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what makes NO sense  

QuickNClever33 39F
2 posts
1/2/2019 1:02 am
what makes NO sense

I'm not typically the type that complains or makes noise about things, but this thing in particular is really pissing me off lately. Contrary to popular belief, I'm a black woman with a job a house a career, and I am educated. I'm not some ghetto trashy classless picking pockets or turning dates behind a dumpster. so please do not assume things. second, I do not have to deal with every person that says hi to me. I am some what of a swinger but I have my limits and I have my rules. I do not engage with more than 1 guy at a time, and I do not play bare with any men except my own. I also do not like being watched or knowing there are people staring and jacking off makes me a bit uncomfortable. it's just me...But that doesn't make me prude, stuck up, rude or dumb. It's my choice and my preference. also what I will and won't do has nothing to do with my level of education nor my ability to spot a red flag.
generally, if a man won't respect my wishes over the phone or via message, then it's a sure thing he won't respect my wishes in person. behind closed doors. so when i request something small like a pic before meeting, or a contact number, it isn't to be nosy. its because I want some sort of idea who I'm going to meet.

this is my 1st blog. just giving it a shot...opinions welcomed.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/2/2019 2:20 am

Hey girl! Great pic!🔥🔥🔥 Honest pov... Great candor expressed here! I look forward to reading your next post!. 😊👍📖
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hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
1/2/2019 9:16 am

I'm not sure I have any opinions worth mentioning on the subject of assumed prejudice, because (I hope) I don't have any, lol. And of course your preferences as to who you meet, (or have any other kind of contact with) are totally up to you. (I can never get my head round why anyone would want to try to persuade someone else to change their natural preferences.)

But as to your final sentence; "first bog, just giving it a shot," my opinion is that these blogs can be an amazing way to make contact / friends / lovers all around the world, and share ideas with people who do respect your preferences, whatever they may be.

Yes, of course there will always be trolls, you have to watch out for that here as anywhere else, but the fact that here you can share a totally unremarkable thought, or an utterly bizarre one with a mass of people, some of whom will turn out to be right slap bang pinpoint on your wavelength, even if it is something you would never feel able to share with real life friends, is absolutely priceless! If you write more, I will be here to read it.


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