Been to busy to post!
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Posted:Oct 14, 2005 2:50 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2011 4:42 am
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hey all. Well I have been busier than than even I can believe these last couple of weeks!
We have met some more great people and had others fall off the face of the earth. One seems to have found "the one" and since then she is MIA. But that is good for her. Bad for us, we had some BIG plans, but now, nada.
For those of you that have stopped by to read, i just want to say thanks. And if you have any questions or comments, feel free to post em!
I am off like a prom dress.
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A special thank you to all the precious metals out there.
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Posted:Sep 26, 2005 10:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2009 1:48 pm
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Hello again.
Today I would like to put out a thank you! That's right, I need to thank one special onliner.
I thank you for proving no matter what the package my look like, it can be very ugly inside. For reminding me that it is not what is between the legs that makes one hot, but what is between the ears. I want to say thanks for proving that someone can over think mere questions and come back with a tirade, a tirade that makes no grammatical or logical sense whatsoever. You have shown me that no matter what someone says, there is always someone else who will go off half cocked. Oh I know people tell you that you are hot, but that passes once they get to know you I am sure. For that person I would like to say,physical beauty is fleeting, but an ugly presonality lasts forever.
To everyone else, thanks for the input, it has been appreciated. You are very beautiful people and have proven it in many ways. It is a beautiful person who listens, try's to understand and try's to help. Thanks to all of you.
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Complete rational for snobbishness
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Posted:Sep 24, 2005 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2008 8:42 am
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We as you may or may not have read. I have received a scathing reply from an online member regarding my previous posting on the Joplin Play Group. Let me make this clear for those who are simple and quick to ire. We are wanting to meet people who have done this before and are done being timid. We want to see how it is done and learn the ins and outs. The good ways and be warned of the bad ways. What to look for and what to watch out for. We don't mind if you don't want to sleep with us. Hell we may find you physically or intellectually below our standards. But we will accept a leader. We will listen to experience and wisdom. We will be gracious, and we will be polite. If you are that easily upset by critique maybe you are part of the problem. We want nothing more than guidelines of appropriate behavior and a standards and practices. Is it ok to meet and expect more than talking the first time, do we bring a gift? Is there a protocol for who moves first? Is there a better place to meet? Home? Hotel? Some place more public? Is there a way to know who is serious and who the talkers are without wasting 3 weeks? That is all. We need leaders, helpers, hell we need a sexual explorer Yoda.
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hard Core attitude
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Posted:Sep 23, 2005 8:54 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2011 7:10 am
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I would like to start this one off with a question. Where are the hard core people at? I mean the real swingers? The ones who are comfortable with themselves and willing to try about anything? Where are the people that are ready to get dirty and trashy and leave the sheets soaked so completely that when they dry you have to stand them against the wall and kick them to make them bend?
I am so tired of everyone I meet wanting to chat and email and look at pics. I want to meet someone who is ready to try something! Are there any out there. Is there anyone anyone who throws their inhibitions to the wind? Is there anyone who is ready? So far I have met very few that are as outgoing as their profile claims. Most (not all) are interested but not ready to actually produce. That is fine whatever word for you, I will not pressure you. I just think it would be interesting to meet someone who is comfortable in the lifestyle and has made the most of it. Is there anyone like that out there? Many claim, few follow through. If there is I would love to meet you. Hell, we don't even have to do anything ourselves, I just want to be able to experience a true swinger. And guys if you can not verify where, when and who you have done, I won't believe you, too many liars out there. Personally, my partners for the most part have all been witnessed by my buddies (they were there helping on some of them ), very few of these people on line seem to have the drive and ambition to truly swing. It seems that most are talk. In the words of Toby "I need a little less talk and a lot more action".
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Newbie Euphoria?
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Posted:Sep 20, 2005 10:53 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well, we have been on line just shy of 3 weeks and the reponses to our inquiries have went form a trickle to practically stopping. Could be my emails are not a good as they were when we started. Or it could be that we spoke to the good ones right away (and continue to speak regularly to some of them) and now we are scraping the bottom of the barrel.
