WORTH THE READ.....
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Posted:Oct 24, 2010 11:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2010 3:48 pm
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The New York Times - By RONI CARYN RABIN -
October 22, 2010
THEY have sex with friends, acquaintances and people they’re casually dating. Many have never been tested for H.I.V. or any other sexually transmitted disease, but they rarely use condoms.
Who are they?
The irresponsible scoundrels are not teenagers, but 50-something singles, according to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior. Which is one of the most comprehensive national sex studies in almost 20 years, carried out at the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University.
It turns out “friends with benefits”, a sexual partner who is “just a friend,” and neither a soulmate nor a romantic interest, isn’t just for teenagers and college students anymore. Young adults may have given the practice a new name, but it probably started during the ’60s sexual revolution, when the middle-aged Americans of today were young themselves.
Most men over 50 do have sex with a partner. But almost 23 percent said their most recent sex was with a “friend” or a “new acquaintance.”
Among women 50 and over, that figure was more than 13 percent.
Those numbers don’t surprise the experts.
“‘Friends with benefits’ are uniquely suited to two groups of people — the young, who want to delay starting their life, and older people, who don’t want to complicate it,” said Pepper Schwartz, a sociology professor at the University of Washington in Seattle who serves on the sexual health advisory council of Church & Dwight, which manufactures Trojan condoms and financed the sex survey. “People in the middle are building families and building a life, and they need more than a friend, they need lifetime partners.”
For older people who are casually having sex, “it’s warm, it’s nice, they care about each other, but no one is under the illusion this is a grand love,” Dr. Schwartz said.
For middle-aged heterosexual women, limited expectations of a sexual relationship may be a function of demographics: Since women outlive men, there are simply fewer older men around, said Debby Herbenick, one of the study’s authors and associate director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion.
Only 25 percent of those 50 and over who were single or had a new sex partner or more than one partner in a year, said they had used a condom the last time they had sex, the study found. Almost 40 percent had never been tested for H.I.V., and a significant number didn’t know the sexual history of their partners.
Experts say many reasons could account for this behavior. Many older singles have spent much of their adult lives in long-term committed relationships, and may think of H.I.V. and AIDS as a concern of young people. They haven’t been targeted by public health messages urging condom use, and there’s no parental figure handing out condoms along with the car keys on a Saturday night. Older men may also worry that condoms cause erectile problems, Dr. Herbenick said.
And they may just have gotten out of the habit, Dr. Herbenick said. “They may just be thinking, ‘Gosh, it’s been 20 years since I used a condom, I’m not going to start again.’”
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A Bitch of a Week....Next Week Can Only Be Better Now...
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Posted:Oct 10, 2010 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2010 6:09 pm
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The people just aren't like the ones I knew in this site in the past.....
Talked with one that could only call when he was going somewhere away from home, went to bed at 7 pm and told me that his dead mother talks to him.
The second I met, not the first time but the third.....same thing, sit around and this one went to bed at 9 pm.
Please tell me that there are some ALIVE and SANE Males here!
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~~PENIS ENVY~~
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Posted:Jul 22, 2010 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2010 1:27 pm
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Looks LIKE a penis!
Enough With the PENIS shots.. Regardless that you think yours will just make women faint on site.....
TRUST me it wont!
I saw a picture of a penis and a tv remote.. I believe he wanted to show - his - wonderful girth and size......
I have one thought seeing things like that .. I laugh and all I want to play with is the remote
and
Im still laughing each time I think of it....
as I am sitting here playing with my remote!
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~~~~COULD YOU?~~~
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Posted:Jul 20, 2010 7:46 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 12:16 pm
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Feeling restless, feeling high..this aching heat, it will never die
it consumes me so, from the inside ....wanting escape, release, to be on fire
I need to hear you breathlessly curse, moan and sigh my name
to taste the salty sheen of your skin and feel every nuance of your embrace
tell me with your body how much you need me
tell me with each thrust how desperate you are
I want to hear your crazy erratic heart beat
to slowly melt in your heat as you feel me
to taste our sinful essence on your tongue
entangled in my mouth like you can't get enough
throw me on the bed of lust
~consume me~
I want you to make me lose myself completely.....
