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Winners of the Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest!
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Winners of the Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest! Thank you all for participating in our Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest It's good to see there is so much knowledge amongst our members! We have a winner for every category, they each win a 1-year Gold membership and an Affairlook T-shirt. ...and the winners are: 1) The finer points of oral sex insomniac194u THE FINER POINTS POINTS OF ORAL SEX FOR A GUY Now me being a completely straight guy, I have no particular expertise in carrying out this act but I do know what I like and know what works. Important factors 1.) Firstly the most important factor in a blowjob is lubrication 2.) A blow job doesn’t just have to be sucking a dick you may use your hands we don’t mind Now like I was saying lubrication is important, for me there is no better lube than saliva. This can be the guys or the girls. Note guy’s girls might appreciate it if you give them a hand with this so they don’t feel alone in this and used. This is done either by, spitting directly in your hand and giving a hand job or by just spitting directly on the dick. Turn-on's 1. Now guys find it a turn on when a girl can deep throat all the way down 2. Perform with out there hands. 3. Play with a the guys nuts 4. Eye contact is key; it’s a real turn on to see that girl staring up at you with those lustful eyes while sucking on your dick 5. Letting a guy cum on you or your breasts 6. means a lot more to a guy when a girl swallows 7. Anything out of the ordinary like performing the act in a car or while standing up Tips 1. Depending on the size of the guy the girl can use the first few fingers and wrap them around laying your lips just above your fingers performing a hand job and blow job at the same time 2. If the guy is bigger a fist can be used 3. You may also use both hands laying your fingers or fists over each other 4. Kissing and licking up the sides of the shaft are also very good 5. licking just below the head of the penis and focusing on that area is a quicker way to make a guy cum, it’s basically the g-spot of the penis 6. Switch up going shallow and deep 7. Switch up going fast and slow 8. Tease the tip of the penis with your lips 9. If nothing seems to be working ask the guy what you should do don’t be shy he knows what he likes Warnings 1. Do not let the cum get in your eyes it burns worse then soap 2. Do not rub the top of the penis to vigorously you’ll get a guy hard quick but you’ll also make him urinate 3. If you can’t handle going deep and he's forcing you. You can also use your fist to bridge the distance; it still feels good you’re basically combining a hand job and bj 2) How to have a successful threesome YourNewIrishLove How Two Women Seduce a Man: Introduction to a 3-Some 1. Women - Enjoy a relaxing evening with your female lover this winter. The glow from the fireplace reflects in her eyes. The rhythm of the music touches your soul. The vanilla candles flicker with every breath and sigh. 2. Begin exploring your lover with your hands and mouth, whispering...promising...pleasing. Don't stop, even when he walks into the room. Your lover understands the role she will play tonight. Let him watch you kneel between her legs, nibbling, sucking, tasting. Have her make eye contact with him as she arches her back, your mouth buried in her cunt. Do not look at him. Make him want more. 3. And he does. He removes his clothing hastily and kneels next to you...watching...wanting to touch her, stroking his cock in anticipation. On your knees, kiss him passionately, the taste of her cum uniting you. 4. Your lover moves between you and takes his cock into her mouth, her dripping pussy and ass within reach. Tell him to spank her, then guide his hand to her waiting pussy. He will take over from there, fingering her, as her mouth continues to stroke his shaft. 5. Gently bite his lower lip, reminding him of your presence. Then topple him onto the waiting pillows. This is a familiar routine, so your lover knows not to scrape her teeth against his shaft as he falls back. 6. Keeping eye contact, mount him. Your lover will lean over and give him a deep kiss. He will probably finger her pussy with one hand and squeeze your breast with the other. Stroke his hard cock with your pussy, rocking back and forth, your nails digging into his chest. Your lover will begin licking and sucking his balls every time you are on the upstroke. 7. You feel his body tighten, his breath come in short gasps. Now he will cum for you. Dismount on the right, your lover on the left, your hand going to his slick shaft, stroking. He bucks against your hand, until the cum shoots out in waves. Keeping eye contact with him, direct his shaft, so the cum sprays both you and your lover. 8. When he is spent, you will both trail a wet kiss up the side of his shaft as a thank-you. All of you should have smiles on your faces by now. It's okay to laugh in relief and release. You know he'll satisfy both of you as soon as he catches his breath. You reach for your lover and give her a deep kiss in appreciation of her efforts tonight. 9. The aftermath should remain peaceful, soothing and playful. Do not analyze or dissect the evening, or do anything that would break the mood. He'll need time to process what happened and you'll probably hear from him the next day, to set up another encounter. I hope this training guide is beneficial. Enjoy! 3) The art of talking dirty brimstone100 Talking Dirty ‒ the subtle art of using words appropriately They say that 19th century guys were excited by a fleeting glimpse of a woman’s ankle. That says a lot for what stimulates us humans ‒ the things we like but experience rarely. Nothing dulls the senses more than having too much of something. Ask any porn film cameraman whether seeing beautiful naked women turns him on. OK, maybe that’s not the best example! Anyway, it’s the same with talking dirty. If you use strong language all the time in normal speech, what makes it erotic when used during sexplay? “I nearly had a fucking accident with a car driven by a fucking arsehole on the way to fucking work today, and now I’m going to fuck your arsehole Darling.” So many words that should be erotic have lost their special appeal because one hears them all the time, in films, on TV and, probably because of that, increasingly on the street. Bruce Willis take note. So if you want to get the most out of talking dirty, save sex talk for sex not for swearing or being angry or just