teasing and tantalizing you have made your lover want to be being naked before you.
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10/21/2007 5:00 pm |
The art of oral sex. First things first do not be over eager to eat the beaver. You need work those other erogenous zones first to get your girl ready for the main event. Going straight for the pussy when the women is not ready means you either need to use a lot of saliva or some other lubricant and the female juices should be the only lube you need to use. It’s always a turn on for her to know you love her taste. Then when you are down there make sure you use variation don't just go for the clit or just flick with the tip of the tongue use the whole of the tongue front and back and cover the whole area. Every women is different but I've always found that spelling out words with whole of your tongue across her labia (flaps) and the clitoral hood works wonders, it also allows you to discover what area is most sensitive for her and when you find that spot work it. Then when that clit is engorge and it will be kiss it, suck it lick and flick it but always be responsive to your girls needs some like it hard others are so sensitive this can cause them pain. Then when you've finished down there and your happy with the jobs you've done tell your partner how much that turns you on as some women still find oral sex as a taboo and that’s well bollocks. Keys for me are Patience, Variation and Be responsive if your hitting the spot stay there and you will find your face covered in her juices always a good start to any sexual encounter.
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10/21/2007 2:39 pm |
ORAL SEX and THE MAGIC MALE “G” SPOT In our modern approach to sexual engagement and with all the rush and tear to have a sensational time, we often forget that sustained pleasure is possible and in fact preferable to the “one two wham bam thank you Mam” event that so many are into. The lead up to oral sex is as important to the event itself as the components cannot be separated. I have known amazingly beautiful women who have simply never been taught of this incredible spot that makes the oral part incredibly wonderful. So many ladies rush in with heavy touch, grabbing the penis and then wonder why its all over in a few minutes. Once shown what to do they then have a new perspective on sustained sexuality. The secret is to find that special place that gives incredible pleasure and that numbs the penis for sustained pleasure. It is place that many people have forgotten about. I refer to it as the G spot for men. For centuries, it is was a carefully taught part of the routine of the Tantric masters. It is an erogenous zone that is without comparison. Once you find it, a lady can sustain an erection in her partner for hours and play out the oral component without triggering ejaculation. The stroking which is the key element passes a key nerve junction in the extreme lower abdomen. The zone is located between the legs just behind a mans testes. To best experience the sensation the man lies on his back with his legs a little open. The lady uses two fingers in a light stroking action that starts with the fingers being about three inches apart starting where the butt and thighs connect, but not along the butt crease. She then draws her fingers lightly towards the testes and brings her fingers a little together but not fully closed, finally coming up behind the testes and to the base of the penis. This gentle stroking is only just to touch the skin and is repeated time and time again. For many guys the sanitation will send them groaning for intimate intercourse. The lady now alternates the stroking with oral and then back to stroking. However, discipline is a must and your lovers long term benefit is at stake, the longer you experience it the more intense the sensation at the time of intercourse. Believe me it is not only guys who want to rip in there, so self control is paramount for a sustained experience. I started doing this and with practice found that male orgasm could be reached and sustained for hours on end. The essential location is about where the female portion would be if a man had such. Maybe it is this that fact of something not being there that connects the female giver and male receiver. Then enjoy oral in the best manner possible. Remember it all takes practice. Go slowly and enjoy!