Could we have experienced newbie euphoria? A condition where we realize that, WOW there are people like us out there, even in our home town. Only to find that most of them are all talk and very little action? Or could they be turned off by the face I have not yet put my penis as our profile pic? All I know is that most other couples we have spoken to, are all looking for the bi-sexual female do the husband can have fin as well. And we are a couple. Would I have sex with my wife along with the other guy? I am not homosexual, I find nothing appealing about men. I am also not a homophobe, I notice when other men are in good shape or when they are good looking. So Iguess it would depend on the guy, and he has to know the limits between him and I. As far as my wife goes, she sets her own limits. So far she does not want that. She would like to have girls with us, and I can not blame her 
But I am getting off point, is it merely the scent of new meat, that drives people to respond? Once you have been online and made a few posts, are you then common and therefore less desirable?
Just some questions I have. Good luck out there all! Hope you find what you are looking for!
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What a difference would a picture make?
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Posted:Sep 19, 2005 9:23 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well, I changed my mind. I put a picture for all to see on our profile. Then my wife changed my mind back again. Or should I say she convinced me that I should change it back. Anyhow, it was part of a plan to see if a picture really did generate more responses. Unfortunalty, It was not up long enough to make a decent case study. So for now, no more free pics. You want to see us you have to email us or return an email from us and be added to our network.
We had dinner with another couple last night. Very nice people, hope to do it again soon He is very cool and easy to talk with and she is quiet, but pretty with deep eys that seem to make me think that she has a whole going on inside her head that she is not sharing with the rest of us. But that is great, because I like mysterious people. My wife really liked her too, which is great of course!
We discovered the DISTANCE FROM YOU section of the profile is not to dependable. It told me that they live less than a mile from us, it told them we lived 3 miles from them. And in reality we live in Joplin and they live in Carthage! But hey, it all worked out.
I also got contacted by another couple interested in putting a group together to meet and have some fun. No pressure to hook up but you know everybody there is open to it, kind of group.
Sound interesting? We are not sure yet when, where or how we are going to meet. We only know that the old school (not newbies like us) people are not exaclty coming out to of the woodwork to greet us. Notice I did not say ravage, fuck or or even treat, I only said greet. So anyhow we are contemplating this and hope to have first meeting soon. Well it is time to get back to work. Yes I am bloggin this from work, god I love my job!
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Another day and even better
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Posted:Sep 17, 2005 12:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well Friday ROCKED! We met with another friend we made online and it was too cool. We all (the three of us) got together, and I think had a great time. A few drink, a lot of laughs and a trip to a local store (I will let you imagine the place now................. Ok you know the type now I can continue) and bought a few books and a toy. Frankly, I wonder if my does not like the toy TOO MUCH! Well, it maybe good, but I want to see it mow the grass or help with laundry (If there is ever a toy that does all that we men and in for a very long dry spell I worry. By the way, I would like to thank this particular store that we went to for hiring the most male looking lesbians they can find. I definitely appreciate the fact that the employees are not able to distract me from my shopping. Anyway, if you want to have a better appreciation of the posts here online at Passion.com go out to your local porn shop and look on their bulletin board. OMG! If there are any anthropologists reading this and you want find the missing link, or maybe a few links that should be missing, go check these out. It is obvious some of these are written by people to whom writing is very new concept. Others are clearly written by men who are not able to keep a blood supply going to their penis and the brain at the same time. Of course in Joplin, there are quite few people who never had the blood START going to their brains, you ever drive Rangeline on a Saturday afternoon? Then you know what I mean. If you don't know what I mean, then that probly means that you are who I am talking about. And to those of you that I am speaking of, I would like to remind you to drool on your bib not on the keyboard. But I don't mean to offend, at least if you are drooling on your keyboard you are not driving and that is good for all of us. Then again if you drool on your keyboard you may damage it and need to drive to replace it. So I restate DROOL ON YOUR BIB NOT ON YOUR KEYBOARD!
