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Never mind  

Thehandhand 50M
2 posts
1/12/2018 8:14 pm
Never mind


I had a young lover, she was 14years younger than me. Do not ask me why and how we got on together, I can only say we used to work in the same company. Life is full of surprises when you least expected. She used to work with me in many occasions when my department needs her work done; and most of the time I was the person who asked her for the tasks. Her boss knew that we had some good chat relationship and just did not bother with me to go ask the young lady without I go directly to the boss first. Yes, they both arebwomen, a young one with a boss my age.
We got along well, and sometimes we smoke together. And somehow we started to have an affair. Well, I am married with a , she has a boyfriend, and even though I am 14 years senior, we got on well,.
Throughout the 3 years period, we had a lot of fun n joy, n most of the time her boyfriend was out and about overseas, we had some passionate nights when wife took the on holiday.
This is dangerous, because you do not know what will happen in the office, and one day I was away on holiday, she told me that its time to call it off. Although how ever you do not want that to happen, it would happen, and it would happen when you least expected. As a man, you know what you have to do, agreed as a gentleman, I do not know any other way, although my heart was broken. True, I was naive, and I was hoping this kind of relationship would last forever. Anyway, I understood that its about time, so I let go of it.
Again, life is full of surprises when you least expected, the young lady called again, saying she does not want to end the relationship and wanted me to stick together. At the time I was overwhelmed with the words she said and how much she wanted to keep going on with me. But the fact was, after a few days, I did not feel that she was there, you know sometimes you hug someone and do not feel the person you hug is there with you? I might be a clumsy guy, but sometimes I am rather sensual. It was another couple of months passed that I did not feel she was there, I told her that it is about time for us to stop, this time she gladly took the offer and stopped talking to me. Guess what, I left the company a few months after that, and took on another offer when I thought it was best to pursue my goal as well as stay away from her. But life is never easy on you, my old boss (mind you, he IS old) asked me to return after two years absence, I guess he really needs some help on the business and I took the offer. Here she is still there, working under the same boss lady, who also has some crush on me, but that will be another story. As an old colleague, seeing me returned and greet me with laughters, but the young lady had never laid an eye on me anymore, other than any work related issues, that is necessary. I do understand that once the relationship ended, there is nothing left, since we were not in a regular relationship you see everyday, breaking up is not unusual, and seriously, no hard feelings right? I had gone passed the grieving age, and had the guts to go back to work in the company, why can't we just get back to the relationship before the affair started? Never mind, it's no longer an issue, just a good laugh of how life is all the time.

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