It's not easy to classify myself. You might call me a transvestite but I prefer the term trigender. Sometimes I'm male, sometimes I'm female. Most of the time I'm somewhere in between. For me it's a matter of shifting energies: sometimes on purpose, sometimes these shifts are triggered by circumstances. For a long time I struggled to make sense out of myself but it became easier. And I'm still discovering new things about myself which is great. And getting more 'control' on the shifts from one side to the other.
People get confused sometimes which is understandable (been there myself after all ) Especially men; they don't seem to understand that (although I've had my experiences with them) I'm a lesbian at heart