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10/21/2007 2:27 pm |
From Pilotx1957 MAKING LOVE AT THE BEACH My sex life took an amazing turn when I experienced the sensation of making love a the beach. My first experience was with Sharon, a lady friend who invited me for a beach picnic. Sharon was a Church Choir lady so I expected a day with no surprises. The weather was sunny and there was a touch of romance in the air. The beach she chose was at the end of a remote sandy headland about 40 miles out of town and required a walk along the waters edge to get there. After strolling along we noticed another person walking towards us and as we came closer noticed that it was a guy wearing nothing but a golden all over tan and a smile. My first thought was “..Damn it, Sharon is going to turn around and walk right out of here. But she took it, as if nothing happened, then I noticed a cheeky grin on her face. A few moments later she asked me to stop and wait, explaining she had to do something. To my total surprise she ran back to the guy with the tan slipped off her dress to reveal what was a gorgeous bare butt and shapely legs and only a bikini top. She gave him a peck on the cheek and then ran back to me and explained that she had always wanted strip off in front of a stranger. I was speechless yet understood what she meant as I had always wanted to do the same. Our eyes connected and we kissed passionately. While I caressed her bare butt and thighs she slid her hands down and undid my jeans, then gently ran her hands between my legs, past the magic G spot. As we walked along our clothes became redundant to be replaced by the tingle of the summer sun. Being well endowed, I was worried about having an woody bouncing around. Noticing my concern she assured me by saying that it was natural and that nobody was going to be concerned as the beach was approved for nude bathing. To my delight there were now other couples walking along with their gear off. We then selected a quiet place to set down. What happened next was out of this world. I suggested that we put on sun screen. Slopping it on each others bodies was wonderful. Without saying anything she slipped over on top of me and we connected and with a gentle rocking rhythm we went to extreme ecstacy. As other couples walked past we simply waved and smiled. No one was concerned. We were both so thrilled and delighted in being watched by others, something we had never thought about, but found to be very excited. For me the beach was never the same. Sex on the beach certainly got 11/10 on the sex wow factor scale and is highly recommended! Be sure to pick a legal clothes off beach!
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It was a long week. Today was bad. I'm battered and worn by the trip through the mayhem of the commute. I arrive at the door and there stands the reason for me living. Her dark, silky and shining strands of hair glisten in the afternoon sunlight. Her sparkling eyes mirror the smile she creates on me. She embraces me and the world has disappeared, lost in the warmth and softness that is her. Soft and plush are the lips that kiss me, welcoming me to OUR world. The sun has set, the night is cool...the curves of her hips sway as I follow her upstairs. The melody of the windchimes serenade us as we watch each other slowly undress. "She is SO beautiful", I think as she lays down and looks up at me. Gentle kisses and sweet murmerings of love ignite the passion flame. I am in her arms, her slender legs wrapped around me as we kiss deeply, heatedly...lovingly. I look at her face and am mesmerized by the awesome glory of her beauty. I am kneeling at the side of the bed. I can feel the stubbles on my cheeks as they rub against the softness of her thighs. I teasingly flick my tongue at her moistness and feel the welling of her pleasure as her body trembles in anticipation of what I deliver to her. Ever so slowly, deliberately, I lick her clit. I run my tongue vertically along her pussy...and she softly moans, quietly, but I KNOW that sound. She wants MORE. Faster and with more pressure I probe her dripping warmth...and she moans...AND... she starts to writhe with the rythym of my firm and skilled tongue. I apply every imaginable type of touch with it that I can create...but NEVER without HER pleasure as the objective. I love her, I want her to FEEL that love. I lick, kiss, nibble and tease the ecstacy out of her...she moans. Relentlessly I render her a mass of quivering, unbridled body of pleasure...she MOANS. She moans and writhes until she screams in a climax of pleasure. That's my job...I love her. She is my life, and she creates that willingness within me to have the ability of my tongue to make her.............moan.
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10/21/2007 11:17 am |
Begin by teasing his inner thighs and lower scrotum with your tongue. Caress the shaft of his penis slowly as you let your tongue work it's way around the base of the scrotum and finally to the base of the shaft. With one long lick, drive your tongue across the shaft from the base to the tip. As you go, let one hand follow by cupping two fingers in an o shape around the base, then sliding after the tongue up the shaft. Give the tip of the cock one or two good sucks, sliding your tongue aroudn the tip when it's in your mouth. Don't let your teeth touch the penis at all. Next, grab his cock about half way down the shaft and begin pumping his cock towards your mouth. As you're pumping with one hand, reach under and lightly grab his scrotum in the palm of the other hand. Let one finger or two tricle tantalizingly towards the anus. Let your lips lower slowly over the tip of his penis and onto the shaft. Rhythmically work your tonge around the tip as you move your lips up and down the shaft of his cock from about the 1/3 way to the top all the way to the base of the tip. Keep the tip in your mouth the whole time and roll your tongue back and forth over it. As you get your rhythm going, start sucking harder and harder on the shaft and tip. Begin to moan and buck in delight when you sense that he's about to cum. As the first bursts hit your throat, increase the intensity until you've pumped every single drop out of him. You've just given the perfect blowjob.
