NSA vs FWB
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Posted:Oct 26, 2011 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2011 9:22 pm
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something I put together.Please feel free to add
| NSA- No strings attached | FWB- Friends with benefit | | only talk when you want to play | a friend that one talk to on occasion and what not,even when play is not on the cards | | you know their chat handle | You know their names | | dont ask,dont tell business.Good for One night stands | know exactly what you want out of the relationship |
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Monogamy is going out!
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Posted:Oct 24, 2011 5:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2011 9:01 pm
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by Derrin Hart
We seem to hear it alot lately. Marriage is on the downfall and couples more and more are not hooking up until later in life. Most men and women are attracted to people other than the one person they marry. It’s natural to look and desire. All the guys I know are hot for sexy girls … it’s a no brainer. I hear friends of mine when we go out say how cute that guy is or how sexy he is and chat about it over and over again. Which brings me to my point, if not for the old ways, the religious views and scare tactics of the past, wouldn’t we all be happier if we could be with others and sexually enjoy whom we desire as long as no harm is done? Could we have marriage or relationships where the norm would be to do such things? I think the past will always make us think twice and it’s too bad.
Would you enjoy seeing whom you pleased and your mate enjoying anyone she desired?
For myself, I’d love to see my wife take on more lovers. She is young and lovely and has a greater sexual appetite than myself. In the past she has experienced men whom brought her to passions that drove her nuts. She skipped to a different beat and got fully into her sexual self, yet still morals and what is right and wrong gave her guilt. The same guilt men have when wanting so badly to experience other females. Is this guilt any good?
Let’s take a closer look. For men loving a woman is easy. If she is someone that we develop feelings for we will probably always love her unless she does very bad acts in society. It’s natural to be protective of the beautiful opposite sex … it comes easy. Sexually men have the urge to do it with anyone they find attractive and when they do they don’t lose feelings for those that came before. Then again, wouldn’t a woman want such a guy to like whom they like, if they like them more than another? Do you prefer to have a guy stay with you ladies because he has to … because he can’t have another? It seems silly.
Now for the ladies feelings tend to run in another direction for many. Yet, I think society has caused this through the years. A woman is very capable of enjoying multiple men and being very happy. Her multi orgasmic ways lend to great chance for amazing sexual experiences. However, it’s the I’m a slut mentality that can stop such seeking. All of us are locked in a world of this is how it should be and what is normal to me is not normal.
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secret-ary
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Posted:Oct 24, 2011 4:43 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2011 6:34 am
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the delhi guy sent in more pictures of his secretary!Too bad nothing happened after the initial meet years back! May be I should stop posting them 
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Being the BULL
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Posted:Oct 19, 2011 12:51 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2011 9:15 pm
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A bull within the cuckold/hotwife phenomena is a stud. He is a man that is ready to satisfy the hotwife. A fantasy stud is also well groomed and for the most part very well endowed. He should be able to charm the wife and her husband and be comfortable in such a situation as to be asked to be the sexual provider for the married couple. The bull in terms of his sexual prowess should of course be long lasting and able to hold off on his own orgasm until the wife has hers. He should have no trouble getting an erection and holding it all night. As mentioned his cock should be of adequate size as to satisfy the woman at hand. If the woman is tight moderate size is acceptable. If she is large in vaginal opening he must be thick and long to make her happy. He can’t be camera shy as many husbands like to take pics or film their lovely wives is passionate embrace. The hand picked stud must also be able to find the hotspots of spouses and know how charm operated when it comes to the excitement and satisfaction of any encounter. As far as personality, he has to be able to get along with both husband and wife. He needs to be classy enough to run with said couple he provides satisfaction for. Above all else he has to abide by the married couples rules. These rules are the foundation to the cuckold and hotwife lifestyle the pair has agreed to live by.
Jealousy is what ruins most relationships when other people are involved. These guidelines most be very well respected by the stud. There are certain techniques both physical and verbal that a bull should be proficient in. The physical techniques are all related to bringing the wife to orgasm. The most important being foreplay. A true bull is a master of foreplay. He must bring the wife to the brink of complete desire before entering her with his penis. This is key to making her want him, appreciate him, and desire him for future meetings. He must be able to build her craving up with good kissing technique. Magical kisses skyrocket a hotwife to great heights. The art of clit arousal be it with his tongue or fingers is a major player in the foreplay realm too. Women are all different in what technique they like, a bull should seek knowledge prior from the couple, wife or husband in such regard. In fact it is a great idea to have discussions with the husband before any sexual play. The early emails or chats or phone conversations will help enable the bull to gain great insight into the cuckold’s better half’s true secrets. These are her passion secrets! He should fine out her hot spots, be it her neck, ears, inner thigh, feet, lips, or anything else that sets her afire. The stud should have full know-how of what the wife likes best. Does she like it soft or rough, hard and deep, or slow and passionate with gentle kisses? Does the wife like anal sex, nipple biting, and spankings and does she desire her husband to join? These are all the masterful things a bull should learn as soon as he knows a meeting for sex is going down.
