Meeting gradually or jumping in?
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Posted:Mar 9, 2016 10:32 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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I am looking for fun, and if it grows to love in the future that would be even better. Can we start with something simple, maybe talk over an iced tea, or walking someplace beautiful? Someplace where I could rest my hand on your thigh and you'll know if you like my touch?
Or would you rather jump right in, meet in public expecting that if I don't have a "stalker" vibe you'd really love to get naked and play? I love pussy, touching, licking, fucking, squeezing your lips, playing with my finger at your entrance, teasing your clit with my finger barely avoiding your most sensitive spots, or moments where my finger is on that perfect spot.
I prefer connecting, through activities or sex or watching movies. I'm not at all interested in getting drunk and closing our eyes and disconnecting our minds and fucking fast; too many people are unwilling to connect, so that is their only idea of sex.
Instead of racing to orgasm, are you open and bold enough to expand orgasm?
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What do you think?
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Posted:Feb 14, 2016 12:10 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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When you read my profile, what do you think Tantra is?
I've seen some profiles where they mention Tantra, or open relationship, or sex with someone other than their partner. Many people here know they like sex, and I know if they mention Tantra they have probably studied some, yet I don't really know what they learned about relationships and sex and consciousness; I don't know how what they want is different than "they are sex positive".
They don't seem boring or wimpy or insensitive in their profile, like so many people have. They certainly aren't weird, or deceitful. They aren't the romantics where I read their profiles and wonder "what are they doing on Affairlook"? But I just don't know what they want in a good partner for fun.
I want awareness of our moods. I want someone with sensitive hands, able to feel what places on my body want to be touched, and sense what speed and pressure will feel good, and how a different pressure will take me higher or bring me back to earth.
I want someone to play with, not repetitive, mechanical. I don't want someone to get me off and disconnect; I love someone who becomes fascinated with the emotions and energies of our connection.
I know orgasms flow effortlessly when we're connected. Women don't "take a long time to orgasm" with me, but rather they orgasm when they do, and it's always changing, and often one orgasm flows into the next so nobody could say where one ended and the other began, like a flock of birds darting in the air, and then at some point landing again. I keep us from flying too high, or diving too fast, or heading into a storm; she taps into the stream of orgasm and we go on a ride.
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Slow rubdowns and erotic spankings
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Posted:Jan 17, 2016 3:44 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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So many people haven't explored the full range of pleasures. Most guys think the only type of good sex is "fuck her hard and fast". What a pity.
Spankings are fun. But I don't want to only do such intense forms of play. And I definitely don't want to get together with someone who is into beatings. I like erotic and sensual pleasures, not something that is going to hurt for days.
Can you feel aroused and enlivened for days from a great soft massage? From being licked so lightly saliva bubbles can be moved around your pearl? What about a slow hand moving an inch from your skin, not even touching you, but our energies reach out to each other so you feel the warmth of my hand moving along your body?
When you're feeling that open, can you enjoy a squeeze on your nipple? On one of your pussy lips? A slowly increasing suck on your clit as my making sounds vibrates my lips on you?
I love blending exquisite soft touches with intense erotic pleasure.
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Keeping Warm
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Posted:Dec 25, 2015 6:52 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2016 12:17 am
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During winter weather, do you like getting together for fun, even more than in the summer?
I know you love having your heart beat faster, your thoughts on the pleasure you are going to feel when we're together. Though your coat hides it, I can sense how your nipples harden when you see me approaching, and the coat hides from view when my thumb grazes across one as I slip my hand under the coat to hug you.
Good of you to leave the coat open.
Come inside, let's get you warm.
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It's Just Sex
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Posted:Nov 28, 2015 11:20 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2016 12:18 am
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People make it so hard to get together for fun.
We will never pick good partners based on how they type. The number of women on here who "just want your email address" say it's so we can "talk better"; no, you'll talk better in person (mostly they want your email to send you spam).
You can't tell if a man is a good lover by penis size (no matter what your preference is, that won't overcome him being insensitive, crude, ashamed, checked out, closed off, or having no clue how to touch a woman). Just like I can't tell a woman's personality by checking her breast size.