I have been thinking about the other posts I have made concerning people that do not respond. I believe that part of this is do to the fact that I do not have a pic of us on our profile page. This is due to the fact that I deal with other professionals in a very sensitive field (no I am not going to say what the field is, that would be too much info for those that do not know me ) and as I own my own business I can not afford for someone to accidentally come across me on an Internet search or anything. So I will state again here, if you respond we will let and we write to you we will release pics both of our faces and otherwise. If we feel this would not be a good idea we will politely say No thanks. BUT WE WILL RESPOND!
To bikergirl we would like to say thanks for a great time we will remember you. Get a hold of us again and we will eat, drink, and be merry.
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New Day new Attitude?
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Posted:Sep 15, 2005 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well this is my 2nd post, my 2nd try at the 2nd post. Got a new laptop and the touch mouse is a little sensitive. So I had about 2 paragraphs in and suddenly I went back 2 clicks in my browser. But is this really the place to ponder my short cummings? Its my blog so I think not.
Although my mind is fried, work was not hard, merely incredibly boring. I would compare it to watching grass grow on a hot day with no rain the previous week. On the up side my blog has had 2 yes 2 views today! I know this is minor, but I take my victories where I can find them. As the two of you who have read the previous post know and anyone who comes along later can tell, spelling, grammar, or even coherent thought is not the point to this.
It has been a great couple days online, new contacts, and great conversation. Saturday is closer and closer. We are meeting the other couple and I am trying to get another online person to come too, I think it would be great to have a get together with people we chat with. You really get to find out how close your minds eye is to the real thing. Not to mention we are in this for two things and one of them is to make friends. The other is exactly what you are thinking about.
I know in my last post I vented a bit, as well in a forum or two. And yes I know that I screwed up posting, I still have no idea what the hell happened there. And I appreciate the comment ( thanks Barenativ you were my first comment, one more way I am now not a virgin and you popped that cherry, congratulations ). The answer is yes we have written people who have never responded. Quite a few actually, but as I said before screw them. Actually, forget them and DON'T screw em! They come off like they are carefree and open. When reality is must be very different. We are open to talking to anyone, maybe it will lead to more, maybe not. We are picky, But as I said, the people we have met have been great. Not to mention even if we don't get down and dirty with someone soon, the anticipation sex has been amazing! It has been quite a while since we went every night for a week, but so far so good. And we are not talking wham bam thank you mam, we are talking sessions measured in hours! So those of you who have chatted online with us, I just want to say thanks, it is appreciated, and for those of you who are interested in moving on to meeting my wife and I, I really hope we can return what you have given us. So as I was saying, those of you who have not responded, you are not missed. You are missing us
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1st Post 9/14/05
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Posted:Sep 14, 2005 7:00 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Well, let's give this a try.
Been almost a week online. And so far we have had one dinner with a fellow member, and soon to come we will have a second with another couple we met online. We have had some emails and some chats, and all that has been interesting.
We have sent some emails that have no repsonse. I guess those people are too hot and to busy to deal with new coming slow movers such as ourselves. Even a no thanks would be appriciated. But screw them, those that have replied or emailed have been great! Good chats and great pics.
My wife recently told me that she was thinking about other woman. So I, the way I do, set out to find her one. The only thing harder than setting up your wife with a prospect is setting up a computer programer with a prospect. I have friends who are programers and I was one, so I know what I am talking about. One thing about programers though, they plan it out and are thankful ! So if you get a chance, you should really try one out. Not only that it is easy to find virgin programers, but you can get em naive and train them like a good coon dog. But I digress, the thing I forgot about meeting new women is that if you have 2 choices fast and slow. There is no middle of the road. But hey if they want to meet and be friends for a while, I have no problem with that. As long as when it happens they let me in on it. I can watch or help out with the situation. I am not greedy. As far as I am concerned, they can use me like furniture.Put me where they want me and use me as needed
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