Guys, have you ever tried entering IM (Instant Messenger) and look for someone who you want to meet and attempted to page her/him and all you get is YOUR MESSAGE HAS BEEN DECLINED !! Isn't this a dating site were you will have the chance to meet new acquaintances, I dont know at least these people should be courteous or polite enough to page you back telling you I'm busy, I'm not interested and all kinds of other alibis, wow a lot of snobs over here... I dont know maybe you could share your experiences.