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chat transcript with a "wannabe cuck"
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Posted:Oct 18, 2011 6:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2012 7:43 pm
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wannabe cuck : hi
vikram_the_bull : hey
wannabe cuck : 29 m 28 f blr
vikram_the_bull : u in here for couples?
wannabe cuck : bull?
vikram_the_bull : cool.. u have made friends through internet before?
wannabe cuck: no
vikram_the_bull : have u met anyone before for alternate lifestyle..
vikram_the_bull : may it be couples/females/males
wannabe cuck : no
wannabe cuck : online chatting only
wannabe cuck : i saw your video
vikram_the_bull : so u r looking for bull ..for online chat?
wannabe cuck : very thick cock
vikram_the_bull : thanks
vikram_the_bull: so u r looking for bull ..for online chat?
wannabe cuck : yes
vikram_the_bull : ok..
vikram_the_bull : so u r familiar with cuckold terms
wannabe cuck : yes
vikram_the_bull : thats good... if u have time you should read my blogs..
wannabe cuck : ok
wannabe cuck) : how many wifes did you have
vikram_the_bull : does that matter?
wannabe cuck : depends
wannabe cuck : did you?
vikram_the_bull : i have met many couples..
vikram_the_bull : but not comfortable in putting a number to it
wannabe cuck : ok
wannabe cuck : you like chatting>
vikram_the_bull : only if its about getting to know people
vikram_the_bull : not into chatting as mode of fun
wannabe cuck : ok
vikram_the_bull : does ur wife know that u have cuckold fantasies
wannabe cuck : yes
vikram_the_bull : since how long
wannabe cuck : 1 year
vikram_the_bull : and how long u fantasising
wannabe cuck : 2
vikram_the_bull : and how long u been married?
wannabe cuck : 2
vikram_the_bull : wat interests u in cuckolding and why not swapping?
vikram_the_bull: i mean..like wanting to chat with other husbands..
wannabe cuck : i like to see her pleasured
vikram_the_bull: umm
wannabe cuck : by a fertile man...
vikram_the_bull : so u fantasise on breeding I guess
wannabe cuck : mostly her pleasure...other perversions are part of it
vikram_the_bull: coz u said fertile man..not virile man
vikram_the_bull : or u meant virile man
wannabe cuck : yes i did
vikram_the_bull : ok
vikram_the_bull : do u post in that site?
wannabe cuck : no
vikram_the_bull: planning to?
wannabe cuck : may be
vikram_the_bull : ok
vikram_the_bull : the pic in ur display holds any genuinity?
wannabe cuck : that is one of the few pics i have of my wife
vikram_the_bull : ok
wannabe cuck : you like?
vikram_the_bull : petite and raw
vikram_the_bull: yes i like
wannabe cuck" she has never had another cock
vikram_the_bull : most wives in have nt!
vikram_the_bull : good for u
wannabe cuck : i would have prefered if she had tasted more
vikram_the_bull : u mean before marriage?
vikram_the_bull : well,other side is always greener..u say it now coz u know she wasnt tht way
wannabe cuck : no i think it would have been very hot
vikram_the_bull : umm
wannabe cuck : even now..i would not mind if she took a lover
vikram_the_bull : no indian woman will do it on her own..
vikram_the_bull : unless she wants to cheat or very open minded
vikram_the_bull : and for that,u have to act miserable
wannabe cuck : every time we have fucked in the last 6 months..
wannabe cuck : it was talking about her fucking someone else
wannabe cuck : she gets very wet
vikram_the_bull : yes that will always happen
wannabe cuck : i am training her...
wannabe cuck : one day she will fuck another man
vikram_the_bull : good ambition
wannabe cuck) : just for sex
wannabe cuck : are you a dom
vikram_the_bull : yes
wannabe cuck : how would you humiliate me? Describe it to me
vikram_the_bull : I barely know you!why would i humiliate you?
wannabe cuck : coz i like it
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hot ass wife sanjana-6
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Posted:Oct 17, 2011 3:22 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2017 8:40 pm
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Marv:"The night's as hot as hell. I'm staring at a goddess. She's telling me she wants me. I'm not going to waste one more minute wondering how I've gotten this lucky. She smells like angels ought to smell, the perfect woman... the Goddess. Goldie. She says her name is Goldie."- Sin City
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Sharing and playing
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Posted:Oct 16, 2011 7:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2011 7:53 am
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Sharing and playing are the two keys to happiness in swinging and in any activity that a couple does together. The objective is to have fun and enjoy yourselves together.
Swinging is a great experience that can reinforce a strong relationship but also break down a weak one. It is an enriching experience that can deeply and positively enhance your relationship and sexual enjoyment.
Playing
Nothing better than taking swinging with the ideal open minded people. Swinging is not about real relationships it is just a game, swinging is playing and, most important, it is OK to have fun.
Swinging is all about having fun together, just connecting with people on a purely physical basis, remaining "uninvolved" and detached emotionally.
