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Ratio NOT in my favor as a guy  

OHFun2018 34M
10 posts
3/6/2018 7:08 am
Ratio NOT in my favor as a guy


The numbers are working against me.

Where are the Columbus area ladies?

I'm very real.

rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
3/6/2018 9:19 am

I have to say that you yourself are you own worst enemy.

A - you have a dick pic. As BiggLala said just about every guy has that. If you had 25 Camaros in front of you and they were all the same color and all the same model and year and they all has the exact same options how would you choose one? For the most part all dicks are the same... one head, one shaft, two balls. The size is actually irrelevant if you are an a**hole. All men have a dick, don't BE a dick. Quasimodo had a dick.. we are not having sex with him.

B - YOUR PROFILE... is horrible, sorry. You want women to see that you are new and don't know how it works. Who dates THAT?? Tips.. do NOT give us how you like doggie style and go all night and love to go down on a woman. Tell us about YOU. Again, almost every guy on here likes sex in all those positions and a huge number of them go all night and blah blah blah. Stand out by saying what YOU Like to do and if you are looking for long term, short term, what are you looking for?

C - Ideal person.. again.. huh?? Outgoing, witty, and fun are good, but do you really think there is a woman that will look in the mirror and say, "I am not f*cking hot.. I can't contact him." Do you see my point here? ROFL Some of this stuff if you don't like the person you see in a photo just say no thank you, but writing smoking hot, large boobs, round a**... is just superficial stuff and it makes you sound demanding, shallow, and egotistical. A preference of a hair color or a height not so much, but those things really are.

I do hope you get some quality meets here, but it isn't going to just happen because you slammed out your penis and said you are horny. YOU HAVE TO WORK THE SITE! It is like a job interview. You have to sell yourself and you won't do it that way. Walking into a job interview and saying "I am here hire me" gets you shown out the door.

Best of luck!! Feel free to contact me if you wish and I can send you some helpful links for the site and how it works.


OHFun2018 34M

3/6/2018 9:49 am

Main profile pic is updated. Profile description update is next.

I appreciate the feedback.


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
3/6/2018 10:29 am

MUCH nicer photo. I went through and looked. You can see this yourself. The majority of the likes on your photos, including your dick photos.. ARE MEN.


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
3/6/2018 11:07 am

If you had 25 Camaros in front of you and they were all the same color and all the same model and year and they all has the exact same options how would you choose one?
Love that analogy


Brownie202 67F  

3/6/2018 12:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Agree with the no cocktail picture part. Didn't read your profile which I am awful at for my own. I delete all mail with any kind of naked pictures unread.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/6/2018 5:45 pm

Ratio NOT in my favor .... That is why you have to use more than one dating site... like maybe 5 or more. This increases your chances.

The numbers are working against me... Well sure they are. Look at your competition in your area. Like Lala said, in so many words, you have to set yourself apart from the other Joe's.
Not only that, you have to set yourself to be more desirable by many more than just one or two women. So you have better choices. Otherwise, if your choices of women are limited, you could very well end up being abused.

Where are the Columbus area ladies?.... The attractive women are taken, they haven't been on here [some] in over 3 years. These women tend to go very quickly, like fresh hot pizza slices at a deli.

In regional areas like Columbus Ohio you'll be limited in your prime choices. The better women will be claimed fast, leaving lots and lots of the unclaimed, the undesirables. So go make those other profiles on multiple sites, and do not give up on going outside to find what you want.

I'm very real. ....Doesn't matter. Choose wisely, your woman or women. Relationships are not safe.


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