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10/21/2007 2:38 am |
The art of undressing your partner I get out of the shower and my woman is sitting on the couch, I notice she's wearing a sexy outfit I've never seen befor. Her eyes meets mine with a fuck me now look. She pulls me twards her body and she begins kissing my neck and face. we're both getting hot and bothered with each others touch and feel. I can't help to notice the fresh smell of her soft body as it presses against mine. I'm ontop of her now and I begin kissing her all over. I begin to go down her body slowly pausing at each button to undo with my teeth and I'm rubbing her soft tits as I do so. When the buttons are undone I kiss and lightly lick her stomach up to her breasts and begin sucking her hardened nipples. Her leggs begin to spread telling me to start rubbing her inner thighs. I rub her thighs and every once in a while I lightly brush her crotch with a dellicate hand. I begin to go down her stomach and undo her pants the same way as her blouce. Once her wardrobe is all unbuttoned I sexily strip them from her body, kissing her the whole time. She wasn't wearing a bra so now alls thats left is her panties. With her panties on I go downher stomach again and begin nibbling her wet pussy outside her panties, kissing it as I do so. I slide my hands under her bottom and and grab hold of her panties with my hands and teath and slowly pull them off from her all the while kissing and nibbling her hot juicy pussy. And we fuck all night long.       Now Taking Bling Requests
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How to have a Successful Threesome Successful threesomes are like a beautiful piano duet, with both artists working together to make the instrument's strings sing. The couple has to really understand each other's desires, hot buttons, constraints, and fantasies; and find someone who fits well into those parameters. So, patience, persistence, and communication is important in finding the "third." Let the candidates know what you are seeking. The couple should evaluate the responses together, selecting the person who both of them feel is an excellent fit. Then, it is important to get to know the "third" during drinks or a meal, and only if the chemistry is right, play. The most difficult part of a threesome is the transition from clothed to nude. Once all are nude, nature takes it course. But, getting there takes some planning and the right initiative. A good way to set the mood is to discuss each other's swinging experiences. Dancing is a smooth way to begin to get closely acquainted and turn up the heat. Hot tubs are a excellent way to break the ice, get undressed, and kick off the action. The couple should discuss the concepts beforehand to determine what feels best for both of them, and then the pre-selected one take the initiative to start the action. For an FMF, the couple's female should take the lead, and invite the guest to join in dancing; trying the hot tub; or just getting close, touching, and kissing. Once the action gets going, the couple's female should undress the other female, and let the guest undress her. After they are fully involved, the female of the couple should invite the guy to join them. He should take his clues carefully as to when to play with the guest and what kind of sex she desires. For an MFM, the couple's male should take the lead, asking the guest if he would like to dance with her, join them in the hot tub, or start sharing her kisses. She should start stroking both guys dicks, either through their trousers, or, if they are nude, directly. After things heat-up, the remainder of the clothes should come off. Both guys should focus on lot of foreplay and oral sex to get the temperature of her to a peak, including making her climax at least once. Then, since we feel that that "guests cum first," the guest has the first turn at sex with her, while the couple's male continues to give her foreplay, including working on her lips, ears, nipples, and toes. The guys can then take turns or work together to give her DPs in any combination she desires. After everyone is sated, it is nicest to chat a while, shower together if feasible, express appreciation for the great fun together, hug, say goodbye, and leave. The next day, a follow-up thank you message is good, and writing a nice testimonial builds his or her reputation and opens doors to meeting other swing partners.
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10/20/2007 9:59 pm |
I never knew how turned on I could get just by adding a little dirty talk to my sex life. The first time I told my wife that I wanted to watch her fucking a group of men she was a little surprized... at first. But as we continued and I told her how I wanted to dress her up as the slut she should be, a see-thru blouse, high heels and a skirt so short that she would show with each step that she had nothing under that either, and take her to the bar and watch the guys all go nuts hanging around her, she started to breath pretty hard. And as I added that she was to pick up on 6 or 8 of them to take back and fuck all at once, filling all 3 holes while watching the others watching and waiting their turns, she started moaning and groaning! I just loved it when she started telling me to fuck my nasty slut wife. WOW! I guess dirty talking really does the job sometimes. Now if only I could get her to really go out and let me watch her.... after all, that IS my strongest desire!
