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Posted:Dec 3, 2014 11:13 am
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2017 8:04 am
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Maybe you are misreading me. Or, you are not reading at all. My Profile is recommended reading, as are my entries on this Blog.
I came in here and told you that I am a mature woman that enjoys sex – a LOT. (Profile)
I told you what I like and what I didn’t like in the bedroom. (Profile)
I set down a few simple rules: NO married men, NO drug use, and we meet in a public place for coffee. (Profile)
I came here because I need sex and I need men to fill that need. I don’t want a relationship, a Paramour, a Beau, a Boyfriend, a Significant Other or a long-term anything. I need you for your dick.
What did that do to your ego? I feel the same way when you come at me like I was . A lot of you Boise Romeo’s could use some lessons. You may as well go right to, “YO BITCH, let’s fuck”.
I can walk through any construction site in the country and get the same treatment; I don’t need to pay for the privilege. So, I don’t expect respect - I rquire it. We can role-play in bed but that is a totally different matter.
Actually, I came here to make friends and I have made several. It seems that there is enough interest in chunky cougars that I can afford to be choosy and I choose my Friends With Benefits based on how they behave at our first meeting. HINT: Not one of them began with “Wanna Fuck” or “I got a big dick”. As for Rod in Montana who messaged, ”Baaaa!” I didn’t know where to go with that.
(If you missed it the “need your dick” para was just to get your attention.)
I don’t want you to love me… I want you to remember me – and smile.
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WTF
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Posted:Nov 19, 2014 10:25 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2016 7:34 pm
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Congratulations. You have awakened the Evil Purl.
I have been in Affairlook for 2 ½ years and have run into one guy out of 7,000+ that has really pissed me off. Boisiens have managed to produce 7 since I arrived here last week. Do you breed rude assholes here? I had expected better.
I told y'all I came here to work. That implies that I have a job so I am on company time during the day. That means I don’t get to take time off just to stroke your ego or any other part. I can’t split for a Nooner or a Quickie. Don’t you understand the concept of “JOB”?
I should expand my profile to include, ”Rude, ignorant assholes need not apply.”
If you are the kind of guy that expects me to drop everything to reply to your message get ready for disappointment. You are not the only guy in Boise on this site and I am not going to ask the man I am with to wait while I respond to you. If that hurts your itty bitty feelings, tough cookies. I run on my clock, not yours.
Remember, you are looking for a hookup. You are asking me to meet up with you. Behave accordingly. I don't take money and I don't accept gifts. I am just a Gal that enjoys sex. I am not a Rent-a-fuck.
Too harsh for you? You show me some respect and I will reciprocate.
Now, for you whiny little pukes; I am not a schill for Affairlook, I am not a closet lesbian, I am not a , I don’t have time to chat and I will not call or text you.
Try reading my blog and my profile. I came here looking for MEN to have sex WITH, not for adolescents -to get their cookies off on.
I swear, if assholes could fly this place would be an airport.
On the flip side, thanks to all the gentlemen that have contacted me. I hope we get to meet soon.
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HELLO, Boise
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2016 8:11 am
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I have arrived. I may need a day or two to settle in and get my work situation organized but after that I will be ready to get busy in Boise. I am not kinky but I am a little quirky so it might be advisable to check out the rest of my blog while you are here and get to know me. It could save us both a lot of time.
I have simple rules; NO married men, NO drugs, NO drunks
Preferences:
I do not like crowds and loud gatherings. I would rather go for a walk or sit on the couch and watch the ball game with you than go clubbing or to the football game and freeze my butt off.
I enjoy outdoorsy stuff; hiking, camping, local attractions and sightseeing, etc
Taking me to dinner is a waste of money because I don’t eat enough to justify the expense. Fancy fare and splendiferous surroundings do not impress me. If you are hungry we can do Chinese or hit a local Mom & Pop eatery. Pizza is always good – no anchovies. I am always up for a cup of Dutch Brothers' coffee. Note: I am a carnivore. Is there a Bacon Bar in Boise?
I smoke. I don’t smoke a lot, but I do smoke. Deal with it. Non-smokers are welcome but whiny, prissy assed non-smokers need not apply.
I like to film my sexcapades, it adds spice. It is not required but the camera shy tend to fall to the end of my dance card. C’mon. You know you want to show off. 
I am open for a man or men, singly or in groups… make that three or less on work nights. On weekends I will shoot for as many as i can as long and hard as I can. Rainchecks if my eyes are bigger than my endurance.
My Boise goal is to spend a lot of my free time checking out the sites around Boise and enjoying all the men I can, not necessarily in that order.
The queue starts here. Sign in below.
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Friends
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Posted:Nov 1, 2014 11:24 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2016 7:33 pm
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During my time on this site I have not sent one “Friend Request” I didn’t have to. On the other hand, I have never turned down a “Friend Request” since having a man check out my photos or videos does not violate any of my rules. (see my profile for my dating rules)
What confuses me is that quirky little notification that my “Friend Request" has been accepted’ following the acceptance of a friend request.
Are any of you receiving “Friend Requests” from me?
