My last few days as a blogger
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Posted:May 12, 2011 9:22 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2011 6:42 am
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Hey Guys
Well I am come to the point where I can no longer work from home and I have been looking for a full time job. One company wants me to start as early as next Monday. If this happens this means I won't be on this site much at all. In the evenings I am very busy with family commitments, taking two online College courses and I won't have time for this site.
My time here has been special and I meet some wonderful new friends. for Kris - thank you, it meant a lot and helped more than you know.
I will try to blog something tomorrow but I don't know what the rest of my time will be like.
Thanks everyone
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What is this site is really about
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Posted:May 10, 2011 6:53 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2011 6:24 am
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Howdy ya'all
So what is this site really about? "This site is about sex and swingers." To stay here you have to be mature enough to handle just sex.
After bloggin for four months, reading blogs and talking with women on chat, I have come to the conclusion that men on this site simply want to have sex with you and move on.
Some women that I talked to actually hope that this site will bring them their soul mate or partner for life. Yet this is an adult sex site that started with the mindset of swingers and singles having sex. This isn't l a v a or e har mony or any other dating service. This is a sexual site. There are explicit videos, photos, chats. With that said, yes good things can happen, you may find the right person, but for the majority on this site it won’t. If you do find the right person from this site, how can you trust them to NOT cheat on you? I have heard stories after stories of women that found someone on this site and he ends up cheating on them. In one way I have to say, DUH! You found them on an adult sex site. While would they stop just because they are with you. (I didn’t mean to offend anyone with that comment)
So women shouldn’t be surprised when a man spends the time getting to know them and after the finally have sex there is no communication or compassion afterwards. This site has bred that into all its male . This site guarantees that you will get laid within three months. From a males perspective it sounds like shooting fish in a barrel. Yes that easy. (but it isn’t)
While there are some nice men on this site the majority only care about fucking you and moving on to fuck the next person. They are here for the game, the hunt and tracking down women for sex. This is bred into the male mindset from the days men had to hunt for food to stay alive. Hunting women for sex is the closest thing to hunting animals for food these days.
There are a few men that are more compassionate (like myself) that actually care about you but the majority don’t. So to be a member on this site you really have to be mature enough to handle the fact that you may have sex with someone and afterwards they may not even contact you. This doesn’t mean they thought you were ugly, or didn’t like your body or didn’t think you were good in bed. They simply want to move on to the next fish in the pond. I had sex with someone here, we were both mature during the act and afterwards. We haven’t hooked up since and who knows maybe we won’t. But we are both mature enough to handle that.
A famous line I seem to hear time and time again is; Suck it up butter cup! Yes if you are on this site, suck it up, be mature enough to handle the fact that you are probably being used just for sex. If you can deal with that great, if you can’t it may be time to join another site.
Just saying
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I am still here, barely
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Posted:May 9, 2011 8:09 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2011 6:22 am
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Hi everyone,
Well I am still here, but just barely. Being a standard member sucks the big \8
I am only able to blog and well that is basically it. If someone emails me I have to pay to email them back. I bet this isnt the same for female members. So it is prety obvious that this sites target market is paying males.
Things for me are rough these days. I am taking College night school course, trying to find new work, trying to make some extra money and well trying so hard with little in return.
I have learned that we are not anywhere out of the recession and that the current hiring market is in the favor of the employer. I also strongly feel that we are on the bubble of another recession. If anything else bad happens in the world we are screwed. So I have been applying for more reliable jobs, yes with the government. With no luck!
Between that and the dissappearanc of sex, yes it is really hard these days!I do have to admit my condom girl was so amazing that I haven't been thinking as much about sex. Maybe when she is back in town I will be able to arrange something with her again.
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Happy Cinco de Mayo! Cerveza por favor!
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Posted:May 5, 2011 7:40 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2011 6:33 am
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Hi all
well the good times seem to have rolled by really fast. On Happy Cinco de Mayo day my Gold membership with this site has expired. I don't know what is in the future for me and this site. All ready I am seeing that being a standard member is a pain in the ass. As a guy pretty much every button I press says, upgrade now to see her body type, or view who is viewing you.
