I'm back again
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Posted:Mar 26, 2010 8:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2010 9:51 pm
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Hmmmm. Spring is in the air.
But.
Am I really up for this again? Last go round was kind of a beating... and not just because I tried a little D/s. No, it was kind of an emotional beating.
I know, I know. You gotta have a thick skin to play around on here, blah blah blah. But you know what? I truly believe there are some other really nice, cool, decent people on here among all the sport fuckers and crazy, borderline personalities. Some other people who are kinda venturing out into the night to see what they might find. I think when you come across a real, genuine person on here, their good qualities really stand out, I guess in contrast to the usual riff raff.
Am I making any sense whatsoever? Or am I just mumbling into the void?
I dunno. If you're bored, look at my profile, read a couple of my blog posts and tell me what a screwed up mess I am.
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It's Been Real...
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Posted:Sep 4, 2008 9:00 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2009 3:17 pm
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OK, I'm going to be shutting down my profile and going inactive in the next week or so. Thanks to everybody who read, commented, or sent me a message or that I had the pleasure of chatting with on here. I may be back one of these days.
Y'all don't have too much fun without me!
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Keeping the faith
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Posted:Aug 4, 2008 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 8:41 pm
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In an earlier post I contemplated some of the reasons that looking for love online is a wonderful thing. But there is certainly a flipside to that which I am sure I don't really have to point out to anyone.
As a guy I have encountered (online - not in person, thankfully!) the following:
Crank skanks looking to earn a quick buck, borderline personalities engaging in desperate attention seeking behavior, scorned wives and girlfriends out for revenge fucks, guys pretending to be women for whatever sick kicks they get from that, the drunk and down and out, the merely stupid, the bona fide psychotic ... I'm sure I've missed a few of the stereotypes.
So when you actually meet someone really really nice - attractive, educated, sweet, down to earth, and totally, completely sexy.... like I did at lunch today, well, it restores your faith. And while it wasn't a love connection today, I did meet a cool person and make a new friend, and got a good reminder that out there among all the flakes, fakes and phonies, there really are some good people.
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Getting Tested
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Posted:Jul 27, 2008 5:00 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2009 5:21 pm
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So I went to get tested for STDs a while back. I was just over a pretty intense relationship with a woman I had met online. The first time she and I had sex, I had my condoms packed like a good boy scout, but honestly, didn't give them a thought until after we were finished and lying in bed, sweaty and sticky. So we continued our affair sans protection. What can I say? I'm not a 'sport fucker,' I don't have a 'routine' down. It's just how it worked out that time. I've been more responsible since.
I went to a testing place that advertised in the Dallas Observer. I was able to give a fake name, and they gave me a special code number to get the results. They drew blood for HIV and most of the other tests, but then the nurse gave me a little kit and sent me to the bathroom to stick a Q-tip an inch up my dick (I'm wincing just typing that) - that was for a couple of other STDs which I'm sure i can't spell. But i got the full round of tests.
I could have paid an extra $75 or something and gotten the results right away, but I really didn't think I needed to be worried, so I opted to wait a week for the results. I must have had a guilty conscience or something, though, because everything that happened to me for the next few days was some kind of reminder that I had been careless and irresponsible.
First thing, as I leave the clinic and go to my car, no shit, there's this big black bird sitting on the roof of my car looking at me, and doesn't fly away until I'm right there. Shades of Edgar Allen Poe! Then I pull out onto Garland Road, turn right into a traffic jam in front of a church where a line of cars in a funeral procession is starting to pull out, with a cop holding back the other traffic. As I'm idling in my car, I see a woman (the deceased's wife?) on the stairs of the church, crying and having to be helped down by people on either side of her. And things just went from there. In no other week have I been so constantly reminded of my own mortality.
So anyway, I'm a big believer in safe sex - it's a bit of a drag, but it's great to be able to enjoy sex worry-free.
Oh, and my results were fine.
