Scoring with women at the gym
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Posted:May 19, 2017 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2017 4:45 pm
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I go to the gym with my wife from Monday to Friday every week. Sometimes I'm in the same class as her, sometimes not.
I'm always amazed about the number of women who attend high-intensity exercise class, compared to the number of men. In many cases, I'm the only guy in a class of 60 fit, strong women (my wife tends to prefer the lower-impact classes, such as yoga or stretch).
In one class, the instructor admitted to me that macho guys are intimidated by fit, strong women.
I always find it easy to start or continue conversation with these beautiful hot women, since we share the same interest in fitness. What do we talk about? If I haven't seen her before, I ask if she is new or is attending this class for the first time. Smile and be confident, without appearing to be a guy on the prowl. Women in exercise classes are in fantastic shape, but are self-confident about their bodies. If you talk to her in approving sentences, you will gain their trust in a few minutes.
I find that gently teasing your fellow workout partners is the best way to gain their trust. Here are a few examples:
1. I told one of my fellow female workout partners that I hadn't seen her sweat until she attended a High class -- she loved it...
2. I mentioned to my partner (by name) to the right of me that I hadn't seen her since the previous class a week earlier... had it been that long? She loved it...
3. A girl who I know is a huge marathon runner... I teased her by telling her I was shocked that she was walking the running track.... she loved it....
4. A Latino lady from Guatemala... I tease her with my poor Spanish, which she insists I need to improve upon lol...
5. An eight-month-pregnant lady who I have chatted with for the last 12 months -- every time I see her, I tell her how absolutely fantastic she looks, even though she complains how big she is.
6. Yesterday, I saw a lady to the left of me who I hadn't seen for a while; I mentioned as much, and within a few minutes, she told me her life story.
The point of all this? If I had been a single guy 30 years younger going to these classes, these ladies would have taken me home and eaten me alive lol... they knew I was married, but the flirting was intense and mutually beneficial. They got the attention that every woman craves, without the implicit assumption that I wanted to get them into bed asap.
But if a young guy had tried the same approach, I'm sure he would have scored big time with these fit, young, horny women. I just wonder why more don't show up at the exercise classes and try their luck. I'm sure they would not be disappointed!
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