being plain coarse. Then when you use it as part of sexplay it really has some meaning. The next thing is to recognize when it is likely to be a complete turn off. Let’s face it, some people are simply not prepared to be verbally experimental, and all you’ll get is your face slapped, or kicked out of bed on a cold night or - worst case scenario - they’ll call you a perv and never want to see you again - but the same person might enjoy having chocolate sauce licked off their most intimate parts which of course isn’t perverted at all! OK, so you’re having sex with someone who you think will respond to a bit of earthy conversation. Your love talk starts to become spiced with those forbidden words neither of you would use normally, and just the mention of fucking her cunt with your cock has you both quivering with anticipation. Sometimes a bit of coercion is required. Such words have never crossed her sweet lips. Even better then, when you manage to coax them out of her. Make her repeat them and sip them from those lips like nectar from a honeydew. As things progress you could explore whether she’s turned on by being made to feel like a sex queen or a sex slut. Every woman is different, and what’s good for one is a no-no for another. And while a woman might love being called a filthy slut when you’re doing weird and wonderful things to her, unless she is really submissive it should be in the nature of “you lovely filthy slut” rather than “you horrible filthy slut”. So, be an explorer, navigate your way to her vocal hot spots with exotic words, and boldly go where no man has gone before! 4) Venturing outside of the bedroom Couple_mly Venturing outside the bedroom The Beach: Despite the fact that sand might get into places you would rather it not, the beach comes out as the number ten place to have sex. Make sure you take a blanket. The Bed: It's comfortable, it's convient and it's built for the job. The only thing to be aware of is that most people prefer clean sheets while doing the deed. Dirty laundry does't make for good foreplay. Weddings: And we are not talking your own wedding. Many find the commitment a little too much and decide to comit to their own fun and games at a friends/relatives wedding The Car: Not always the most comfortable place to partake in some sex, but backseat as as popular as ever. The Aeroplane: Joining the mile high club still ranks high on the list of lusty place to have sex today. Reach for the stars but be careful not to get caught because your membership could cost you some serious jail time. The Woods: Suprisingly many people seem to enjoy bearing all in the woods these days. The Kitchen: Is a great place to get steamy and sex on the kitchen counter top sure beats doing the dishes in our book. Bath Tubs: Talking of steamy encounters bathtubs and showers are hot for more reasons than just water. The Great Outdoors: It's time to break out the hiking boots and renew those State Park subscriptions. Almost nothing beats a lusty hike and a lusty break. The Swanky Hotel: A little luxury can do more for your lovelife than it can for your checkbook maybe but you can't put a price on a hot night of pampered, passionate luxury. So break out the bubbly and indulge in some sordid sex. 5) How to undress your lover Curious2CMoor Buttons, Zippers and Ties Oh my! The art of disrobing gets little attention but it’s just as important and effective as foreplay, oral and penetration. The key is in the touch, skin contact, vocal use and mental stimulation. Don’t just take/rip off the clothes, make it a part of the sexual experience! 1. Begin by using a blindfold or if you are a Sub/Dom have your partner close their eyes. This increases the mental stimulation. Avoid total darkness; YOU need to see what you’re doing and their reactions. 2. Whether the fastener is in the front, back or side, undo it remaining as close to your partner as possible. Use your breath (make sure your breath doesn’t smell), use your lips (hopefully they’re soft-no tongue), and use your hands/body to maintain contact at all times. Example: Use your finger to follow the zipper down ‒ Use your lips for light kisses as you unbutton each button ‒ Gently breathe on the neck or shoulder as you untie the tie or place your cheek next to theirs. 3. Use your hands to glide over and caress the skin as you slide down a strap or lift a shirt/sweater over the head. If your clothes have already been removed, use your body to maintain skin contact during the disrobing. 4. From behind, wrap your arm around your partner as you unbutton, unzip or unhook the garment (you may have to use your teeth to hold the garment). 5. Get on your knees (or sit) to remove undergarments, socks/hose and shoes! Light, soft kisses (NO TONGUE) on the belly or butt cheeks is great when removing the panties/boxers! Use your breath and body to maintain contact. 6. Your words are extremely powerful! Speak about how soft/hard they are. Tell them how good they smell/feel to you. If they have a tattoo, piercing or cute birthmark, let them know you noticed it. Tell them how much you want to taste them as you remove the panties/boxers and add a mmm, mmm, mmm to create a vocal vibration when your chest is against their skin. Tell them where you’re going to put your tongue once the clothes are removed. Speaking also increases the use of your breath. 7. Do not lick, suck, stroke or penetrate any part of the body. This is about the touch, the lip kisses, soft caress and vocal stimulation. There is no need to rush, however, it doesn’t have to take forever. Don’t rip any item. Don’t ball up and throw down anything. Place everything together in one area to avoid being stepped or sat on (I didn’t say you had to fold it ‒ lay them on a chair, table, etc.) Tip: There is NO tongue kissing in this process! All parts of the body can be touched so don’t forget the face. Remember, you are in control, so control yourself as well… DON’T LOSE IT! If you would like to read all of the entries you can find them in the Entries Post for the Adult FriendFinder Sexpert Contest Winners will be contacted shortly. Events |
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congrats to the winners!
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10/23/2007 5:25 pm |
Woohoo ...congrats.....I wanna venture outside the bedroom more often now  Run your fingers through my soul. For once, just once, feel exactly what I feel, believe what I believe, perceive as I perceive, look, experience, examine and for once; just once understand....Heavenlee
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10/23/2007 2:56 pm |
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