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Cherry Pit part 2
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Posted:Jul 26, 2008 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2008 8:16 pm
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First of all, let me say that I fully agree with those who, regardless of their views on swinging, think that the people who run the Cherry Pit are scumbag assholes who are ruining an otherwise nice neighborhood. If you want to have a few people over for group sex or whatever, fine, that's just a few cars every now and then. If you want to run a business, then get out of the residential areas, get the proper licenses, and run your business. But don't try to pretend that it's not a business. Or at least don't be such an idiot that you go overboard and call attention to yourself, and then when you're busted try to be all self righteous about it.
BUT, I'm just as titilated as the next jerk reading all about it in the Dallas Morning News. What really got me though was the concept of "Fun Money." Is this common practice at swingers clubs these days? I've only been to a few of the off-premiss places around town and have never been to an on-site place or one of these house party things. But the Fun Money. What a diabolical concept! You're like the Federal Reserve, issuing currency! And I'm sure the Fun Money + Booze totally facilitates the sex. I guess the people who 'earn' the Fun Money get to turn it in for prizes, just like at Dave & Buster's. It's still blowing my mind.
One other thought. I'm not a lawyer, but I have to think that anyone who goes to a party that solicits 'donations' is just asking to be busted, even if you're just an attendee. Like most everything else in the world, Money fucks it up. If you want to have a swingers party, just have a party, and don't try to make a buck off of it. Just get naked and have fun. How difficult is that?
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Cherry Pit Bust
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Posted:Jul 25, 2008 4:42 pm
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2008 8:44 am
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I imagine some of the local blogs are already talking about this, but I've not been able to spend much time on here the last couple of days. But anyway, here's the pretty fucking LURID story from the Dallas Morning News from a couple of days ago. At the paper's website there are links to some very interesting pictures as well as the full affidavit. I'll have some comments on this a bit later, but for now, please add yours. And watch out for 'unidentified substances' floating in hot tubs.
Profitable Cherry Pit swingers club is no casual affair, says Duncanville
08:11 AM CDT on Thursday, July 24, 2008
By JON NIELSEN / The Dallas Morning News
DUNCANVILLE ‒ The Cherry Pit is more than a weekend hangout for a few consenting adults.
For the owners of the swingers club, it's a profitable enterprise where sex, booze and guns collide.
According to court documents released Wednesday, sex parties are held at the home in the 1300 block of North Cedar Ridge Drive every Friday and Saturday for 50 to 80 people, or 80 to 100 during special events and holidays. The documents showed that more than 7,000 people have attended parties there in the last year and that the owners can earn $10,000 per month.
Duncanville is trying to shut down the Cherry Pit, which city officials say is an illegal sexually oriented business. City Manager Kent Cagle has said that investigators are building a larger case that also includes charges of organized criminal activity, , narcotics trafficking and money laundering.
Cherry Pit's attorney, Ed Klein, said authorities have trumped up the charges against the Cherry Pit owners ‒ Jim Trulock and Julie M. Norris ‒ because the city's ordinance last fall targeting the business failed to shut its doors.
"It's the shotgun approach. They're going to try to allege whatever they can and see what sticks," said Mr. Klein.
An informant told police that patrons can openly solicit sex acts from others using "fun money" purchased in a manner similar to buying tokens to play a game at an amusement park So when authorities stormed the sex club last weekend, they found the expected: a stripper pole, bondage devices and thong underwear draped from the ceiling.
But what they didn't expect to find was hundreds of bottles of liquor and a cache of loaded guns.
The stash of liquor and weapons brought in state authorities, prompting a second raid Tuesday that resulted in the seizure of the liquor.
In the court documents, the informant who attended a party this month vividly describes a place where patrons walk around in the nude, condoms are rarely used, bed sheets appear to not be changed and the tepid hot tub water where sex acts occur isn't chemically treated.
Mr. Trulock, 59, explained to the informant that he has the right to host private parties in his own home.
"Trulock compared his sexually oriented business to a church group holding a barbecue and charging a $10 admittance to cover the cost of the food," the affidavit said.
Most patrons are usually asked for a $50 to attend a party. Females are usually admitted free, because Mr. Trulock says that single females attract male attendees.
Patrons also are asked to sign a waiver saying they won't sue the Cherry Pit over any injuries that occur or any sexually transmitted diseases contracted.