I guess I will log in to talk to my bloggin buddies and post here and there. After five months of hard work, all the emails to women, all the time put in and I can say it was worth it. I did get to meet my condom girl! That was before Easter and she is out of town right now.
My life seems to be changing at the speed of light right now. I don't remember where I was in January compared to today or where and what I will be doing in one month from now. My long term goal is to stick this shit out and hopefully things will get better for me.
I am happy to have meet everyone on here over the past few months and I hope to hear from you all soon
Duan Juan
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Blogging it doggy style
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Posted:May 4, 2011 9:51 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2011 6:34 am
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As I read all over the place....
May the fourth be with you today.
I am from the Star Wars generation but really what is everyone talking about today??
I noticed that a lot of women are writting romantic lovel novels on the blogs lately. Is this because you aren't getting any and this is your way to relese your sexual tensions? Or is this your way to see what kind of unique answer men will give you?
I wonder what majority of men actually read those long winded blogs word for word. I have to admit, I do scan over them but I don't read them in detail. I do find some guys response funny especially after a women types a 500 word fantasy and a guy replies; lets hook up... lol
Maybe we need to have Fantasy Fridays where everyone writes their romantic novels those days. Then Monday can be the follow up to see if that happened.
My fantasy.. humm... should I get into exact deep detail as a women? Or just to the point? We all have boundaries that we are comfortable with, so should our fantasies be about pushing back those boundaries?
Do you even care what my fantasies are or what is deemed my comfortable zone?
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Most Bloggers are like the Liberal - GONE
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Posted:May 3, 2011 7:22 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2011 10:45 am
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Hi Everyone
Is it me or does it seem like most of the regular bloggers are like the Liberal and GONE?
I have read blogs about people closing their accounts; I am considering closing my account and regular bloggers don't seem to be online and blogging?
Why is this? Does it have to do with all the rude and crude men I am hearing about on here? Are you guys simply bored? After five months here I am getting bored. What do you write about after being here for five months?
The only thing I can say is I am disappointed with this site. Five months of being on this site, sending out hundred and hundreds of emails and I have only had the fortune of being with one women (who just happened to be amazing in bed plus she did things to me that was new and exciting). Now she is away for a bit and there is nobody locally to hook up with. Sure I could see my meeeoooww in London.... My blog buddy in Sudbury or swing with Anna, Jade, Ash or many others in Ottawa but who is around here? Jenny can you help a brother out.... put on the camouflage outfit and call me! lynoness and seekonlyone aren’t into attached guys which I get, Abby and newshy are too far away (but worth the drive/flight) And Missdrippy how do I reach you?
I am around, available, discrete, clean and ready! Please contact me!
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My advice to men about this site after five months on it
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Posted:May 2, 2011 6:41 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2011 7:23 am
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Happy WET an WILD Monday everyone,
It is a shame that I couldn't be saying to you that I am laying in bed getting it on with a women, having wild sex and getting very wet. Instead it is a WET RAINY day in Toronto today.
I have to admit this site kills me at times. The vast majority of guys and how they think they should pick up a women. Lately I noticed some female seasoned veterans of this site are starting to get vocal about it. Just because this is a sex site doesn't mean that men can msg women saying, want to hook up, you make me so hard, lets fuck..... Men will have much beter luck emailing women and mentioning something that they read in the womens profile. some women like seeing pictures of your cock, but if you read most profiles they say, don't send me a picture of your cock, show me your face...
After five months on this site, I met some good people. I have blogged a ton. Lately I have found that the passion for this site has worn off. I don't bother messenging women like I have before. Instead I try to blog every day and even that is getting boring.It seems that most female bloggers are trying to teach men how to be more polite on this site for betters odds of getting laid.
