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Blogs > BandNED > Dating for a couple

Thursday nights Out  

BandNED 44M/39F
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5/12/2017 6:18 pm
Thursday nights Out

OK so for those of you who read these, Every Thursday night, we go out and have drinks with friends at a Local Bar that does Karaoke. Our group of friends consists of a few couples, Some gay folks-male and female and some single individuals too. Guys and Gals of all sorts, makes, models, sizes, age and creed, lol. We all have a fun time. We drink, are merry and TRY to sing. I did say try for those who have seen us, lol.

So last night, we were out, having fun as usual. When we go out, we do so to relax, and de-stress from the week. I may of gotten a little to drunk and after a series of lap dances given out by me to straight and gay, folks, one of our gay friends (who just got a lap dance from me) danced up against me while my wife was<b> singing </font></b>on stage. NO big deal, I'm comfortable with my sexuality. Hell I even reached around him and groped his boobs, lol. Again no big deal, I've been this intoxicated and more so before. Everyone who goes out with us knows I get this way, We both do. We're a fun loving couple, hell she spent half the night getting piggyback rides from strangers and our friends, haha. Again, just us. SO back to the story....

So our friend decides to grid against me...OK...I''m still good. But then he shoves his hand down my pants, grabs my junk and started to rub it. Ok, ok, ok, those of you who now me know this is a no go for me. Sooooo.....this is where it get bad, I'm so drunk that it actually took me a moment to realize what was going on. My wife, love her to death, I see her laughing instead of<b> singing </font></b>on stage. Wait, why's she laughing, and at me? Because she saw what was going on long before I did. SHIT! then I realize myself, grab his hand and say, "Sorry brother, I just play a bi-guy on T.V. but not in real life. SMH

Yes I know, I know, Way too drunk, need to rethink my actions and so much more. We all had a good laugh. NO harm no foul. But still. Felt a little messed up. He wasn't mad, neither was his boyfriend. My poor wife damb near pissed her pants. She kept asking if I felt violated. Again, SMH, Seriously, she didn't stop busting my balls for the rest of the night.

Pain in my ass, but love of my life. Wow. So there's our Thursday night. Oh So onto my wife,

She was being hit on my a girls for half the night, I had to point it out to her. lol. She was definitely too drunk to notice. In her defense this girl was shy and nervous. My wife gave her our number and we'll see. Who knows. My wife also had to break a heart of a 68 year old gentlemen who thought he'd take her home. I never get into anything she's doing, unless motioned to do so. She's a big girl and can tell someone no on her own. I'm only there if they don't understand the meaning of NO. Well me and about 5 other guys averaging 6 foot and 250-300 pounds of go the hell away, lol.

Yes I'm the smallest at 5-9, lol give me a break. ;0)

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