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10/20/2007 8:41 pm |
If you're right and as you say, "Its all about the ladies orgasm gentlemen,her total satisfaction should be paramount,your ultimate goal,if you will.Trust me if she is completely satisfied,your climax will be elevated exponentially," then I say we're in a pile of trouble. Look at it physiologically--from the prostate's view--and ask your urologist why doctors everywhere are writing about increased UTI disorders in males and in particular the rise in chronic prostate disorders. Ultimately, this tends to predict more serious disease of the prostate earlier rather than later. What urologists say when one discusses this with them may seem contrary to most religious beliefs and what you're saying since doctors now believe that prolonged and disrupted sex in an aroused male is damaging to the prostate and that down the road those who "go all day screwing" without satisfaction--release of physiological tension everywhere in the male--will find their sexual activity limited and possibly ended. Your last sentence is shaky and misleading since a woman cannot be completely satisfied. Your man has been lying to himself all the time he's been fucking the daylights out of his woman but especially those he has struggled mightily in order to effect an orgasm in them. Other than that I enjoyed your comments.
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10/20/2007 8:37 pm |
on the oral sex, first get cleaned up, shower together, do you best to clean up your partner, plenty of soap on her pussy and around, so the lady should do the same, rub each other clean. Oral cleanliness, yes brush the teeth thoroughly, and use oral fluid to rinse mouth. When thing smell nice, perhaps apply a bit of perfume around. In oral sex, first lick and suck the tongue before anything, suck the ladies tongue, by turn OK. Then undress, then lick the tits, both man and lady have tits. Lick down, lick the ladies' leg, slowly move up to lick the upper leg. The lick round the pussy, count 10 rounds, lick narer the pussy hole, count 10 rounds. Then pull apart to expose the clitoris, easy to find the top area, then find it, then lick it, keep licking, till the lady groans, keep licking, keep licking, till the lady push you head away. Then know when to stop ok.
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1 post 10/20/2007 8:20 pm |
The Art of the Threesome So you and your husband have found the perfect woman for your first Ménage à trois; she's got the looks of Jessica Alba, the breasts of an 18 year old, the legs of a super model and she's willing and promising to take you and your hubby to places you've never even dreamed of. Stop right there! Having been both the third in the bedroom and part of the couple hosting, there are some things you should know and I'm here to help. The Pregame First of all, get to know this woman; she may be into things that you've never even heard of. Experimentation can be fun, but I bet your husband wants to know if she's going to strap on a dildo and use it on him! Also this is the time to be honest, if fucking your husband is off limits, make sure that she knows. You don’t want to find yourself tied up and forced to watch a hot blonde riding your hubby (or maybe you do?) So be sure to include the things you like as well, for example if you like to have your nipple nibbled on, be up front it’ll make your night more enjoyable. The Main Event Don’t script it out like a movie, because you’ll only be disappointed when something doesn’t go as planned, but do have a plan. We always start in the hot tub; it’s a great way to get everyone’s clothes off quick and it sets the mood for erotic fun. I make my hubby watch as I plant the first kiss on her lips; I make sure it’s soft and sensual as I let me hands wander all over her and pull her against me so tight that even the water doesn’t flow between us. Before the tub boils over, I lead her to our bedroom. Since she is our guest, I like to make her the center of our attention and you should too. I always take my time; I plant kisses everywhere on her body, then I work her pussy slow and use the techniques that work on me. My hubby has his penis in her mouth getting hard. When he’s ready, I’ll get into a 69 so my hubby can easily alternate between my mouth and her pussy and I love to taste his cock covered in her juices. Once we all cum, we realize it’s only the beginning of a wonderful night. With three people in bed, there’s always someone ready to go. The Morning After We’ve all had one-night stands and no one likes them. If you had a good time and want her to come back, make sure that she knows that. Don’t rush her out, have a nice breakfast planned, and discuss what worked and what didn’t. Once she’s ready to leave, give her a seductive kiss, one that she won’t forget and one that will make her want to come back for more.
