I simply am shocked that some guys think that the first words of a message is Hey Let's F... Like that is supposed to get attention. Yes this site is what it is, but there are some great professional people on here as well that would prefer respectful messages. Some do not even read the profiles just send these and expect to get a YES response. Guys, read the profile and respond accordingly!
A lot of people on here are fake and yes if you chat long enough you can find that out. There are some that have no intentions of meeting and those that eventually will try to lead you to a "pay" site. you can eliminate the headache just by chatting and avoid them. Chatting is a great way to find out if you click with the person(s) before meeting or at least to see if you have anything in common.