I'd rather talk over a cup of tea (okay, you can have coffee if you prefer), find out if we like being around each other.
But know that there is not likely going to be this "amazing chemistry", that develops after talking, touching, doing things together, thinking about what else we want to do together, enjoying the last time we were together as we look forward to the next time together.
It's just sex. If we're simply willing to get together in someplace private and comfortable, I can guide you to being aroused and ready for sex. Sometimes "thanks for the orgasm" and sometimes "wow, that was amazing, can we do that again". Hopefully lots of "fuck me, now". Hopefully lots of "let's take a nap snuggling".
I want to build a relationship, with someone who loves sex with me. But until that seed is growing, it's just sex. You know, that enjoyable way of planting some seeds?
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Intense connection, for everyday activities
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Posted:Oct 23, 2015 11:45 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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I really enjoy intense or deep connection, during the things we do together every day. Of course that's true during sex, and I also like walking the dog, doing the dishes, talking while buying groceries.
Getting together just for sex is enjoyable, I love sex, I love feeling a woman in orgasm.
I don't want to cut that great connection as soon as sex is over. I don't cum, roll over and fall asleep. If we're fucking and spending the night together, let's cuddle as we fall asleep.
If I'm fondling you to several orgasms, which is very good, I like to enjoy the slower and firmer touches, to bring both of us back down to earth. (Plus, that's safer for either of us getting into the car, or not hurting ourselves running into furniture since we're still high as a kite on orgasms!)
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Aggressive in the Bedroom
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Posted:Aug 26, 2015 9:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2015 9:14 pm
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I've always wondered about women wanting someone "aggressive".
There are too many men who have done things that are violent. Too many aggressive men, violent, unable to get something without physical force. I'm definitely not interested in people like that.
But there are also so many men who are scared of sex, scared of women, scared of power. So many men who tolerate crappy jobs, stupid managers, disrespectful people.
I like confident women, aware, well mannered, an expert in their field, aim to do everything well, respect others. With women, I like good communication, enjoy touching, love sex.
I don't like racing to fuck, "harder faster", which always seems to me the man is either worried he'll lose his hard-on so he'd better keep going, or that he wants to get off fast before the woman finds out he is scared of any emotions, or he just wants to get it over with and drink a beer.
Can't "aggressive in bed" mean a man who loves sex, loves pleasure, wants to extend pleasure and build it higher? Can't "aggressive" be diving in to bed, eager for sex to begin, and then deeper intimacy and greater pleasure, taking each other so we have the most extraordinary orgasms?
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Soul Mates on Affairlook? or Phishers
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Posted:Jul 27, 2015 10:07 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2016 12:19 am
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Guys, have you been seeing an increase in beautiful women, wanting romantic, loving, long-term relationships, with no mention of anything "adult"?
If you write them, they respond with only vague sentences that sound great, but if you think for just a second, have nothing to do with anything you said, and nothing about what she wants?
Actually, have nothing to do with you at all? Comments that could be said to anyone, man or woman, yet play with your hopes for sex?
You're never going to get sex from these women. These are "phishers", people looking to get your email address and other personal information, to market things to you, since you have demonstrated you are a sucker.
There are women on Affairlook who love romance, and talking, and long term relationships, and also love sex. There are amazing women on Affairlook. These women will connect with you, challenge you, inspire you, frustrate you, delight you, tempt you.
Fall in love with the great women. Don't be fooled by the phishers.
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Easy to remember, secure passwords
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Posted:Jun 24, 2015 10:20 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2016 12:24 am
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I've done a lot of work on getting hacked web sites working, and safe.
We're hearing far too often about sites getting hacked.
Most of the things that stop hackers, you have to own the site to get them working. But the other thing to keep your account safe? Good passwords, and that you can completely control.
And don't use a password on more than one site, ever. If you don't remember a good password, use a password manager. On Windows, CNET is a great source of software, with very good reviews and experts in charge of making sure no malware, no adware, no viruses. KeePass and 1Password and LastPass are good ones.
But you need a really strong password that is also very easy to type, for your password manager. Your password manager needs a "master password", and you have to remember that (if you forget it, you'll never get inside your password keeper ever).