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10/20/2007 9:24 am |
THE FINER POINTS OF ORAL SEX.I WOULD LIKE TO HELP YOU GIVE AND RECIEVE MORE PLEASURE BY SHARING SIMPLE, AND AT THE SAME TIME, INTELLIGENT POINTS OF VIEW THAT YOU PROBABLY MIGHT NOT BE FAMILIAR WITH.MY NON COMMERCIAL PROFESSIONAL STUDIES AND ACTIVITIES INVOLVE GENERAL AND SPECIFIC HEALTH-CARE SELF-SUFFICIENCY EDUCATION.SENSATIVITY IS PROPORTIONAL TO OUR LEVEL OF HEALTH.AS A BIOLOGIST, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT ALL LIVING BEINGS MUST BE ABLE TO COMMUNICATE,BREATH,EAT,ELIMINATE,REPRODUCE,AND MOVE.ANY MEDICAL DICTIONARY WILL DEFINE A VERTABRAL SUBLUXATION AS CAUSING INTERFERENCE TO NEURAL TRANSMISSION.AS A DOCTOR OF CHIROPRACTIC,I CAN REMIND YOU THAT YOU CAN'T FEEL WHAT YOU CAN'T TRANSMIT OR RECEIVE.GOOD HEALTH MEANS HAVING NO SUCH BLOCKS ON THESE AND OTHER LEVELS.I TEACH RESPONSABLE PEOPLE HOW TO ELIMINATE OVERLOAD,HOW TO DETOXIFY,AND HOW TO LISTEN TO THEMSELES SO THAT THEY DON'T CREATE THESE AND OTHER OBSTACLES.AS AN APPLIED KINESIOLOGIST,I TEACH TWO FAST AND EFFICIENT METHODS TO UNDERSTAND AND ELIMINATE EVEN YEARS OF TOXINS BY YOURSELF AT HOME FOR FREE WITH NO RISKS.THEY INVOLVE WEIGHTS ON THE ABDOMEN(TO GENTLY LOCATE,REMOVE,AND VERIFY YOUR PROGRESS)AND WRAPPED ICE ON THE PAINFUL PORTIONS OF YOUR ABDOMEN(TO RELAX THE HOT INTESTINAL SPASMS THAT BLOCK THE EXPULSION OF THESE TOXINS-THE RELEASE OF WHICH WILL CHANGE SO MUCH MORE THAN YOU CAN EVER IMAGINE).SUCH A CHANGE INVITES TO REFLECT ON YOUR DIET.TASTE LIKE BEAUTY IS NO GUARANTEE OF LASTING SATISFACTION.AS A YOGA TEACER,I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT YOU CAN'T FEEL OR TRANSMIT THAT WHICH YOU CAN'T CONTROL.AS A JAZZ TROMBONIST,I KNOW THAT HARMONY REQUIRES THE ABILITY TO LISTEN TO THE OTHERS WHILE
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Talking Dirty ‒ the subtle art of using words appropriately They say that 19th century guys were excited by a fleeting glimpse of a woman’s ankle. That says a lot for what stimulates us humans ‒ the things we like but experience rarely. Nothing dulls the senses more than having too much of something. Ask any porn film cameraman whether seeing beautiful naked women turns him on. OK, maybe that’s not the best example! Anyway, it’s the same with talking dirty. If you use strong language all the time in normal speech, what makes it erotic when used during sexplay? “I nearly had a fucking accident with a car driven by a fucking arsehole on the way to fucking work today, and now I’m going to fuck your arsehole Darling.” So many words that should be erotic have lost their special appeal because one hears them all the time, in films, on TV and, probably because of that, increasingly on the street. Bruce Willis take note. So if you want to get the most out of talking dirty, save sex talk for sex not for swearing or being angry or just being plain coarse. Then when you use it as part of sexplay it really has some meaning. The next thing is to recognize when it is likely to be a complete turn off. Let’s face it, some people are simply not prepared to be verbally experimental, and all you’ll get is your face slapped, or kicked out of bed on a cold night or - worst case scenario - they’ll call you a perv and never want to see you again - but the same person might enjoy having chocolate sauce licked off their most intimate parts which of course isn’t perverted at all! OK, so you’re having sex with someone who you think will respond to a bit of earthy conversation. Your love talk starts to become spiced with those forbidden words neither of you would use normally, and just the mention of fucking her cunt with your cock has you both quivering with anticipation. Sometimes a bit of coercion is required. Such words have never crossed her sweet lips. Even better then, when you manage to coax them out of her. Make her repeat them and sip them from those lips like nectar from a honeydew. As things progress you could explore whether she’s turned on by being made to feel like a sex queen or a sex slut. Every woman is different, and what’s good for one is a no-no for another. And while a woman might love being called a filthy slut when you’re doing weird and wonderful things to her, unless she is really submissive it should be in the nature of “you lovely filthy slut” rather than “you horrible filthy slut”. So, be an explorer, navigate your way to her vocal hot spots with exotic words, and boldly go where no man has gone before!
