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Blogs > deliciousngood > Wine and Chocolate

Relationships  

deliciousngood 71F
802 posts
10/30/2008 2:29 pm

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1/5/2016 8:10 am
Relationships
Enjoying a morning of coffee-flavored kisses and sweetness with my lover, our talk turned to what it is that makes a "relationship". I said something about not being IN one because of certain fears I have of being controlled,etc.

He looked at me and smiled and said,"You ARE in one...with me!"

I had to think about that but he is correct. We respect and love each other. We treat each other's feelings with care and tenderness. If one of us has a need the other tries to meet it or, at the very least,acknowledge it!

There are aspects of this "relationship" that are hugely satisfying to me. There are areas that are lacking, as well. To get the good parts I tend to ignore the lack.

What are you willing to do to keep the status quo in a relatinship of any kind? What are you willing to give up or forgo?

What are you willing to risk to ask for more?

-a day in the life of me-
rm_bigalandlin 71M/71F
2 posts
10/30/2008 4:48 pm

 Congrats!!!!!

Enjoy the good parts, get past the bad parts......take to deep breath, and have a deep kiss.


deliciousngood 71F
1666 posts
10/30/2008 5:33 pm

 ((((((((((al...you big lug)))))))))))))))
((((((((((linda))))))))))))))))))))))))

He is swell and the best kisser and g-spot finder sans toys *GRIN*
It's ALL good.


rm_1hotwahine 70F
21089 posts
10/30/2008 9:55 pm

 okay...
What I'm willing to give up: societal expectations of what a 'relationship' is supposed to be
What I'm not willing to give up (and this is new because I've generally been too willing to do so) : 1. A feeling of balance; that both people "like" each other at least close to the same amount and 2. that there is at least a bit of a connection on all levels - mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. Doesn't have to be riding off into the sunset stuff- just 'somethin'
Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


deliciousngood 71F
1666 posts
10/31/2008 4:16 am

 It's somthin' alright! I completely agree...and might add...that it should be not just in one of our heads....

I have been having the "balance and negotiation" chat with lots of people here lately. Are we getting close to recognizing WHAT it is is we want? I hope so!


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