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Really I'm Fine. Really.
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Really I'm Fine. Really. Well after yesterdays post, on complications, I received a bevy of mails asking questions. So I thought maybe a quick, light hearted, follow up would be in order.  yes..I'm fine. No I'm not depressed. I have not given up all hope. No, I'm not leaving Affairlook or the blogs. It's all good!! Just done complicating things, so I'm taking a break from the dating pool for a while..Not looking for any of the acronyms until further notice. Some of the responses got me thinking..oh crap, here we go again, he's thinking. Relax, these thoughts have been with me for a while. A couple of us were laughing about the responses of, don't think about it, too much thinking, too much planning. Just let it happen. Well, truthfully, that's what I did with my ex wife. That really didn't turn out well. I think some of the problems in relationships is people don't have any plans on what they're looking for. How can you know if the other person has it, if you don't even know what it is. LOL I know I've been guilty of it. Meet a girl, have some fun. Sex is great. Let's get married/ltr, whatever. Then years later it's....what the hell was I thinking!?!?! Problem was I wasn't thinking. If you don't spend time figuring out who you are, what makes you happy, and what you want out of life and a relationship. Then in my opinion, you're throwing darts trying to hit a bullseye. Except you're blindfolded and have one hand tied behind your back. Don't over think this comment and think I'm opposed to blindfolds or having my hands tied down. I'm thinking, I'm not. I'm sure some find the one, with just blind luck. But at my age, i think I've gotten wise enough to think about my actions, my relationships, my life and my future, with a little bit more of a ideal than when i was young. To be honest, if I'd have been wiser when I was young...maybe I wouldn't be here looking now. LOL I have a good plan, know who I am, and what I want. Thing is, lifes too short to spend it alone. But it's way too long, to spend with the wrong person. Think about that..Anyways, for those that sent me messages, I thank everyone who wished me well. Offered an ear to talk to. And those that were actually worried. Thanks to all those who like the<b> philosophy </font></b>of the Three L's. The two couples that messaged me about the idea, inspired me. And the others make me think it might have been worth the effort, especially that one special comment. There are a lot of great people on this blog. And to think it's a get laid tonight site. LOL Peace. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx |
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Also wanted to see how many times I could get the word think, in a post. I think I need to try harder.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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You know by now if you ask our opinion, you are going to get it.
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"I have a good plan, know who I am, and what I want. Thing is, lifes too short to spend it alone. But it's way too long, to spend with the wrong person." indeed...and i know you have a good head over your shoulder...and only you can construct the better life...in the way you want it... yes you don't have to spend a whole lot of time, but you need to be sure, which way you are going and with what plan...and i am pretty sure, you have already know that...i am trusting you... good luck...work hard, but take your time...as much as you want...
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9/27/2018 2:25 pm |
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9/27/2018 2:26 pm |
Good opinion!
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You know by now if you ask our opinion, you are going to get it. I try to look at everything, as I can always learn something. Or maybe see something differently, due to someone else's opinion. You just keep them coming. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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"I have a good plan, know who I am, and what I want. Thing is, lifes too short to spend it alone. But it's way too long, to spend with the wrong person." indeed...and i know you have a good head over your shoulder...and only you can construct the better life...in the way you want it... yes you don't have to spend a whole lot of time, but you need to be sure, which way you are going and with what plan...and i am pretty sure, you have already know that...i am trusting you... good luck...work hard, but take your time...as much as you want... I think I just worded it a little too deeply, and gave the impression I "just " started thinking about this. Yes, I have a plan..had a plan for the last 13 years. And it worked out wonderfully. I'm sure the next 13 will be just as good. This is the culmination of years..and I mean years. Of thinking. LOL" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Ah...I see what you're saying more in this response. And I agree completely. To be honest, what I want now, is not what I wanted 13 years ago..so staying flexible is absolutely a must. The only time I really thought I found what I wanted, but wasn't happy with it, was my marriage. But to be honest, at 25, I'm sure I was thinking with the little head more than the big one. I think mine was more of where I wouldn't settle. Things that were too important to me, to allow me to change my mind and accept something less. People change, attitudes change, circumstances change. I"m always flexible. Here's a line I had on a match profile. "I know every relationship takes compromise, I just refuse to settle in who I'm willing to compromise with. " " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I think no matter what you do it's gonna . . . leave a mark. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I think no matter what you do it's gonna . . . leave a mark. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I think I can smell your wood burning clear up here!! { yep and someone is gonna get me for that one} (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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So glad you had a lot or responses to your blog yesterday and your in a good place and I do hope what ever it is you want happens soon.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I think I can smell your wood burning clear up here!! { yep and someone is gonna get me for that one} " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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So glad you had a lot or responses to your blog yesterday and your in a good place and I do hope what ever it is you want happens soon.. Thanks for the hopes trzzz. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I'm thinking your thinking is right on the mark.. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I'm thinking that's another thing I like about you. If two people are thinking about each other, than that's one less thing to have to think about. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Well that just marks you as a thinker, I think. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Well that's sorta what I thought I was expressing, but some have pointed out it sounded a little "dark"... Thanks. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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