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I actually don’t have a way of talking dirty I say what ever I feel like in bed and outside bed and that turns women on. Well maybe not all but at least I have no problem telling them what I like. I have more problems with women thinking to please me into what I like even if they don’t like it. I always find it interesting to talk about sex with strangers its so funny to see how open they really are. After a club last night we start talking about toilet sex slaves and the girl really enjoyed the conversation it was really fun. I think the best way to talk dirty is say what’s in your mind all the time, so scream like in the porn movies is like dancing aerobic on the dance floor it does not work and feel unnatural.
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A threesome should not be taken lightly if you are in a long term deal with your partner. What happen if the partner fancy the other person and they start seeing each other after the sex date? Do you really know your friend to let him in to have an intimate time with your partner? The best threesome I ever had is when there are 3 people that know each other but are not partners and everything goes. Then you don’t have to think about the “after” and you can just enjoy the moment. Since I am pretty active I been invented to several threesome from Affairlook website and I always make sure that this is what both wants before I see the couple. The funny think it’s mostly the men want to have another man fuck her lady? Is that not strange the lady agrees after some pushing from the men and when she had it one time she can not have enough. I also heard the word my Wife is clean but that nothing I listen to if you are in the threesome deal then there no such thing as clean or not clean. How do you know that the guys they had gang bang with the week before was clean. Always use condoms even if it can be many with so many partner changes.
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10/20/2007 5:04 am |
How I Give Head I like to start by teasing him before I even get to the point of giving head. It’s so great to feel his dick get excited as you rub your hand on the outside of his pants. I like to stroke the whole area and go on the inside of his thigh and I whisper into his ear that I soon will put my mouth on his cock and have him cum in my mouth. I now have his full attention and undo the belt buckle, put my hand inside his pants and stroke the head of his penis. I bend down and put my tongue on the head and lick just to get him ready to burst out of pants. I will pull off his pants and lick up his inner thigh and all around his balls. I go up the shaft to the top and lick all around that nice hard and shiny head. I try not to leave any part of the body out when I am seducing so I take my wet tongue and go up by his belly button and up his chest to his nipples. I will take a small nibble on the nipples and go up his chest to his neck so I can whisper that he is about to have the cum licked and sucked right out of him and swallowed as this is all just for him. I like to put some oil on that gets hot and lets me play with my mouth or hands. I take that cock in my hand and stroke it gently and make sure the palm of my hand goes over the tip and let my mouth take the head deep into my throat. Feeling the back of my throat and coming out to my one hand stroking it and making sure that the other hand has the balls and the area below a leading to his butt get a nice gentle stroke. This brings some fine moans and groans. I put myself between his legs and just take my tongue and swirl around and around his dick and back into my throat for a deep and juicy stroking. I can do this for a long time as I love to hear him getting pleasured and wanting to cum but yet not wanting it to be over. I have nice soft large breasts and like to let his legs feel them as I continue to give head and stroke that fine dick with my wet and soft hands. My nipples get hard and are just waiting to have that very hard dick between my breasts and encircling his dick and stroking up and down and when he comes popping his dick out of my breasts I take my tongue and circle the head and take that dick up and down my breasts. I keep sucking and stroking that fine cock until he can’t take it anymore and explodes into my mouth.