Jealousy is pointless if you take swinging as a game, as playing: you play the game, then you disconnect, go home and have more fun with your spouse.
Besides, swinging is about friendly yet impersonal recreational sex, not about bonding emotionally nor about personal sex (that is what you have with your spouse, on your own, in your private personal one-on-one relationship).
A playful couple actually encourages their potential for full and lasting enjoyment in each and every way. They feel comfortable with their sexuality and willingly explore new ways and travel new paths to heighten their sensuality. They are in love with each other and is one of life’s greatest joys. They value the intimacy they share with each other and those that they choose to play with. They have fun.
Sharing
Couples should discuss the "game" aspect. Feel it as a game, play and have fun.
After all, both of you know that you are having sexual experiences with other people, and yet, despite that, you still willingly and lovingly fall back into each others arms because you want to be together.
This notion, is crucial, it builds security, confidence and reassures both of you, after all, even though you are having sexual relationships with someone else, you come back to each other (love is love, sex is sex).
Besides taking it as a game, if the relationship is trusting, committed, both have an open mind towards swinging, and are communicating freely, it will help help vent hidden issues or potential conflict before they even become apparent. It improves the flow of feelings and emotion within the relationship4.
Watching a partner having sex, is an extremely erotic experience and sharing sex with others is highly exciting. These positive feelings offset and stifle jealousy, replacing it with a feeling of excitement, fulfillment and sensual well being.
If the relationship is strong, swinging is just another way for the partners to "play" with each other, it is another adventure that both are having together. And if both have always wanted to swing together and now are living out these fantasies, there is no room for jealousy.
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Munnar hotel murder: husband killed wife suspecting fidelity
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Posted:Oct 13, 2011 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2011 12:09 pm
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The mysterious murderer of a 25-year-old woman, Shyamala, in a hotel in Munnar in Kerala, turned out to be her husband, who suspected her fidelity. After killing his wife, Maheshkumar, fled the scene and allegedly committed suicide by hanging from a tree at his native village in Erode district of Tamil Nadu last night.
Shyamala, who hails from Madurai and was living with her husband at Mambalam in Chennai, had gone on a pleasure trip to Munnar with her husband, where she was found dead in their hotel room on October 10. Even as police suspected the involvement of Mahesh and launched a dragnet for him, he returned to his native village at Pattimaniakkaran Palayam near Gobichetty Palayam in Erode district and committed suicide last night.
Leaving behind a four-page suicide note, he ended his life by hanging from a tree behind his house, police said. Meanwhile, the Kottayam Police, after a post-mortem, handed over Shyamala to her parents, who had reached Munnar after seeing the photograph of their murdered in the media. A report from Erode, quoting police, said Maheshkumar left behind a four page suicide note, using a computer and 20 page of different letters to the family members in a note book before taking the extreme step.
He confessed in the letter that he stabbed his wife to death as she continued her relations with her boy friends, atleast six of them, despite his repeated warnings. Maheshkumar said in the letter that he married Shyamala after falling in love with her about five years back. They had no issues and were living in Kodambakkam in the city. He said Shyamala, who worked in a computer firm, had many boy friends and was frequently receiving SMS and calls from her boy friends in general and six of them in particular.
She was also frequently chatting with them on face book, he said adding, even after his repeated warnings, Shyamala continued her friendship with them. Suspecting her fidelity, Maheshkumar often quarreled with her and a few months back the couple even took the issue to the police station. As advised by the police, they had approached a family court, seeking divorce and started living separately. However, when Shyamala called him over phone last month and expressed regret for her acts, and suggested that they start afresh and live together, Maheshkumar took her back, saying "let's forget the past" A week after they started living together, the couple planned the trip to Munnar. While staying with her husband in the lodge, Shyamla again got a call from one of her friends and also received messages.
On seeing this, Maheshkumar became furious and stabbed her to death using a knife. After committing the crime, he left Munnar in a two-wheeler and visited several places in the last four days, before reaching his native village. On reaching his native place yesterday, he tried to committ suicide by slashing his wrist with the same knife he had used to kill his wife. As it was taking time, he went to the field at the back of the house and hanged himself, police said. In his letter to the, police, Maheshkumar gave the mobile numbers of all her wife’s friends and wanted police to take action againnt them. He said in the letter that because of his wife’s friends, he had to kill his wife and take the extreme step.He wanted to take revenge on her friends, whom he searched for in Chennai. He then returned home and committed suicide
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things not to do after you let another man fuck your wife
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Posted:Oct 12, 2011 10:56 am
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2011 11:02 am
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you made the decision of making your fantasy come true,you got her on board and got her involved and she had the guts to be the partner in crime.Regardless of swinging ,cuckolding ,threesome or not ,certain things should not be brought up in an argument. No matter how angry. Dash your head on the wall,break your fist banging on the table but NEVER NEVER hit where it hurts i.e say the things your spouse will feel worst about. Any relationship has a high chances of failing when something as intimate as making sex being used as part of the argument.
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