The rules people in computer departments have been saying for years, are no longer hard enough to guess (every hacker knows the rules you've been told) and they were never easy to type.
Pick a mini-scene of a movie you like. Not the whole movie "Mary Poppins", not the tidy up the nursery scene "Spoonful of Sugar", maybe the mini-scene where Mary is in front of a mirror and the mirror sings a duet with her; or Jane gets the snapping right and the toy box opens and toy soldiers march up the blocks into the toy box. Describe the scene in 6-8 vivid words and you have a great pass-phrase.
Make the first letter a capital, add the same number and the same punctuation at the end of all your passwords, and you're done, you have a recipe for making passwords that are long and complex and match the requirements of almost any site you'd use often, and for the password for your password management software.
Of course, your Affairlook password should be one you don't let your browser remember, but that you type in each time. You can think of something vivid and unique for Affairlook, right?
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Eliminating Coal and Oil Use
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Posted:May 19, 2015 11:40 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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Something I'm very interested in... eliminate the pollution and health problems from burning fossil fuels. There are so many good ways of getting rid of them.
I've been writing about how completely different types of nuclear power than we've been using, can take care of our power needs. We tested one in the 1960s, but Congress was already in the pockets of the coal and oil companies, so...
No long term nuclear waste. No chance of "loss of coolant accidents". Very stable operation. A fraction of the cost to build.
Let me know if you're curious how they work and how they can be so safe. (Even if you're not wanting something sexual with me, or even if you are...)
Science is sexy, don't you think?
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Just sex? Or talking and connecting and sex?
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Posted:Apr 21, 2015 12:47 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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I see a lot of men's pictures in the "Top Fans" part of women's profiles, that are just of their cock. I don't get it.
Is that the only part of their body that they like? Is that the only thing they are interested in a woman noticing? Do they only want a woman who won't talk, won't relate, won't interact, just will get him off?
I'm clear everyone on here (except the "Soul Mate Spammers") loves sex and wants more sex. But don't you want more in a man than a hard-on?
How about a brain, and confidence, and accomplishing something in life, and emotional clarity and able to match your mood and energy?
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Can Tantric Massage Increase Infections?
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Posted:Oct 3, 2014 9:58 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 7:4 am
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"Tantric massage" is actually massage with high awareness of your body's energies; the term is misused as "including your pussy". Or it might be "goddess spot massage", Tantra is one of the few ways people learn that. Or some prostitutes use "tantra massage" meaning "ending in orgasm", even if they know nothing about Tantra.
(Tantra actually would have 0 to countless orgasms, with either the man or woman ejaculating or not; I orgasm often and try to ejaculate only about once a month).
Infection would likely be from unclean fingers or tongue rubbing the entrance to your urethra, or introducing germs inside you. I understand you not wanting to experiment if you have before gotten a nasty itchy infection in the past; and I don't see how gspot massage itself can give you an infection. Most guys don't know enough to even wash their hands...
I don't know if it's possible you have a yeast infection and don't know it, but maybe the massage spreads it to someplace else where you do notice it??? I've only heard of "you would KNOW".
Also, could it be you're allergic to the soap or lubricant or latex? Anti-bacterial hand soap shouldn't go inside you (I wouldn't use it at all, not proper use of antibiotics). Most men only pound away when fucking, so they pound gspots too, enough to bruise and rub any irritant in...
If you ever do try again, try with no oral (mouths have lots of germs) and lube with simple ingredients ("Probe" is a bad name but good ingredients, learned about it from an organic-food Tantra instructor), and vinyl gloves without powder.
If you squirt, the fluid is so salty it is virtually always sterile; but if you have cuts (from guys untrimmed finger nails?) I imagine it could have a "salt water sting". Gloves are good.
Gspot massage with smooth gentle yet firm strokes with the pad of his finger(s), starting from fairly deep inside you, moving towards your entrance, should be very pleasurable. Finishing with slower firm pressure, to guide the blood back into your body, might feel like a very good way to come back down to earth.
Done well, with clean hands, should be very unlikely you get any infections.
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