So men, for better chances of hooking up with a wonderful women from this site do the following:
* read their profile
* when you email them write something back that you read on their profile. IE if they like planes, say, hey I like planes too etc. Mention something about them that you read
* don't assume that since this is a sex site that you can talk dirty and down to a women. The odds of you getting sex from talking that way is low.
* be paitent if you dont hear anything after two weeks don't freak out. Women here gets hundreds of emails a day
* Really consider changing your profile so it isn't of your cock. Most women I talk to would rather see a mans chest or a man in some clothing.
And for gods sake treat women here with respect and not like hookers from downtown toronto. There are some AMAZING women here so treate them with the respect and diginity that they deserve
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I don't feel like bloggin'
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Posted:Apr 29, 2011 1:31 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 10:50 am
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Wake up in the morning with a head like 'What ya done?'
This used to be the life but I don't need another one
Good luck cuttin' nothin', carryin' on, you wear them gowns
So how come I feel so lonely when you're up gettin' down?
So I play along when I hear that favorite song
I'm gonna be the one who gets it right
You better know when you're swingin' 'round the room
Looks like magic's solely yours tonight
But I don't feel like bloggin’ when the old Joanna plays
My heart could take a chance but my two feet can't find a way
You think that I could muster up a little soft shoe gentle sway
But I don't feel like bloggin’, no sir, no bloggin’ today
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Even if I find nothin' better to do
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Why'd you break it down when I'm not in the mood?
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Rather be home with no one if I can't get down with you
Cities come and cities go just like the old empires
When all you do is change your clothes and call that versatile
You got so many colors make a blind man so confused
Then why can't I keep up when you're the only thing I lose?
So I'll just pretend that I know which way to bend
And I'm gonna tell the whole world that you're mine
[ From : http://Affairlook.com ]
Just please understand when I see you clapped your hands
If you stick around I'm sure that you'll be fine
But I don't feel like bloggin’ when the old Joanna plays
My heart could take a chance but my two feet can't find a way
You think that I could muster up a little soft shoe gentle sway
But I don't feel like bloggin’, no sir, no bloggin’ today
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Even if I find nothin' better to do
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Why'd you break it down when I'm not in the mood?
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Rather be home with no one if I can't get down with you
You can't make me dance around
But your two-step makes my chest pound
Just lay me down
As you float away into the shimmer light
But I don't feel like bloggin’ when the old Joanna plays
My heart could take a chance but my two feet can't find a way
You think that I could muster up a little soft shoe gentle sway
But I don't feel like bloggin’, no sir, no bloggin’ today
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Even if I find nothin' better to do
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Why'd you break it down when I'm not in the mood?
Don't feel like bloggin’, bloggin’
Rather be home with no one if I can't get down with you
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May 5th is my expire date - just one week away
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Posted:Apr 28, 2011 6:26 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2011 10:35 am
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Hello everyone,
where to start, there is nothing better than jumping right into it so.... May 5th is my expire date for this site. I have been a Gold member since January 5th, because I followed their suggestions I was granted a free month, but one week from today my membership expires.
I have read hundreds of blogs about this site, I have read tons of comments and have been told many things. Basically if you pay for this site, that I am stupid and guess what I have to agree. After sending our hundreds and hundreds of emails, blogging every day for the past three months, responding to blogs over the past three months, I have meet some wonderful people online, I meet two amazing women in person and had one out of this world experience. (thanks condom dilemme girl)
This site may be better for lesbians, singles and swingers. it isn't meant for married NSA sex. In fact it is extrememly hard work finding an attached or married person that actually wants NSA sex.
So over the next week I will decide what path to take, for now I below it will be not renewing my account.
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Its time for more action
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Posted:Apr 27, 2011 6:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2011 6:12 am
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Hello fans! (lol)
Its has been two weeks since The condom dilemma. The sex was so amazing that I didn't fantasies about any women in the past two weeks. Over the past two weeks after reading blogs, viewing some friends pictures.... well today I woke up saying, ITS TIME!