Making their way through the home, investigators found that a portion of the Cherry Pit is blocked off as a private residence. The public area has a kitchen, bedrooms, a bar stocked with more than 300 bottles of liquor, a dance floor and a hot tub area.
In some of the rooms, pornographic video is displayed on televisions and a disc jockey plays music from the second floor, which overlooks a dance floor. One of the doors to a room displays a sign: "Caution: Adults at Play."
"Another room contains six mattresses pushed together and couches along the wall, on which the informant has witnessed five to 10 couples engaging in sexual intercourse within plain of view of those in attendance," the document said.
One room has a bondage wall and couch.
The informant also saw the hot tub area where a couple was having sex.
"After the couple left, the informant saw 'Jim' skim the top of the water with a net and then empty the contents of the net into the trash."
City officials say residents who live near the Cherry Pit have complained about the activity at the home. Residents say that cars line North Cedar Ridge Drive when there's a party.
The city has posted "no parking" signs in front of the home. When there's nowhere to park, the informant said, patrons are shuttled in from another location.
From the road, trees and brush block the view to the front of the home. A video camera sits perched at the end of the driveway monitoring outside activity. Mr. Trulock told the informant that nobody walks on his property without his knowledge.
"The informant also heard 'Jim' tell a female attendee that he placed 'no trespassing' signs on the property, which gave him permission to legally shoot anyone who came on the property."
In a city news release issued Wednesday, police Detective Dan Hunt said the Cherry Pit's owners are endangering and exploiting patrons.
"Individuals that elect to participate in the swingers' lifestyle behind closed doors should not be charged to do so, and they should not be exposed to disease, fire hazards, or any other dangerous hazardous environment. They [the owners] are taking advantage of swingers while claiming to be champions for their cause."
But the couple's attorney, Mr. Klein, said the city is wasting its time and money.
"It's my opinion that the city is going to squander whatever resources it can to get rid of these people," he said.
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Thank You For Not Shaving
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Posted:Jul 22, 2008 5:18 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2008 8:42 pm
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I've heard it said that real pussy has hair, and I for one appreciate the natural state of affairs. Many women today apparently feel pressure from television advertising and mainstream porn to shave their pubes.* I'm here to say that not everyone holds that opinion. It's sexier to be yourself than to look like a barbie doll. If you're a natural beauty and want to be appreciated, please hit reply and say, 'Hell Yeah!!'
Hail the furry triangle!
*And I will concede that I am a product of my time. Growing up and coming of age in the 70s and 80s, it was VERY uncommon to find anyone who shaved, in person or on the glossy pages of those old Playboys and Penthouses which burned their impressions on my adolescent brain (and not to forget, my prized possession from back then, the 1976 Hustler Beaver Hunt Annual!)
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Greetings from my cock
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Posted:Jul 21, 2008 8:54 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2014 5:41 pm
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Not really. I know everyone is extemely disappointed that I don't have a dick shot on my profile, but honestly, a picture just doesn't do my magnificent member justice. I will be more than happy to schedule a time for you to see it in person.
I was at the grocery store yesterday and on the soft drink aisle I saw these little sawed-off mini Big Reds, and I thought, 'that would be funny to take a picture of my dick next to one of those.' But then I thought that nobody would get the joke or else think that I had a really stupid sense of humor.
Sometimes I get men browsing and contacting me, and so I see my share of cock shots. It's funny that when you're corresponding with one of these people, it's like you're writing directly to the penis, and the penis takes on the personality of the person... or do I have that reversed? Anyway, it's weird sending an email to a penis. I'm not offended or complaining, just sayin it's kinda weird.
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Hometown Blues
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Posted:Jul 13, 2008 7:00 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2009 6:41 am
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So I went to my parents' house over the weekend, a couple hours away. By Saturday evening I'd had enough of everybody and so I slipped off to the back patio to listen to my ipod. Some sad songs to indulge my melancholy mood while I watched the stars come out. Later, after everybody had gone to bed, I got in my car and drove around. My route included driving by every old girlfriend's house and every girl-I-ever-had-a-crush-on's house. Nobody is still around, of course. And no breaking through the time barrior. Not that I even really want to see any of them. I usually don't even bother going to my high school reunions.
