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Travel for sex?
Travel for sex? No, i never done it. Never met someone i want so bad to do that til couple months ago. If you remember ever reading my blog called lust for mr lust. I found him then talked to him and found out that we kinda have similar taste in sex. He has everything i ever wanted in a man to fuck me. It’s not that long til i decide that i wanna meet him. The plan was hes going to my country but fuck that... its so strict while i wanna fuck everywhere in the outside. So i took a courses for couple of weeks in his country so in the end we could meet. So in the period of 4 months of us getting to know each other, sometimes he disappeared.. more than once til i decided.. fuck you, if you not serious to meet then dont contact me ever again. Its that easy. I talked before about ghosting and stuff and i really hate it. But He made quite an effort to talk with me again. I dont know why i stupidly believed him. because I like him that much? he did made quite an effort for me...so I'm thinking why not. Then i was there... in his country, planning to meet. One week to go.. no news from him, and still no news til the day i supposed to meet him. I texted him... its not delivered. I called him which was connected but no one answered. I gambled and went to his city booked a hotel that we agreed to meet and hes not there. And even worse my hotel had a small fire that night. Small but enough to make fireman came to handle that. Alarm blaring loudly. it's such a bad luck. Will someone go that far to catfish someone? But for what? Whats the point? I know you guys will say indi dont be naive. Im not... i know about ghosting. But this happened to me before. Im about to say to one guy... fuck you dont contact me again and turned out he’s sick and about to have a surgery. i do hope all he’s doing is ghosting me. That he fooled me. Rather then something actually happened to him since he works a pretty dangerous job. One side i hope he’s ok and the other side i am a loser... I didnt think this through and made this kinda mistake. Big mistake. But weirdly i dont regret it though to go there to meet him.... im just disappointed in myself that i can be so wrong... so so wrong. I keep wondering why... but i tried to shut it down. so there you go, my first ever plan to travel for sex turned complete disaster. well, in the other side, I did met some other guys...but that's the story for another days. anyway, thats the story about mr lust... there never any! |
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so glad to be back here...
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Well I would not travel for sex, perhaps you are braver then me. I prefer local makes meeting easier. Still a challenge but easier.....
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I am not traveling very far for sex
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Keep it local, gas prices are ridiculous!! LOL!
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Sorry to hear your experience wasn't what you had hoped. There was time I once thought my sex life was going to be a series of one night stands and who knows if I had had the opportunity such as yourself I may have said why not. But as I've matured and come to realize I can pretty much have sex when I want, I've also found out how valuable ongoing friend with benefits relationships are, and how can you really have any kind of relationship with someone who is any distance away. That's me, so do what you feel you must. Keep your head high and learn from the past. Best wishes.
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I am sorry to read your story... You were a brave person for travelling to meet him.. I myself spent a lot of time to one lady and this site.. When she did come to see me it was magic and first site.. Sadly its difficult to have a long range relationship... I wish you all the best in your journey to find your special man JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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Sorry you had to go through that, he sounds like a jerk. Hope you're not going to give him another chance. That's one reason why I'd never travel too far for someone on here - the fear of being duped. Well, not without building up a very trusting relationship first. But then I guess if you don't take the plunge and be brave, it might never happen. So hats off to you for taking that step and travelling.
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Wow crazy to read something like this, really wild
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We all get ghosted in this, we all get shit on by someone eventually. i've been catfished, bad mouthed by people who never met me, ghosted more than a couple times. It happens, it bothers you, but just let it go, thats all you can do. I've traveled for sex, but never more than a few hours drive. It was always a given that sex would happen and it was always great sex, but getting to that point is the trick. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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My travelling to meet someone from here, at least the last few times have been not quite as dismal as your or as far as yours, they have been a lot of effort to watch someone watch the price is right rather than talk with me was pretty disappointing. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Tough call. Especially when you trust someone. Better luck next time! 👍 😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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sorry for you, but you meet another ?
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Furthest I have traveled for sex was about 4000 miles, by airplane no less, and I DONT like to fly at all, yet I went to this gal TWICE. What I do however, is plan a trip, and then try to line up potential partners along the way. On my way to Alaska in 2002, since it was a thirty day round trip, I contacted several gals before the trip began, and the week of driving each way, well I didnt sleep alone any nite north or southbound. Not to mention a few in Alaska as well. In 2005, I traveled south to the St Louis BBW Bash, not sure what would happen, but that 1200 mile trip was well worth it, a nite of a six-sum, as well as a female roomie ready willing & able all four nites I was there, and a stop on the way home for one more, three hours south of my then home. Traveling FOR sex, well, you bound to be disappointed someway somehow, but having sex while traveling, I highly recommend!
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