Yes It's time to have more fun, amazing and mutual beneficial sex. My condom dilemma friend is away right now and I am not sure if I can wait for her to get back. She was amazing, fun, sensual, sexy, horny, took control, and knew what she wanted. She is a good girl. She knows the difference between intimacy and sex and the intimacy was amazing.
I have proven to myself that I dont have to be afraid of "performance anxiety". It was almost a year since I was with a women and it was 11 years ago before I was with anyone new. So the Condom Dilemma really helped me prove to myself that you can get back on that bike and still perform well.
Thus I am back in the game, I am ready to play, so coach please put me in, I AM READY! If you are please shot me a line!
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My Sexual Bucket list - yup to do before i die
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Posted:Apr 26, 2011 6:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2011 2:42 pm
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It's wet outside.... Its grey outside... Its not going to stop raining for 2-3 days now... So what does one write about in this type of weather? How about my Sexual Bucket list of ways to have sex before I die?
When reading blogs over the past couple of weeks I keep hearing people refer to: 'vanilla sex'
I remember talking to an old college fling a few weeks ago and she said that I am too vanilla for her. This got me thinking, what would my top sexual bucket list things be. Now some of these I did in college and again 12 years ago but I want to do these again. Below is my bucket list of sex, is this too Vanillia??
1) have sex with a famous person - Shania Twain, Jamie Lee Curtis, Janet Jackson, Nicole Kidmen & Reba Mcentire over and over again - yes older generation
2) be part of a MFM - did this 12 years ago would like to do it again
3) be in or watch a group orgy
4) be part of a FMF - I would need viagara and those numbing condoms from two weeks ago LOL (and a hotel room for three days)
5) use/watch in person one of those sexual machine (not dildo or powered vibrator) on a women and watch her gush and gush and squirt and squirt!
6) have sex in a ski hill gondola while riding to the top
7)I want to have sex with an older women. I am 39 and I would like to have sex with a women 50+ don't ask why its just sexy.
 I also want to have sex with a women between 25-30. Basically to counter the 55 year old... lol
9)I am not into S&M but it would be neat to tie up a women and please her for hours on end with everything and anything around
10) Having sex in public places with ongoing and new women.
Now is this stuff too Vanillia?
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Any matches around the GTA? Everyone is outside the GTA
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Posted:Apr 25, 2011 7:25 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2011 6:11 am
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Happy Monday everyone
I trust that you all had a great Easter and ate lots of turkey, ham and chocolate.
Here is my latest frustrations today: Are there any matches for me around the GTA instead of Ottawa, KW, London, Windsor, Sudbury...
I have to admit this is my latest frustration. The majority of my matches are far away. I am talking two hour + drive away. I live in Markham, so why are all the available women I need in Windsor, London, KW, Sudbury, Kingston, Ottawa and Peterborough areas? I don't mind doing a little drive to hook up with someone but why is it so hard to finda women in the GTA.
There are 5 million people in the GTA. I am positive there are lots of unhappy wives and husbands out there. Why is it so hard to find a couple that want to actually hook up in the GTA?
Grrrr.... time to eat more chocolate to easy my frustrations... lol
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Honesty on this site
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Posted:Apr 21, 2011 6:32 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2011 6:27 am
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Hi guys
Today's topic is about how honest people really are on this site.
honesty is the best policy however on this type of site how much can you really trust a person. Is a person really single, maybe they are married. If soemone says they are 38 how do we not know they are 55. How do we really know that they picture posted is them? Or how do you know you arent talking to a man when you think you are talking to a women.
So being honest is important, but we can't control what everyone else is doing. I have talked to and read a number of issues about honest on this site only to learn that this site is NOT about being honest. it is about tricking people to have sex with them. I talked to a women that thought she was meeting a 38 year old for coffee and he ended up being 55. THis guy lied only to try to get to first base. I read swinger blogs that they went to meet people at a bar only to learn that the people aren't who they said they are. I have meet people online (not in person) that werent who they say they are.
So to summarize being honest is like driving. I am a honest person and good driver. But that doesn't stop me from being blind sided by no honest people or bad drives.
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