Much bling, very meme, such internet. Wow.
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Posted:Feb 8, 2014 8:16 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2014 12:12 pm
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So, yeah, last night I found the bling creator, and next thing I know an hour has gone by.
I'm going to mainly be making silly internet-wide things, like memes and icons for sites I frequent (Maybe; depending on copyright and whatnot), and other miscellaneous stuff I find fun to make.
I'll put them all here, as I make them over time. They will all be free. Why? I mean, couldn't I be earning points with them?
Yeah, I guess, but why? I'd ask you the favor of sending me a mail thanking me if you liked it, and to show it around, but otherwise, any general traffic gained from it is enough to make me happy, assuming enough people know what they are in the first place. 
So, take a look and if you see something you like don't hesitate to nab it from my profile.
Additional note, you can join the group too now. 
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Posted:Mar 7, 2014 9:41 am
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2014 2:33 pm
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Due to me not being as active on cam and whatnot lately, I may be dropping in and out of gold status. For others who don't have gold, you can post on blogs even as a standard, so you can post a message here; I'll have it set so that only I can see them.
I urge all standards to do the same if you don't plan to upgrade, but by no means should that deter you from buying a membership if you already planned to.
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From a Man's Perspective:
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Posted:Feb 17, 2014 5:39 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2014 6:26 pm
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Alright, so time to get down to the real issues that I want to talk about.
I hate to call women out, but this is going to require a good deal of it, simply due to the content matter being discussed. No, I realize I don't speak for all men or women, but I see this far more often than I feel I should.
The biggest question men ever ask: Does size matter?
I'd like to propose a counter-argument, and my reasoning behind it. My proposed question?
Should size matter in the first place?
What do I mean by this? Multiple things actually. The first and foremost being that I believe men and women alike have a very skewed view of the statistics and importance of size in modern culture and in sex.
Let's start off with the statistics though. MEN, the absolute average male penis is 5.1-5.9 inches in length and 4.8 inches in circumference.
But you probably knew that if you've ever opened wikipedia (and let's face it, wikipedia is a more valid source than most places you could find on your own; I'll get into that another time).
Now something else you should know, that when aroused, on average, the vagina lengthens to a whopping 4 inches. Oh yeah, you can look it up, but that's all it does on it's own. However, it can expand more in response to pressure. I should also mention that what is normally referred to as the G-Spot (which is actually non-existent on some women) is, on average, located about 5 centimeters in. The most sensitive part of the vagina isn't the deeper parts, it's the first 2/3's of it. Being longer isn't going to make those last 2/3's any more sensitive, though it will put him more at risk of hitting your cervix, which is apparently very painful. Big guys, be careful with the ladies!
However, you could easily find all this out just by looking for the info yourself.
What I'm wondering is why females feel that it's okay to turn men down based on their penis size.
If someone didn't have a penis, well that would be understandable; However, considering the fact that women typically don't want to be objectified, it seems a bit countermanding to objectify men back.
While I understand everyone has preferences, there's a fine line between what is reasonable, and what is literally damaging to the confidence and self-image of another human.
I realize a lot of women may not know it, but for men, size really does matter, because it was drilled into us through society and American culture. I'm not going to go into every single insult, expression, and other general slang based around dicks and dick size, but there's a lot of it. While it may seem subliminal, the majority of men think that they are below average or too small. That's been proven over and over.
But what it all comes down to is that if you want a good man, you need to want the man for what's in his head between his shoulders, not his legs.
Sorry if I offend any women with this, but I've met a lot of people who seem to think that men need women for sex, when neither of us need the other for sex. We want the other for sex, and once we set our shitty drama aside and just have sex with each other because we want to have sex with each other, things can really only go uphill.
Right?
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Getting the message across - Advice on communication
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Posted:Feb 4, 2014 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2014 9:45 pm
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I alluded to the creation of this post last time, because this is the big one. The one thing that is likely the leading cause of any failures on the site, due to it being a lost art.
Nobody knows how to speak the fucking English language anymore, and on top of that, even if they did, they don't know how to socialize anymore.
I've seen plenty of people decades older than me that are completely clueless how to talk catch the interest of the opposite or target gender.
No, "Bb u got a nice azzz what u doin today" doesn't count. Nor does, "Show me your dick". Yes, there are females who do it too.
While yes, this is a "Sex" site, so to speak, it doesn't mean that straight up asking for sex will get you what you want. No, it isn't impossible, but if you really want to find someone you can have sex with AND talk to, then you're going to need to put a little effort in.
For one, this means sending messages, reading messages, and responding to them. Yes, RESPONDING. This is actually one of the most important parts, but we'll get to it.
Sending messages will be addressed first. For one, WOMEN: SEND THEM NOW AND THEN.
You got gold for a reason. If you didn't, well then I guess it doesn't apply. However, if you visit a profile of a guy that catches your eye, he will be far more likely to take an interest in you if you take that first step, because otherwise there is no way in hell he's going to know you're trying to get his ass in bed. Seriously though, as long as you're polite, the worst that can happen is rejection, and guys deal with that shit everyday.
Men, as far as I know, do send messages a good amount; I know I do. However, they also tend to be a lot worse at writing those messages. You have to be polite, be efficient, and it's highly recommended by me that you attach a good face picture. A face picture is a great way to show them who you are and that you're putting effort into talking to them, while also being appropriate, and not too forward. For fuck's sake, try to be literate too. Let them know you read their profile, ask them a few questions about themselves, and tell them a little about you, so they have something to work with.
