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Upinnit2 53M

11/10/2021 6:30 pm

not surprising


1deeptouch 82F  
114 posts
11/11/2021 9:18 am

Pictures with tighty-whities down around the ankles are a turn-off for me. If it has the rim of the toilet set showing, too, its an even bigger deal-breaker. The trashy room condition just confirms the quality of the person exhibiting it.


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
11/11/2021 1:06 pm

    Quoting YourGoodLukCharm:
    Personally, I'd be careful to what you post on any platform. Sadly this site now wants you to post pictures to their site instead of being able to use photos from your personal collection as we were once allowed to do. I wouldn't give this site that freedom with my photos. Just Google your handle and see if your profile has been used on any of their affiliate sites or stolen and used elsewhere. My profile and handle had been used on a Japanese site and the profile slightly modified to appear that I'm interested in gay males along with women and I'm not interested in men at all as stated in my original profile. Also I work part time at some colleges here. As part of our employment agreement, being found on this site or on other social media with compromising pictures of any degree could be grounds for dismissal. All I'm really saying is be careful with what you allow out of your control. It may live forever on the cloud and maybe given a different label or a new name. Chat a bit first, and see if you have the right chemistry first, that you might want to exchange a pic or two before meeting, or cam perhaps. Then hopefully meet in a neutral place for coffee, a drink and/or food, to see if you both share some common interests, feel safe, and wish to go further; that is of course unless you feel confident about the other and like the rush and butterflies of stranger sex. I might add that anonymity is also more difficult if you live in a small town as faces can be much more recognizable than when living in a larger metropolis.
Most people don’t bother to read the site terms of service to know that they grant ownership of all content they post to the site.

Since the photos and content become property of the site to do as they please, anything lifted from the site is actually their property, so I doubt any user posted copyright notices can be enforced by the original former owners, since by chain of ownership they were not taken from them. That seems logical to me as a photographer, but I’m not an attorney to be certain if that’s how it actually works.


aaronsforeplay62 62M  
85 posts
11/11/2021 2:26 pm

there are so many fake profiles on this site. Having pictures gives me a chance to see if they are photoshopped or not. Theh quality of some of the photos gives away certain details that screams fake. a picture of a woman claiming to have a 42 D-cup and the picture shows a 30 A-cup. Stuff like that.


NewLustyFool 53M

11/11/2021 7:02 pm

The pics don't matter TOO much, but . . .

The ones that aren't selfies, I wonder: who took the picture? There has to be an interesting story there!

And some look a little TOO good. Obvious fakes?


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
11/12/2021 1:12 pm

    Quoting aaronsforeplay62:
    there are so many fake profiles on this site. Having pictures gives me a chance to see if they are photoshopped or not. Theh quality of some of the photos gives away certain details that screams fake. a picture of a woman claiming to have a 42 D-cup and the picture shows a 30 A-cup. Stuff like that.
Google Image search and Tineye are your best bet to eliminate commonly used fakes, for women as well as men.

Anything that looks like a professional studio shot should be considered suspect, though once in a while you will members that have the skills and equipment to be that good.


Bamarambro 58M  
32 posts
11/12/2021 2:11 pm

All fair in luv and war.


xLonelyCubx 38M

11/12/2021 3:06 pm

As a sexual resume it helps to have a clear picture (and often more than one picture), not to mention having you not look like you just got out of bed. Of course I hardly ever trust profiles with men or women who look like Hollywood models.


polytype_blkmale 57M

11/12/2021 3:33 pm

It is wat it is. Lol


Passi0natelu5t 39M

11/13/2021 5:27 am

It helps catch my attention, but it's not really the most important thing to me.


tastemeY 57M  
148 posts
11/13/2021 7:30 am

My pics are real and it’s me! Theirs should be too!


juliabihotty 53F

11/13/2021 7:49 am

Yes. Profile pics are important.


EroticSexter999 63M

11/14/2021 7:22 am

Unfortunately I can't show my brain, which is the most attractive part of my body.

So, you get to see what used to be my brain, which doesn't function how it used to!


Oldengamer76 47M

11/14/2021 3:09 pm

I'm always super cautious about what pictures and information I put up on any site. Any picture you post can be copied by someone who wants to use that picture to trick/defraud/catfish someone else, or just use for trading down the line. The worst case scenario, which I think someone mentioned, is someone using your own pictures to create a copy of your profile.

That being said, I try to put up pictures that are good quality, well-lit, and show me as at least being clean. Pictures quality is as important to me as the content of the picture itself.


cnysport6977 60M/57F

11/15/2021 2:45 am

Yes it does matter! We are a couple and that is the first impression you get to see. Doesnt necessarily have to be nude either


Lets69play6969 43M
17 posts
11/18/2021 11:50 am

Do like to see who I'm talking to


strangelove2019 58M  
18 posts
12/18/2021 11:53 am

most definitely for me on making a choice on them or not. because you can only see what you are looking at- where you cant get to see them, smell them , etc...


BlackPussyRules 59M
913 posts
12/18/2021 4:39 pm

A picture proves nothing, chatting is everything


dvdhenson2 59M

1/6/2022 1:09 pm

It is the initial thing and it really matters what picture you use


Mainer0308800 42M

1/14/2022 11:41 am

Yup


Real_male_67 57M

1/27/2022 1:51 pm

Yes it matters to most people.


madlover72nl21rm 52M

1/28/2022 1:09 pm

Would you mind to comment on my profile pic (and perhaps other pics) and tell me if the profile pic is okay or not?


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