But I'll tell you what I miss, and it's the fundamental thing I'm online looking for. I miss the rush and excitment of meeting someone new. I miss the butterflys in the stomach before the first date. I miss working up to the first kiss. I miss wondering what it will be like. I miss watching someone get undressed for the first time.
So you go thru all that stuff when you're young, and if you're lucky, you eventually find a great partner and settle down. But you can't go back. You can never have the crush/tingle/butterflys/revelation thing again. You can't have it both ways.
Or can you?
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My first orgy
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Posted:Jul 11, 2008 10:16 pm
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2008 8:47 pm
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(I didn't write this, but it's SO hilarious and right on the money)
Oh man. How did I talk myself into this? This was not a good idea.
What am I supposed to be doing right now? Should I be doing something? She looks pretty occupied currently. She�s already handling three dudes. I guess I�ll just stand here and stroke it some more. Keep your head together Mike. Your time will come. Man this gangbang is awkward!
This seemed like it would be awesome. It always looked so cool in the videos. But all this waiting and watching is really uncomfortable.
I figured I�d just sort of fall into a natural rhythm and find my groove, but I�ve gotta admit that I am really perplexed as to the proper gangbang protocol here.
Whoa. She just looked at me. Does that mean she wants me to come up there so she can suck me off? Maybe that�s what she's indicating. But what if she didn�t mean that? What if I go up there and shove my junk in her face and she doesn�t want anything to do with it? I�d look like a real �s ass then. I�d better just wait here.
Man this guy�s taking a long time. Come on dude, who are you trying to impress here? There are other guys waiting.
Look at that guy�s penis! It�s way bigger then mine. Thicker at least. I hope I don�t have to follow him. She won�t even know I�m in there.
Oh man, he caught me staring at it. Well that�s just great. Now he�s gonna think I�m queer. I�m not queer man. I�m just a little self conscious. God this is awkward.
It�s too hot in here.
These guys are all saying sexy things to her. I�m the only one who�s not talking dirty. I should say something so that they don�t think I�m lame. Here goes....
�Yeah, you like that bitch!�
Shit. That was stupid. Now everyone�s looking at me like I�m some misogynistic asshole.
I am an asshole. Why did I have to say the most clich�, demeaning thing I could think of? Like I need to remind her that she �likes that�. Smooth move dumbass.
I wonder why she�s doing this. I�ll bet she had a bad childhood. She probably lacked a strong paternal figure in her life.
Damn it. Now I�m half mast. Now I look like the guy that can�t keep it up. Concentrate Mike. Stop psychoanalyzing and keep your mind on the sex.
Okay here we go, that guy�s done. About time. Should I go now? I�ve waited long enough, I�m going in there.
Damn it. The Italian guy beat me to it. I was here way before the Italian guy. How are we determining who�s turn it is here anyways? Was there some sign up sheet I missed or something? Damn it.
Steady Mike old boy. There�s plenty for everyone. Just wait it out. Deep breaths.
I hope no one tries to go anal when I�m taking my turn. I�m not real cool with my stuff touching another guy�s stuff. And I think that would be unavoidable. That would be really awkward.
Something in here stinks. Is that me? I hope it�s not me. Oh man, I hope it�s not her! Wait, no, it�s the Italian guy. Thank God.
Okay, time to make your move Mike. I�ve gotta get in there and mix it up. Other wise I�m that creep at the gangbang who�s just watching and beating off. You�ve gotta be in it to win it. Okay here goes.
Wait, what�s going on? Everyone�s finishing off on her! We�re climaxing already? We just got started! I haven�t even gone yet!
Okay stay calm Mike. No one knows that. Just finish yourself off so that you�re not the odd man out.
Well this was great. This was just great. A red letter day in my sad sexual history. And what am I supposed to do now? Do we all hang around for a while and talk about it? Where should I clean up?
God this is awkward.
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yeah, I know my profile picture sucks
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Posted:Jul 2, 2008 5:18 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2008 11:36 pm
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but that's just me trying to be discreet. However... when I'm online, I'm often in the chat area with my webcam on, so if you're so inclined, you can check me out in real time.
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