When friendships go wrong !
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Posted:Feb 20, 2010 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2021 7:20 pm
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Sometimes we have friends who come into our lives,then leave for whatever reasons.We have friends who get too controlling an we need to part ways,we have friends who just arent there when we need them.
My recent experience with a so called friend,who become very controlling,an very stuck on himself tried to tell me i was becoming someone i felt was a bad role model at a certain time of her transition.This really irritated me,since when we spoke on the phone he was drunk to no end.Now how can anyone get anything resolved when one party is drunk?
Well at the present time i was on the phone with 1 women,on messenger with another 2 women,this x-friend of mine was just going nuts in instant messenger,so i copied an pasted to the 2 ladies as i read everything he typed to me to my friend on the phone.Let me say these ladies were shocked,but it didnt surprise them,since they have personally witnessed his actions on the internet.
It got to the point he really upset me,so i told him please ,i wish no further to have you as a friend,please lose all my personal information,phone number,etc....which i believe he did.Now i said you go your way ill go mine.
Now to my surprise,he would come to another site an attack me an all transgender by his posts,i am not the only person whos witnessed this,an really made my online friends very angry,so they went off on him,which he didnt like any at all.....next thing i know,yup you guessed it hes written a blog about me an has done everything possible to block me from it.Lol,now why would someone whos always right do something like this?Allow me to tell you,he did this to make himself look so good an try to make me look like a bad person.
Now many here know me,im very to the point an i dont hold back often,but i never attack unless provoked!! I have been stalked,provoked etc an now he wishes to take another road,when all i asked in the beginning was to just leave me alone...It wasnt hard to do...Hes made his bed,now he has to sleep in it.
Ok so who wins here?? Thats correct,NEITHER of us do.In fact we have only caused way more drama than was ever needed.We have lost what was a very close friendship,an things have been said an gone to far,we can never become friends again.....
So i hope when some read this,they will maybe try harder to stop an arguement or one can swallow their pride to keep a friendship.See people dont always see eye to eye,were human,its sometimes best to agree even if we disagree......
As for me,yes words do hurt far worse than physical contact,but those who really care or did care at one point in time try to hurt the other,its only when one crosses the line it becomes Emotional abuse....
I WILL NOT BLOCK HIM FROM THIS BLOG,AS HE NEEDS TO READ THIS....I will be the better person an not an immature who always has to have his/her way.....
I do wish him the best of luck like i told him before,just please leave me alone,like i asked for in the very beginning!!
Ty all for reading this,Amy
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