I'm a single dad and I work a lot. My daughter is my life but there comes a point when you just need a lil "ME" time. I have lived in Virginia for almost 8 yrs I don't get out much which makes meeting people tough. I have tried numerous sites to no avail including this 1. I would like to find like minded individuals for friendship fun maybe more. I have been interested in the swinging lifestyle for some time just never seem to meet the right people. Is it just me or are there other people with the same situation ? It seems to me like every site guarantees results but most the time for me it is all about money . I support my daughter as well as her mom so finances arent always readily available. I do work for an airline so distance isnt an issue however timing is. I would lik to meet real people with similar interests and if the chemistry and attraction is there see where it leads. I am pretty open minded not bad looking a very nice guy have lots to offer and just want to make friends if possible. Why is it so difficult ? I have been interested in the swinging lifestyle for some time never seem to meet the right people nor do I knoow how comfortable I would be but would like to try it nonetheless. Every site guarantees results but most the time I get ads or people requesting gas money or to join a cam site I dont get it. Are there any real people on these sites