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Blogs > wickedeasy > wicked and that ain't so easy

when not to answer the phone  

wickedeasy 74F
11197 posts
4/1/2011 5:13 pm
when not to answer the phone

i wrote a post and it was eaten alive by Affairlook

so this is just what i have late at night and a litte bit drunk

i am sad to be alone again in my house and hear the silence. i miss the sound of laughter and voices and silliness and shared conversation.

my was classed today to a minimum for his last few months but it seems not to make much difference since there isn't any movement happening. thing is, i am a worried mama. all this time he's been in, i've felt safe, knowing where he is. and every week, when i see him, i know , i see that he is a man growing into a better man. now, i have to think about what will happen when he comes home. now, i' am worrying again.

planning an event for work which is turning into a wedding and making me nuts. sold out..good...but table arrangements and all the little stuff is like a nightmare and no one but me for the details. so excuse me, but who the hell cares if they have to have two vegetarians? it's a freaking' buffet.

but i've got a great line up of comedians and it'll be great show and i love the guys cause they're all showing up for free. god bless 'em. Lenny Clarke is leading the pack so that helps and he's my auctioneer too. just wish he'd lose the cigar.

another mini event with african dance and drumming by another board member..... she's a hoot and a half and i adore her but omg, the time i've spent trying to find goddam african baskets is ridiculous.

now........tell me....anyone got a friend who is depressssssssssssssed. and simply cannot cope. I DO. and i love this guy. i do. no, i really do. god help me. but there are times. like tonight when i want to say...shut the fuck up.

is that bad?

yeah, i know...bad

sigh

i need not to answer the phone in this mood.
You cannot conceive the many without the one.
SolarPowered0 118M
8346 posts
4/1/2011 7:15 pm
"...just wish he'd lose the cigar."

I knew it... God DAMNit!

ARRRAAAHHHHHHAAAARRGHGGGGGGGGGhhhh. Never gonna happen, Baby.

Solar...

BTW: I was so sure you loved me.


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:18 pm:
i DO love you

madly and without reservation

Lenny needs to lose his cigar........you, YOU can keep yours forever

mediumWalter 47M
4236 posts
4/2/2011 9:47 am

 Best of luck to your son and the event planning.

Yeah, I had that depressed friend. It was more a case of I wished he talked more. He was pretty shut down.
Blues is a healer. All over the world.
John Lee Hooker

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rm_mutiger2009 69M
2853 posts
4/2/2011 8:56 pm

 WE - Solar might look better if'n he'd smoke a cigarillo instead of that monster stogie he always smokes! That might make for a reasonable compromise.


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:22 pm:
MUTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

god, it's good to see your reactionary ass

and solar can keep his stogie........i adore you both

SolarPowered0 118M
8346 posts
4/2/2011 11:53 pm
MUTi...

...ya rat. I got some 4"x30ring ciga-freakin'-rillos. I just wouldn't be caught dead sportin' them weenie-assed suckettes... as in like a freakin' ad for Lorillard Tobacco!

Beside that: you know damned well... I got that stogie as a hand-me-down-under... from Monica. (What'ser name--Linda Tripp; right?--got the stained, blue dress.)

Solar...


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:22 pm:
you two are disgusting.......how i've missed your repartee


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
4/3/2011 4:40 pm

 Hugs sister friend!
Sometimes that depressed friend needs to hear "Shut the fuck up!" I have said it to plenty of my friends and clients when I was a practicing shrink.
I wish I could be at your events. They sound great...just make sure you have a veggie tray...
There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:24 pm:
i wish you could be here too - we'd have a blast

we could wear matching slave outfits!!

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
4/3/2011 6:37 pm

 Ha, I'm the same as Stella w/regards to not answering the phone - here I thought I was a misanthrope.

If you don't feel up to talking to the depressed friend, probably better not to answer than to say the wrong thing?


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:25 pm:
i can't not talk to him....i love him

such a schmuck am i........grins

ce_64667 60F

4/5/2011 5:40 pm

 I don't answer the phone unless I know for sure who it is...and i feel like talkin to 'em!

sorry your house is too quiet and lonely...the young ones can sure bring light and joy to our lives...

keeping your son (and you) on my prayer list.

*tight hugs*
ce


"All you'll get from strangers is surface pleasantry or indifference. Only someone who loves you will criticize you." - Judith Crist, crack film critic


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:25 pm:
thank you ce - that means a lot to me

christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
4/6/2011 10:41 pm

 Yes, I've had that friend. Sigh. Hang in there.
Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


wickedeasy replies on 4/7/2011 3:27 pm:
i will, i hope he will too..........thanks christy

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