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~~ MASTURBATING~~
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Posted:Jul 16, 2010 11:09 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 12:16 pm
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Still caught up in the wanting
body basking in last memories
as I lie in bed with eyes wide open
while my fingertips rhythm lulls me
so quick my awakening
feigning for a quick release
soft touches turns to strokes
screaming for release
dew drenching lips clutch
as I steadily descend into the nest
ambient wet sounds, rises and falls
strumming the jewel
beloved sensations on the rise
just as I visualized you riding
till I am ambushed by the surge
head thrown back
releasing
and I turn over lazily in bed
aromatic with the scent of sexual dew
lips glistening
thighs wide open
still wanting you......
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~~A LADY THAT KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS~~
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Posted:Jul 15, 2010 8:54 am
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2010 8:01 pm
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You lost me today
but still I return
my body aching
for You, I still yearn
blood rushing, hearts pounding
the heat is on
breathing harder, moving faster
the world is gone
no inhibitions or love
no thoughts of You
just heat and sweat
of things left to do
the lust, the desire
entices me more
the thoughts of knowing
You'll never be at my door
harder, I scream
as You start to tease
no time for those games
time only to please
faster and stronger
the end is so close
Your hardness is fading
and I am engrossed
You finish, but me
alas, I'm still hot
I force You down
and You know the spot
Your tongue, I admit
I sometimes shall miss
but now I am done
and I leave with a kiss.....
Good bye....
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~AW~
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Posted:Jul 11, 2010 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2010 7:54 am
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Your hands speak a language only my body can interprete
writing mystical glyphs on my skin
inscribing poetry on the curves of me
I know these secret tongues raised in silent communication
tracing messages on my flesh, swirling signs and symbols with
intimacy
I translate the subtle tales told by your quill pressed to my
parchment
and I tremble in anticipation of it's conclusion.....
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~NAUGHTY~
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Posted:Jul 10, 2010 7:20 am
Last Updated:Jul 18, 2010 8:26 pm
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we reeked of sex and the scent of lust hangs heavy, staining the air, taunting my sanity....
Your fingers still lingers, tracing my curves and hollows, causing my sex lips to purr in soft wet sounds of beg
and I rise to cradle myself on all four becoming 6 to your 9
~primal flesh~
no longer woman any more
tongue playing acrobat on the tip of Your hunger
~mouthing~
"come this way"
I feel You growing like a hot house plant as my mouth dances down Your swaying vine till the ridge of each rib pulses flush against my throat
and my lips feeds on Your silent words
my head rocks to the pulse of Your moans
and I paint a love poem
without
metaphors
suckling the ink
You were hiding within....
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~~Just a thought~~
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Posted:Jul 5, 2010 2:38 pm
Last Updated:Jul 20, 2010 8:01 pm
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I have noticed that many people fail to read a profile....or if they do, they can not read....
I DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH MARRIED OR ATTACHED PERIOD......
do not believe in that!
So do not waste my time or your's with a flirt or an email....normally I will answer in some reply but if you are married, attached or do not prefer to ask....keep on truckin' by....NOT INTERESTED!
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~Sex as Poetry~
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Posted:Jul 2, 2010 1:05 pm
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2010 4:16 pm
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in unfathomable night
dark desires sheds itself
deep in fantasy
in erotic fusion
when twin soul join
pain and lust melt into one
skin brushing against skin
tormenting and tantalizing
limbs meshing and fusing
bucking bodies heaving and sweating
breaths merge
writhing tongues twist
in rhythm to heated pants
primal cries....
music torn from wanton creatures
thrashing in sublime rapture
soaring to molten eruption
streaming fluids
blinding like lava
between throbbing sexes
choked cries and ragged words
flee tormented forms
wringing last moments of ecstasy
chasing more....until utterly drained
stillness drifts over them
cradled in passion's embrace
cheek to heaving chest
limbs laced
barred souls sleep as one
exhausted and sated.......
for now. ~smiles~
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~~YOU COULD........~~
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Posted:Jul 1, 2010 2:04 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 12:16 pm
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be mine
the taste of your skin rolling, gliding over my senses
erotic fantasies flashing over in my mind, to let me know
how much they don't compare to you.....
I can almost feel the hard press of your body,
warm
firm
molding with nimble fingers and hands
working their spell over my desires...
we could be one, you know that
we could become trapped in our lust,
staying tied down in our own little play
world held back by a thirst that can not be quenched
I could be yours......
wrapped in a clear blanket on display
for your amusement
the servant you're found
the lover you choose
we could be ours.........
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