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sexycugar14 50F
29 posts
4/5/2018 2:52 pm
New Lifestyle


So a little about myself. I've struggle with my w for my entire life.. After a heart are last September, I started working out and eating healthy. My heart was affected because of being pre-diabetic. After loosing 25 lbs I'm no longer pre-diabetic and I'm more active and a lot healthier. But I still struggled with depression and self esteem. After I met my FWB SMCouple20 last month, my self esteem is getting a lot better. He has opened me to a new world of Dominate and Submissive lifestyle. Yes like others I did watch Fifty Shades of Grey and I loved it.. But I never thought I be into it. So far I've been tied up and spanked with paddles and blindfolded and handcuffed. He is starting me off slowly to see what I like and don't like... I really want a MFM some. But right now I'm experimenting with him.. Hopefully soon I'll get my wish.. And yes we will record it and post it on my profile and blog..

bigg_dre2000 43M
155 posts
4/5/2018 2:56 pm

Fifty Shades of Grey was a boring ass movie.


sexycugar14 replies on 4/5/2018 4:52 pm:
Hehe, but I'm a girl so I like romance... Lol

wantaplay8 71M
5606 posts
4/5/2018 3:36 pm

Best wishes for a happy you.


sexycugar14 replies on 4/5/2018 4:53 pm:
Thank you

benard69 66M/66F

4/5/2018 3:41 pm

Just enjoy at your own speed and comfort...Congrats on the weight loss and beginning to love yourself...Proud of ya!


sexycugar14 replies on 4/5/2018 4:54 pm:
Yes, I will.. Thank you.. He is starting me off slowly to see what I'm comfortable with... So far I'm having fun..

SMCouple209 53M/47F

4/5/2018 4:19 pm

Probably not a good idea to get involved with a person with that kind of neurosis?
So BDSM is a neurosis?
You should treat your mouth like your phone in a movie theater, put that on silence!

I suggest you dump him, and go find someone else...good luck on that one I am sure she will care about your thoughts on that next time she is sleeping in my arms!

He will find a way to keep you feeding his neurosis.P..S. Don't mistake my life for yours!

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Look but Don't Touch


sexycugar14 replies on 4/5/2018 4:55 pm:
Lol

Suppletitties 63M
291 posts
4/5/2018 4:50 pm

I was 50 shades of freak in 1979, So know that is pretty much like basic cable.


rambo4272 55M
30 posts
4/5/2018 10:05 pm

Me and him have texted a cpl time. When you want if hes ok with it. i'll be there for your mfm


frakinyou 45M/47F

4/5/2018 10:07 pm

Awesome


rambo4272 55M
30 posts
4/5/2018 10:22 pm

Congrats on your achievements. I'm sure your not a dumb girl so just enjoy life and what it gives you. don't sweat the little stuff. And you'll be fine


SMCouple209 53M/47F

4/6/2018 12:56 pm

Opinions Are Like Assholes.
Keep your thoughts to yourself. Fools are better seen than heard.
If wanted your opinion I would have asked for it! Don't you know opinions are like assholes. Everybody has one and most of them stink.

New research from has found that people who are into BDSM score higher on mental-health tests than those who are more "vanilla." The study surveyed 902 BDSM fetishists and 434 people who prefer to keep it tame in the bedroom. Their questionnaires covered everything from the participant's general well-being to how attached they become in a relationship, and how they handle rejection. The results showed that the kinky participants had better mental health than those who aren't.

sorry to shut you down and tell you your about to get blocked
have a good Day!

Look but Don't Touch


SMCouple209 53M/47F

4/6/2018 1:11 pm

We all love being judged by assholes who have a stigma that BDSM is a part of a larger mental disorder because we are more communicative and assertive of their sexual needs. Currently, BDSM is considered outside of the norm of usual sexual preferences, and this study works in conjunction but with studies that revealed BDSM participants are less neurotic, more secure in their relationships, and have a greater sense of well-being than their non-BDSM peers.

So your opinion that BDSM is a mental disorder only when it causes harm to the practitioner or to others.

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Look but Don't Touch


SMCouple209 53M/47F

4/6/2018 1:55 pm

ok we will be sure to remember that your opinion matters when i am fucking her brains out in that swing tomorrow afternoon

i got no more time to waste on assholes like you who really need to get laid!

and p.s. asshole we don't live BDSM 24/7 we do normal stuff to like get food and watch a movie or make love all night on satin sheets!

wow your an asshole on everyone's blog damn!

Look but Don't Touch


sexycugar14 replies on 4/7/2018 9:13 pm:
That swing was so much fun..

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