Some DONT'S: Tell him or her what you will do to them. Most people want friends before benefits. Maybe guys not so much. I don't know, I personally prefer to be comfortable with the people I have sex with.
It's almost NEVER ok to ask to meet in the first message. There is nothing wrong with meeting the first day of contact, however, you should wait to suggest it until you have gotten to know the person.
There are exceptions to every rule of course, but this tends to be fairly consistent.
Don't make it all about you or all about them. There has to be balance. You're getting to know EACH OTHER, and as such it shouldn't be a one way street.
Also, don't be afraid to give out contact info. In fact I highly recommend it, as long as your personal data isn't visible when they add you on whatever messenger you use.
That's all I can think of in relation to sending messages; however if I miss anything in talking about any subject, feel free to mention.
Now, reading messages. Now, to be honest, as a guy, I don't get a whole lot of messages, so I take time to read anything I do receive. However, I feel a lot of people tend to skim and delete, or ignore in the worst case. This relates to IMC as well. If you're going to be on IMC, try to pay attention. When you ignore someone's message rather than declining it, it won't stop them from messaging you again. IMC is also one of the few decent ways for standards to talk to people.
IF YOU AREN'T INTERESTED IN SOMEONE ON IMC, DECLINE THEIR MESSAGE, or at least have the decency to message back and say that you are not interested. If they keep it up, block them. You tried.
Sitting on IMC and ignoring all the messages and such just defeats the purpose and makes you look like you aren't making a conscious effort though. As a last thought, always be polite in your responses. It will look better on you, and you'll feel better for it later, even if you were angry at the time of reading.
This also means read replies. and if someone says they aren't interested, they aren't interested. You can ask why, but only with the understanding that if they tell you, you have to accept their answer, and if they don't tell you, then you just have to deal with not knowing.
I guess I really covered both reading and replying in one fell swoop.
Shit, and I was all revved up and ready to write another few paragraphs.
Anyways, thanks for reading. 'Til next time,
-RZ
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What makes a good profile, and a good profile reader?
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Posted:Feb 3, 2014 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2014 3:41 pm
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Okay, so just gonna talk for a bit here. I get I'm a bit younger, but I've been on here for a few months, and what I've noticed is that a lot of people really DON'T put any effort into (figuratively) selling themselves here.
You don't go to someone with your product and say, "Hey this is pretty good you should get it."
THAT SHIT AIN'T KOSHER.
When you make your profile, for one, be honest and specific. Tell people exactly what your limits are. Minimum and maximum age, races, whether or not you can travel. In fact, put it in your tag line or status as well for the standards, so you don't get as many of those IMC'ers with their "hey bb wun sum fuk". It may seem like common sense, but somehow nobody does it. People, it's just good practice. Don't be afraid of it insulting people either, if you aren't into white guys, THEN YOU AREN'T INTO WHITE GUYS. Be clear and concise, you have a right to your preferences.
Men and women alike though, don't expect Ryan Gosling to show up and message you. Give yourself a little wiggle room. Your ideal person and a realistic person are two different people.
Another thing, let people see something about you. Your hobbies, interests, things like that. You can be damn gorgeous but if we have nothing in common, it usually isn't going to work well for either of us. Yes, all of this goes for all sexes without saying. I'm not going to tell you that your interest in astrology, golf, and tiddlywinks are gonna get you swarming in genitalia, but at least you'll find someone else who knows what tiddlywinks are at some point and is intelligent enough to talk about it.
It's also important to not just show what interests you have, but show a bit of you yourself. Put your personality into your profile. Don't try to be funny if you're a serious person, or vice versa. People read your profile to get a little slice of who you are; make it count. It's also a good idea to fill out some of the Q&A section, it'll really give people a better look at you and your beliefs or opinions so they know what to expect.
A personal opinion: Don't be the person that basically says "You have to come after me." You can do this if you want, not my place to say it isn't allowed, but hard-to-get is pretty old fashioned. Guys appreciate it when you give them attention, just like girls appreciate it from guys. If you sound like you want to be the center of attention all the time, people will tend to veer away due to either being intimidated or feeling like things will be one way. If you're into that, that's fine and dandy, but if you're just trying to find a nice intelligent person, make it obvious you put in as much effort as they do.
Last but not least, TRY to use the English language in a comprehensible manner please. For goodness' sake, this isn't high school. If it makes you feel better guys, you don't have to use more than 3 syllables, but it can help sometimes.
As for reading profiles, that's a different story. Oh, yeah, you actually are supposed to read those.
For one, if you can't, such as if you are a standard, try catching them elsewhere and seeing if you can ask them for their profile in a chat (I'll go over chat and messaging another time). Pay attention to what they want. If you are not that, then accept that and don't be THAT guy or girl.
It's also definitely important to read some of their questions and answers as they tend to tell you things you didn't know.
A big thing, check the last time they were online. I know, sounds obvious, but it tends to not be a super noticeable element to a profile, and it's kinda important so you aren't messaging a dead account.
In my case, I know that I don't specify a few of these things, but that's because, like many people, I'm very dependent on the situation. I also tend to be very open and adventurous, unlike many people, who have limitations (Which is perfectly okay). However, I will be up front with people about my interest/disinterest in people, and that's why, as I'll go over next time, it's always important to communicate with the people who do find you.
I realize that not everyone will agree with this, and that's chill, but this is what I've seen tends to work well among the community.
'Til next time.
-RZ
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