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Bars and Places and Where you'd meet a potential mate  

winkgirl2 48F
1 posts
1/17/2019 8:53 pm
Bars and Places and Where you'd meet a potential mate


This is probably a notion that many people have reviewed in their minds about. Is there a particular venue to meet a potential mate?
There isn't really any particular venue to be honest.

However key is to remember what your intentions are and you'll find that what you want will be brought to your doorstep.

I'm basically saying that you never have to look for someone if you want a potential relationship. Its key to understand that your disposition in your life will alter when you will make changes in your schedule. It's like saying that if you will meet someone without evening planning to be somewhere and you do, fate brought you there...

I know why I'm writing this blog and it is meant to be read by the few who are destined to read it. So if you are nodding as you read this, you are interested to know what my feedback is. It is probably going to a reality check for you when you realize I am speaking some sense and you might have alternative conclusions after reading this one blog post...

Meeting places are what they are. It's like if you were on a business trip and married and away from your wife, are you in a position to miss her or are you glad you are away from her?

I will have to say that in my past I couldnt handle being away from my mate, but that's how life is. You can be in love with someone and miss them terribly...but when you learn they are looking elsewhere, your desire for them changes.

In my mind I feel that I can have a switch to no longer want someone who is desiring to potentially have sex with someone else and not make me their first choice. I need to be clear and say if I'm not number one on your sex list then dont bother calling me ever or contacting me.

So what I'm saying is that if you're meant to be a lover or boyfriend to someone or husband, it will happen. Perhaps there is just that one person who will readily convince you to open up and let your guard down for once and begin actually dating someone and treating them like a real human being...

As I said before.... You really cant have your cake and eat it too; life just doesnt work out that way....

But truth is that your mind will control where you will meet someone...
or what kind of mate are you seeking will actually arrive...

Someone once told me they wished for an Asian girl with a nice ass, and he met me the very next day...

I wanted someone who would know me and really enjoy being around me...and thats what happened... but I would have never guessed a guy like him would like someone like me...

There are many times I never know if someone is into me, and attracted until they tell me...

Im not for the cat and mouse game nor a chaser...

But I wrote this blog to simply say that just because this is a sex site for most people doesn't mean everyone just doesnt want a relationship long term...
perhaps for some few it is a last resort because they've tried the right way of going about finding someone...

but anyway, hope you found this an interesting read and maybe gave you some idea that things happen when you least expect and you never know that someone like me is indeed very real

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