Purl
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The Question Was ...
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Posted:Sep 11, 2014 10:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2016 7:31 pm
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Do I like BBC
To clarify my position, I like them in all sizes and all colors. I am not picky. Color doesn’t get you in or keep you out. I just have to like you.
It is less about the equipment than in the skill of the operator. In my experience you can get better results from a good man with a shovel than you can from an inexperienced man with a backhoe.
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Jus Cuz
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Posted:Sep 10, 2014 5:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2016 7:26 pm
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Don’t get excited just because I checked you out. Girls like to window shop. Besides I always check the profiles of anyone that messages me to see if they have bothered to read my profile.
We also like to check out prospective dates – so we look them up. It is surprising how many of those that contact me are really searching for a lot more than I offer or have told them I am looking for.
That doesn’t mean I am picky. Actually, it means I am not picky, but there is only one of me and, as much as I would love to, I can’t date every one of you. Call me selective -
Or you can, as I was called by a recent encounter, a 48 years old with an obvious reading comprehension disorder, “A conceited cunt”. I have enough needy people in my life already and my workplace is rife with fragile egos. I didn’t sign up here to find more. In truth, that is the least conceited part of me. It is open to all comers. Drama, like Karma. Happens. I do my utmost to steer clear of both.
Over the past two years over 7,000 men have messaged me here. It would have been a great adventure; Guys but even I couldn’t have slept with them all – even with group naps. (I would have loved to try though.)
You do the math. Purl has been on the site for two years. (2 years = 365 x 2 or 730 days) Purl has received 7,172 messages. How many messages does she receice each day? Each week?
Also, remember that we girls have this little biological thing going on where our nether regions go on strike once a month for about a week so we are on enforced hiatus for three months out of the year. If that doesn’t fit into your schedule I can’t help it. “Aunt Rose” never announces her visits, she just shows up at the door.
This is simple. I am a girl that is looking for a good time with one guy or a m’enage a bunch – sometimes the same guy and sometimes the same bunch – but not always the same guy or always the same bunch. If possible, on camera.
I don’t want a steady guy, I don’t want a boyfriend, I don’t want a relationship and I don’t want a significant other. I would be happy to be your Friday night go to gal; just not every Friday.
If you want to be a friend with benefits I am up for that so long as you are willing to share with other friends that would also like benefits I have no intention of ever again limiting my options.
I am a cheap date. I just want a guy that can hold an intelligent conversation and make me laugh now and again. I don’t really care for parties, clubbing or social “dos”; but I would take you for a walk. I eat very little so fine dining is a waste of money. My dining choice would be like my love life, a buffet where I can try a little of everything and the things I like, twice.
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I Didn't See This Coming
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Posted:Aug 16, 2014 8:04 am
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2014 9:09 pm
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About 6 years ago I lost 300+ pounds of ugly fat. My ex husband waddled off. I suppose I figured that if I couldn’t hold on to that slob I was never getting laid again.
I stumbled around the dating sites without much success until I met a couple that were experienced in Domination and Swapping. We have become close friends over the years and the Hubby gave me a membership here about two years ago. I thought, “He just wasted his money.” Em helped me write my resume’ and you, my fans have earned me extension after extension by viewing my Profile.
I brought a lot of baggage with me thinking my ex was my fault. I guess the Submissive phase was self-flagellation and I got past that in a hurry. Fortunately for all, my other fantasies came along for the ride.
All that being said, I never expected the response to my page. I am gratified. I am also overwhelmed. Those 71 messages greeted me today and appeared since Tuesday. I just can’t make the time to respond to all of them, as much as I would like to. Don’t stop though. I do enjoy reading them and I read every one. I just don’t have the time to reply - but I do appreciate your interest.
So If you were one of those I missed please accept my apologies, it isn’t personal. My job can get a little intense sometimes and I have been travelling for the past month so my time is limited. Also, I wish I had the time to chat but I just don’t, even on my best days.
Purl
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In Plain English
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Posted:Dec 10, 2013 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2014 2:07 pm
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If you are reading and not digesting the information in my profile and posts I will try to make this as simple as possible: I like to fuck on film. Got it?
It is simple. If you are willing to participate in my fantasy respond here and I will move you to the top of the list. Hell, we could be humping tonight.
Another plus and preference is multiple male partners, also willing to film. That will get you preferential treatment in a heartbeat. Two or three would be fine but the more the merrier is my motto.
Purl
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Hellooooo Richmond
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Posted:Nov 17, 2013 6:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2014 8:17 am
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HALF & HALF
Half Rules of the game and half selection criteria
You have read my profile so you know what I want and what I like.
You should also have figured out what I don’t want so if you are married, using drugs, looking for your soul mate or can’t behave like a gentleman in public please don’t waste my time.
Most of you have introduced yourself already and there are many more of you than I have nights in Virginia.
First, I like to cam and I like to perform in front of the camera. If you are willing to have someone there taking photos and videos for me and if you agree to cam to a few of my select friends you go straight to the top of the list.