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10/20/2007 4:52 am |
How to please a woman orally, keep it simple, this is no rocket science, kiss her lips and give her your full attention, suck her tits and make sure you lick, suck and gently bite her niples, continue to kiss her tits and work your way down to her inner thighs then legs and tease her some more as she feels your tongue on her body, work your way back to her tits and suck one first and then the other and dont forget to suck her hard nipple now, now slither your tongue until you hit her swollen wet pussy and run your tongue from her pussy to her clit and do this for a while and at the same time tongue fuck her pussy by now she is so excited and you now concentrate on her clit with your tongue as your hands rub her tits and hard nipples as you suck, lick and tease her clit as she experiences intense pleasure, tease her until she cant take it no more as you play with her tits and nipples and make her explode like their is no tomorrow. The trick to this is simple, you as the giver must want to fully give her the pleasure of her life, time and time again and again and as often as she needs.
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10/20/2007 4:46 am |
Clean is a must! Shaved I have found also makes it better for both involved, all the way back to the ass, hair can really spoil the moment . I like to start with it soft especially if it’s pretty large. . I put a little olive oil on all items so I won’t get dry mouth, and so it’s all slippery. With him lying on his back I start at his neck and nipples, hip bones inside thighs and up and around just grazing and teasing everything , waking up all the erogenous areas and putting them on edge. I am usually positioned so he can see my face so when I take his cock in my mouth he can see and feel it. Licking and sucking the balls and up the shaft all the way down to the hole around that a bit while hands starts moving and touching gently. Licking my way back up the shaft I wrap my fingers around the bottom of the shaft and hold the skin taught so I can take the head and all in my mouth with no skin dragging against my teeth and the nerves are right below the surface. While sucking and flicking my tongue over the head taking it all in and out turning my head so my mouth spins around the shaft and up over the head while my hand is also stroking and turning in opposite up and down spinning motion keeping the skin tight as my mouth goes up and down. This I have been told it’s completely undoing and is very hard not to cum with the quickness. I try to deliver it in small portions at a time. I use one hand to touch and massage the balls and finger the hole, reach up and pinch nipples go suck and nibble them a bit. My hubby likes to watch it is a turn on so I like to put extra action for him some rubbing the head on my nipples touching myself. Head is not just about his dick in my mouth its licking and teasing all his areas so the actual mouth part is sensational. We usually don’t go till he cums we change the venue a little adding other acts, but if we do I like to smear it all down my breasts and to my pussy in a seductive way.
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10/20/2007 4:06 am |
1) The finer points of oral sex ‒ You must LOVE to do it, remember, you will want to put your toung inside and taste her juices, thats for you, you need to do this for her, pull the clit in your mouth hold with your lips and make 100% clit comtqct with your lips and toung until she bounces, then 2 fingers inside quickly and she will squirt, always happens for me. 2) How to have a successful threesome - Once you have determined the trio, let the women go first and get into it, wait to be invited, then devoured by both. 3) The art of talking dirty ‒ Simple, ask what they like and how dirty, set the stage and ask for feedback turn it up or shut it down based on her feedback, it;s about her, REMEMBER! 4) Venturing outside of the bedroom ‒ Adds spice, see what she wants to do, cars usually are good, laundry rooms? Nope. 5) How to undress your lover ‒ No input there, when we are ready, we undress and get busy, the faster the better, usually start in a fish net body suit with an open croch, allows her to stare with toys, we like it real wet when I go down, I want a real slimy face!
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10/20/2007 2:35 am |
I absolutely love giving a clean sexy lady the best of oral sex. It doesn't start with your mouth clamping on her pussy, guys! It starts with the light kiss of the eyelids, the tip of the nose, then a soft lingering kiss on the lips. I slowly work my way down her body, tongue at her neck, then down to where I slowly circle the nipples. More time should be spent there, because by then my ladies are always starting to moan already... of course, after the first time, it's because they know what'd coming. From her tits I travel my tongue down slowly to her navel, lingering there just a moment, then to her pubic area. I actually pass my tongue down her slit and lower before bringing it up slowly to that gorgeous clit. Quote a few ladies like you to stay lower quite a while, actually entering their tight assholes. With a super clean lady, which I always insist on, that's no problem. Since I feel and hear her moaning I can enjoy her heat as much as she does herself. I then lick lower yet, running my tongue up both inner thighs, one at a time of course, before sliding it back up. I finally get back to that beautiful little clit, licking it up and down, then back and forth, before lightly sucking it into my lips and very, very, very lightly nibble and suck on it with my lips only. By that time, my lady is starting to go crazy with her orgasm, and I continue to lightly lick, suck and nibble on that clit while I carress and often actually enter her ass with my fingers, which makes the orgasm much stronger yet. I have actually had ladies finally grab my head, even while they are still bucking with pleasure, and pull it away from her pussy saying to stop, they just can't take any more of that intense pleasure anymore. And it doesn't end there either, guys. From there, a lady needs to be licked all the way back up again to her lips, carressing her all the way, to feel that gradual let down that most ladies crave. I have never given oral sex to a lady that hasn't returned for more.... LOTS more!
