Thought these things only happened to others ....
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Posted:Sep 27, 2011 8:11 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2013 11:08 am
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I had been chatting to some guy for the past few weeks, all online of course, and it had been going well enough. He said he was looking for a relationship and I am not but I thought "I'll keep chatting, you never know what may happen". His profile lists him as being from Boston, three hours away from me but at least in the same state. He tells me that currently he's overseas on a photo shoot in Nigeria as he is a wildlife photographer, quite plausible because he was only online during odd hours because of his location and what he was doing. Okay, I accepted that.
We continued to chat a little bit about him, how he's traveled the world with his job. He tells me he isn't from Boston but moved there from Texas. He then tells me that he moved from South Africa with his family when he was 21. (Gosh this guy is quite worldly eh?) He tells me that he lived in London for a spell and has a teenage , that he misses very much but she flies over for visits often especially when he's not off on a photo shoot (Did I mention he's a freelance wildlife photographer?) He tells me he never married because he feels that marriage should be for life (c'mon ladies awwwwwwwwww, even the ice queen's heart would have melted a little at that, right?)
We continue to chat about this and that, as you do if someone is looking for more than just sex. (All the while, I'm still chatting with various Affairlook members because something just did not FEEL right about him.) It was Saturday when we chatted last and he told me that he usually only works a 1/2 day on the shoot because he volunteers at the local youth center to work with ... well the local youth. (Yet another awww is he for real???! Keep reading).
As we're signing off, as he is off to work and I am off to bed he messages almost nonchalantly (if you can send a message with nonchalance) "Hey, I need your address so you can receive packages from people to forward to the Orphanage." 
I mean WTF? (There the other shoe dropped)
"Oh and what am I supposed to do with these packages?"
"Hold them and I will have them forwarded to the Orphanage"
"Why can't these people send them directly to the "Orphanage" (notice changed from Youth Center to Orphanage) themselves?"
"I don't know they just can't, so send me your address please?"
ARE YOU SERIOUS?
Obviously I said I didn't feel comfortable doing so. (Shit I saw the special on 20/20 or was it 60 Minutes or that one on NBC?) Needless to say, he signed off and I haven't spoken with him since. At first I was thinking "Did he think I was a lovelorn fat chick starving for romantic attention? Is that why he zeroed in on me?" Which is odd because even my profile states that I'm not looking for a relationship and why you ask ... BECAUSE THIS IS A SEX SITE ... Big ol' no duh right there.
There was something about him that just didn't gel. He claimed to have been in the U.S. for decades (bar his travel overseas) yet his attempt at casual chat was never quite right, his chat read like it was by someone who was not all too familiar with the informal speech pattern of ... dare I say it .. an American.
Long story even longer because I'm adding this last paragraph; Please be careful of what information you share, always be wary and look out for #1 - that's you.
Keep having fun, and may you find what you're looking for on Affairlook.
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Why be mean?
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Posted:Aug 21, 2011 4:32 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2013 11:08 am
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A couple of weekends ago, I went on cam and broadcast it publicly. I chose the option where I could chat with viewers. I'm on the cam showing my naughty bits and I really was having a fun time. Granted all I was doing was playing with my breasts and on occasion turning around, bending over to show my fat ass. Nothing too lascivious (or so I thought). I reveled in the attention my page window was lighting up with chats, the chat window scrolling by quickly with comments of "Wow" "Show your pussy" "Nice tits" "Where's that fat ass" "You make me so hard" etc and so forth and one comment jumped out "Why are you men watching this?
Of all the 100's of horny, "positive" comments THAT one leapt out. "Why are you men watching this?". As you know the font is standard and one comment doesn't stand out from the other but this one did. I stopped what I was doing and cocked my head looking at that one comment as it scrolled off my window and after the shock wore off anger set in and I typed "IF you don't like what you see, just turn the cam off". I shook it off and went back to playing on cam trying to not let that one person bother me, and then I see "You're a man aren't you" REALLY? WTF?! Same person! Obviously nobody else saw it because they weren't paying attention to the chat window but I did.
Why be mean? Why did this person feel compelled to type such miserable comments? How difficult is it to click the little x on the upper right hand side of the cam window? Were they unable to? Were they transfixed by the sight in front of them, disgusted that this fat body was being admired, ogled, jerked off to? Horrified at the thought that ANYONE would consider my fat body (or ANY fat body for that matter) sexy? I mean ... What the Fuck?