Luckily, among those that have messaged me are three that profess to being photographers / videographers. These could be the luckiest since they may see me many times while I am here.
Second, I am perfectly happy with a one on one assignation but I prefer multiple men in an evening whether they partake in turn or together. This gives the others a chance to recoup and recharge.
So, if you have a few friends that would like to play just let me know beforehand. If you have “many” friends we may have to plan for a Friday or Saturday – or an early start on Sunday.
I am not going to quantify “many”. We can discuss my capacity for sex later.
I would prefer a virile man, or men that can perform more than once in an evening, relatively well endowed and knows his way around the bedroom.
My favorite positions are Cowgirl (forward and reverse), Doggy and Side saddle but all positions are fine with me.
Sorry Guys but Party Hats are required for my protection.
Come in me not on me and if you want to make it through the evening don’t come in my hair.
I would rather not host because I don’t want a parade of men visiting my hotel every evening. I might make some exceptions but don’t count on it.
We will meet for coffee before we go for dessert. Coffee is required, dinner is not. I don’t eat that much anyway.
I want to go back to San Antonio and tell those Texans that they aren’t a patch on a Virginian.
I will need a number where I can text you to confirm our date the day before and again, a few hours before.
Coming soon to a Starbucks near you,
Purl
My Group - http://Affairlook.com
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Now I'm Pissed
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Posted:Nov 4, 2013 6:40 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2014 2:10 pm
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Two days and two No Shows.
What’s the matter, boys? Leave your balls in your other pants? Scared of a girl or do you just talk a good fuck?
If you can’t hack the program leave the damned site and give us Gals a chance to pick from the men!
If something came up and you called I would have understood. But no calls, No “Sorry”. Not a fucking peep out of your punk ass.
Inconsiderate bastards. I didn’t write you, you wrote me and begged for a chance. Well, I gave you a chance and you blew it.
You only get one strike in this game.
That would be well for the rest of you to remember.
A man is only as good as his word and “L---t” & “b---38”, You suck at it.
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I Need to Catch a Train
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Posted:Oct 23, 2013 3:25 am
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2014 5:22 am
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I have two Saturdays free and I would love to pull a train on both of them.
There has to be a couple of guys out there that have enough adventursome buddies to put together a decent train.
Bring the ball team, fishin' buddies, frat brothers, if you are on Fort Sam bring your squad. (I like men in uniform - I like them even better out of uniform.)
With a short break I think I could host a small company picnic
You won't be disappointed. Check out my videos. There will be video
Message me with serious proposals.
Remember, if you make it happen once it can happen again - and again - and again.
Purl
MY DANCE CARD IS FILLED FOR NOVEMBER.
I WON'T BE AVAILABLE UNTIL THE HOLIDAYS AFTER CHRISTMAS.
I WILL BE AVAILABLE FOR A CRAZY NEW YEARS CELEBRATION. I PLAN ON STARTING A WHOLE NEW TRADITION FOR MISTLETOE SO LETS START THE NEW YEAR OFF WITTH A BANG - A GANG BANG.
GET TO WORK GUYS AND LETS HAVE A FUN YEAR.
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HEY! SAN ANTONIO!
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Posted:Sep 25, 2013 2:01 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2014 2:42 pm
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Purl is ready to PARTY!
She will be out of town for a month so we have a little time to set things up before she gets back. She should be home by the 8th of November.
I could use some contacts, guys that have been with her before, preferably with a few good friends they would like to share with. You know that she won’t ask for herself but I am not shy on her behalf.
I am sure she would be happy to be the center of attention for three to five for an evening of sex – at least once each and preferably more often, one on one or as a team. She is up for almost anything except hardcore S&M and Anal.
I would really like to line up ten to twelve good men that are not too shy to cam or be filmed with her for a Welcome Home Party.
Actually, I would like to set something like that up for her on an ongoing basis, maybe twice a month with smaller parties in between.
So, If you think you can help or just want to participate reply here or write me on live.com. I am busy-beaver.
Knowing Purl, it could be one helluva night.
Waiting to hear from you,
Em
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Hello Richmond
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Posted:Sep 25, 2013 1:32 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2013 3:39 am
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Hello Richmond
I will be visiting your fair community for a month beginning next week.
What does a girl do in Richmond on a Saturday night – or any night for that matter?
I am a cheap date. I don’t need or want to be dined or danced. I like Starbucks or a good cup of coffee anywhere. A little light conversation is always nice, too.
Not to be too graphic, I am pretty damn good in the sack. I enjoy filming and/or camming my escapades for my memoirs.
One on one is fine with me but, if I can I like three guys or more and someone to film the party.
No faces! Unless you want to be seen. I edit and trim all film to remove clear facial exposure and you can see the end product before or if I post it to AAF.
I will send you a copy after the party for your own amusement.
Camming is a little more tricky but I do have a select audience that has proven to be very protective and respectful of my wishes.
I do have some rules so please read my Profile.
The ball is in your court. Need a quick date – no strings, entertaining friends, need something to do at half-time or if you just think it is a neat idea just write me here and we will see what we can come up with.
Purl
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