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1 post 10/20/2007 12:52 am |
The Oral Sex - points to remember This is the best of all. Even better than penetration. Why is that? If you are a girl take your partners stick slowly out from the basket and just touch and feel it for a moment as it is a part to make your oral pleasure exciting. Squeeze it a bit including balls and use your thumb to rub the point which make him crazy. Do this foreplay and then just keep your lip over the stick and go over it up and down. Also make your cheeek feel the stick. Do this for a while and use your tongue to play with the tip of his stick. Now draw the skin back and taste the front part. Tickle it and make him crazy. Draw the skin further back and give him little pleasurable pain whil you use your tongue to play with the front. Now use your mouth to have it all in. Do this gradually to give him pleasure. while you do this play with his balls ; Touch, squezze, press and pull down. Now take your mouth in and out. Once in while go for deep throat and wet his stick. Go in and out dear. Now yo are making him crazy. Listen to his sounds and moan and identify what he likes most. Repeat that and you can make him cum in no time. Take it to your face and reuse cum to make his cock slippery. Use your lips on the toe again. Now u should win and can proceed to play.
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A Guy's Guide To Oral Sex For a lot of women, oral sex is the most efficient way of having an orgasm. A lot of guys are more than happy to do this for their women, but are often incapable of doing well enough for the lady to fully enjoy it. There are three keys to performing good oral sex on a woman, patience, persistence, and attentiveness. Patience: Good oral sex is not something you can just dive into. Think of your mouth and tongue as tools, slowly and meticulously working over a beautiful piece of art. There are other parts to a woman's body other than her pussy that would enjoy some attention. Spend some time teasing other parts of her body. Don't rush! Kiss and lick her breasts and nipples. Kiss her wrists and arms, feet and instep, shoulders, and the small of her back. Kiss her lips, and spend some time on her inner thighs. Proper teasing can be excruciatingly joyful. Breathe on her pussy, lick all around it without touching her clit, anything you can think of to build and prolong the anticipation. Tease the ass too. It is very sensitive as well. Persistence: Take your time and change it up. Move between licking and sucking and kissing the clit. Use fingers or toys. Don't just stick with one thing. Keep at it until you feel her thighs tighten around your head. Attentiveness: Most important! Pay attention to what gets the best response and keep doing it. Not only does it feel good for her, you show you care by proving that you're paying attention and trying to give her the best orgasm possible.
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10/19/2007 7:11 pm |
How to undress your lover ‒ how to turn disrobing yourself and your partner(s) into the main event Well this is perhaps one of the most difficult things to do when the chick in front of you is smokin HOT.Now the first thing to do is being patient. Speak only about her not about yourself( which most STUDS do)try to convince her that she is the only person on earth you care for. praise her beauty not her boobies or booty. Act like a gentleman. this is not a one shot show but if you are eager to see her naked... then may be talkin strt forward is not the right way.ask her out some place preferably public n placid and a candle light dinner wud work wonders.next use your commonsense and intelligence to being her on the track of sex talks not provocative but mild topics.The first touch is important grab her hand, look deeep in her eyes and tell her that she is the most beautiful girl you have ever seen. now dont go ahead and kiss her . wait for her response.if she presses your hand or looks with interest ITS TIME... Kiss her very gently and if response is quick prolong it. now BREAK the kiss and praise her body.I m sure she will turn on by your kind words. Next give her Hug and caress her body and tell her that you have won my heart my princess i wud admire if you wud like to show me your divine beauty that lies beneath this dress....TRY IT OUT WILL WORK DAMN SURE
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