I am a BBW ... a Big Bottomed Woman  ... I am fat, curvaceous, luscious, voluptuous, round. My body is NOT what society deems normal, beautiful or healthy. But it's MY body and I like it, nay, I LOVE MY BODY. If you don't, don't look at my cam. If you click on it to be curious and the sight disgusts you, turn it off. I have NEVER used this term before and actually meant it but "don't be hating" just because you don't understand another person's idea of sexy.
Good luck in your Affairlook search, may you find lots of squishy messy sex and do a lot of the ol' in-out bizzo.
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Not sure which is more insulting ...
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Posted:Aug 17, 2011 5:52 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2013 11:08 am
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This morning I receive an email from an older gentleman who is local writing "Gee can't we chat sometime? I don't bite". Not wanting to be a complete bitch, I reply asking if he's online right now so we can chat on Affairlook .
I am drinking my coffee, chatting and perving at cams and he comes online and pages me. Awesome, great, brilliant I think being that I'm not really in the mood to turn on the charm but I'll be polite. It's becoming a habit of mine to send out my face pic within the first two sentences of chatting, especially if I think this contact may lead to a meeting. This way we're not wasting each others time. Considerate right?
So, I reply to the page he responds and I send my pic and wait for a response ... nothing ... he goes on to ask me what my interests are ... I respond ... still nothing. He tries to become more intimate and I type "I paid you the courtesy of sending a face pic and you've done me a great discourtesy by not responding. Unless you are taking the "if you can't say anything nice at all, don't say a thing." His response, "I saw your pic and I'm still talking to you aren't I?"
Wow what a fucking tool.
This, just after he tells me he's not met anyone on Affairlook yet ... Keep it up buddy I'm sure you'll keep that record perfect! I would have preferred seeing the *** has left the chat At least if a person leaves the chat that way, I don't feel like THEY'RE doing ME a favor by continuing to chat with me. Now please please PLEASE do not get me wrong. Most of those I have chatted with do pay me the courtesy of saying at least something nice "nice hair" "nice smile" "nice eyes" and I really do appreciate the effort 
Sigh. What a way to start my Wednesday lol.
Good luck in your Affairlook search, may you find lots of squishy messy sex and do a lot of the ol' in-out bizzo.
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So ... What are you looking for ...
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Posted:Jul 24, 2011 7:31 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2013 11:08 am
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The number of times this question has been asked of me since I joined this site is far too numerous to count. It is called "Affairlook" for a reason. SEX PEOPLE. Yes, I am looking for NSA Sex. If you read my profile, you'll see I'm not looking for a long term relationship, if I were I'd be on one of the other touchy-feely websites where you have to fill in pages upon pages of questions only to find your personality is not the type of personality they are able to match. PHOOEY!
By the same token, just because I am on here does not mean I will fuck the first person I chat with or EVERYONE I chat with and I certainly do not have the same expectations of every man I chat to, although that appears to be the general mentality. I may be fat, a BBW, voluptuous, rubenesque call it what you will, but that doesn't mean I do not have standards. Please do not expect me to be all "oh baby take me" when your first line in chat is "Wanna fuck?".
I enjoy sex, all facets of it - heck I may even enjoy it with you too, at least do me the courtesy of attempting to engage in conversation. Will I indulge you in cybersex - more often than not. Will I swap pictures with you - of course. Will I even have phone sex with you - probably. And if all those things go well, then LETS DO IT BABY. Sadly, a number of the male Affairlook populace appear to be jaded and for that I am sorry. If you read a woman's profile, you'll see that all she wants is cyber and phone and not the real deal. Sometimes the fantasy is more fun. As for me, I still enjoy the fantasy HOWEVER I am and have been more than ready to make a lot of my fantasy in to reality. A few weeks back some guy approached me in chat, accused me of being a fake person, no not accused OUTRIGHT called me a FAKE then left. I didn't get to say a word. Actually, I like .. I said out loud "What the Fuck?" but he had left the chat as quickly as he arrived.
So ... yeah Good luck in your Affairlook search, may you find lots of messy sex and do a lot of the ol' in-out bizzo.
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