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It really is that simple...
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It really is that simple... So...here's the thing, if we've reached the point where we're going to meet then I've reached the point where I'm comfortable with you. Your words have seduced me, and my body is standing on the edge just waiting for you to "nudge" me over it. Please bring your sense of humor, your laughter and your teasing spirit with you. These are the things that attracted me to you and these are the things that, (if we make sparks), will in all likelihood find me on my knees at some point making you thank all the saints in heaven. Just sayin'.... On the other side of that, please also be man enough to say, "I'm just not feeling it", if you're not. If we're meeting, then I have told you this already, and I have been uber honest with you about being a curvy big girl...Some men LOVE my curves...some men love my personality but really don't dig the curves. And THATs ok. Attraction is personal thing and there's no need for you to feel bad about it, my life is NOT gonna end if you find you can't adore my curves, and the truth is Lil Darlin'...if you really don't adore my curves, then you're just cheating both of us.  Trust me...if I'm not feeling you...I'm gonna be honest about that too and who knows? We might even become friends.  I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn |
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Unfortunately some people will just not let on that things are no what they are looking for. They just meet and then ignore you. All it takes is a little common courtesy to let someone know that you are not interested. Sorry but we humans are a fickle bunch. And what is wrong with curves...some you take at speed, and some you slow down and savor!
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How true pixie....people take every comment to heart lately. It is like it is a personal affront when you tell soeone you are not interested, or they are not your type. Attraction is a strange thing and everyone has their own parpmeters. Some people need to have "Beautiful People" And some of us just see the beauty in the people. Each person can be beautiful in their own way. Sometimes if you just look in the eyes of a person you can see amazing beauty.
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As I've always said everyone is beautiful -- however, not everybody's cuppa. (I mean ... How boring would THAT be???  )Each person should be accepted and respected for their preferences -- not judged or ridiculed. That said, people need to be UPFRONT with those preferences from the get go. You know ... have the balls to say, "I'm not feeling it," BEFORE they get you in the sack (male or females). This is my blog - [blog _Safira]. There are many like it, but this one is mine. RECOMMENDED READING: A F F The Only Site For Me
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11/5/2011 10:04 am |
Pixie, I have found, as I travel around this life of mine, that some men "say" they like thick, curvy, big ladies, but in actuality, they have nothing but sex on their minds. Now, don't get me wrong, I have found a small handful of men that actually DO prefer a curvy lady, but those men are few and far between. The ones that do prefer curves are plainly: better lovers. They are more in-tune with my curves, my buttons, they tend to take their time and enjoy my body, exploring my curves, instead of dashing to the finish line. The men that enjoy my body are the same ones that say "I am proud to take you out in public, and show those curves off", the ones that make the dash....well, I won't give them the time of the day, even if they asked me politely. It doesn't take long for shallowness to rise to the top of their gabby games...all we curvy ladies have to do, is let them talk, the more they talk, the insincerity will rise to the top. Thus, the curvy lovers stay right beside us, with their feet on the ground and their noses buried in our bosoms  baby
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The problem with some men is they just do not know how to be a gentlemen. Although some men are not "into" curvy women they and they are just after sex, There are those of us who like all women. Each woman has their own beauty and the true gentleman is not out there just to jump in the sack and get theirs. They do not know how to give proper respect to any woman. After all "a boy makes his girl jealous of other women, but a gentleman makes other women jealous of his girl!"
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