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Discreet dosen't ALWAYS mean Dishonest.
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Discreet dosen't ALWAYS mean Dishonest. So I've noticed lately that there is a lot of mistrust floating around this site lately (and the world to be honest). Second guessing has become the norm on any communication or interaction. And to be honest, a lot of it is justified. A lot of pics are faked (unless we are all budding porn models just waiting for our breakout moment) and there are some misleading profiles ("here for fun" doesn't usually jump right into talks of marriage). Now granted, as a NON-GOLD standard member, access is limited and quite frankly you almost feel handcuffed (and not in a good kinky way) trying to find things on the site. But it almost seems that any attempt to protect one's privacy or identity - is almost a sure sign that you will get labeled as someone that is dishonestly trying to hide something (which ironically I am hiding some stuff to a certain extinct). My backstory is probably not too uncommon on this site - newly divorced (almost a year now) with 2<b> teenagers </font></b>living in my house (their mother relocated out of state and the are staying here until they graduate). My profile doesn't include a face shot - do to the fact that I really don't want my or anyone they know to find out about my private affairs (seems pretty normal to me). So I am looking to be more discreet in my activities, not in a dishonest way - but more as a safety zone for my family. Unfortunately, I get the sense that all these factors (divorced male, discreet relations, no posted face pic, and no paid membership) automatically get me tossed into the untrustworthy category. Which in itself is a little discriminatory - since there are plenty of women that have NO pics posted - but yet they are viewed as just being cautious. My point for all this soapbox rambling is not to gain pity attention from all the sexy women that are surely reading my blog  But, more I guess to bring to light that not everyone on here is looking to hustle someone... and maybe, more than you would expect, there are guys like me that are just normal, sex deprived, closet stalkers - who enjoy the sexual banter of a female counterpart - and have the hopes that someday may actual lead to something more than text on a page. (hopefully before the condoms shrivel up in my wallet!!)  
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Great blog and I understand the need for privacy, and your right discreet doesn't mean dishonestly. And in saying that the site is all what we make out of it. Good luck I hope you get to meet some great people here from the site.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I never had a picture here. I couldn't add one. Was new to computers so no idea why. Not hiding anything. Would be honest with my looks and send a picture. I get accused by some of being a fake or ugly and fat. Even before I gained some weight I was called fat. Aholes will be aholes. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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I agree with LaLa. On here, discreet usually means dishonest. I need a really great kiss!!
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It sad that we all are guarded, but some make us feel this way, there are a lot of parents on here don't want their business in the street or internet, does that make you dishonest no, I have never had a face pic on here, some people feel comfortable with face pics, It is their choice to do so, and those who don't it doesn't make them dishonest, If you are new to this site you are going to hear and read a lot of shit on here, If you can't handle it you are on the wrong site, if you can handle it welcome to Affairlook,
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