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Knock. It. Off  

Curiousthatsall9 50F  
91 posts
7/10/2018 2:02 pm
Knock. It. Off


I want the following types of messages to CEASE AND DESIST IMMEDIATELY:

(1) Those from complete strangers addressing me as "babe" or "hun" or "dear." Or the worst - "sweetie" UGH! Those are terms of endearment - for someone you are ENDEARED to, not for a stranger. It's creepy and if you do it, it's curtains for you. Nobody needs to "call" me by any name or term, just fucking address me as if I were sitting across from you and speak like a normal human being.

(2) Those who think they are super clever by asking me WHAT ARE YOU CURIOUS ABOUT??!!? Hardy fucking har har - do you actually think you're being creative or do you need me to show you the other 2 dozen identical messages I get in any given day? If you read my profile you will see that that's a stupid question.

(3) The ones from guys who can't take the time to put a photo or any information in their profile and then, on top of that, can't come up with a better intro than "HI." Oh please, does this actually ever work?

nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
7/10/2018 2:10 pm

I get a lot of the number 3, from women or the spammers. When I get those, it's delete! as for the others, some people are just fucking morons!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/10/2018 3:52 pm

Now are those people the ones you would have an interest in?
I have to think those you aren't interested in would make any difference
if their bound for the scrap heap.

Using more than all the road!


VelkutuVoom 55M
135 posts
7/10/2018 4:07 pm

Sometimes it's actually fun to get under someone's skin and it can be good for them.


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
7/10/2018 4:41 pm

So, there's no acceptable way of approaching you - online or off. With the exception of item 1 (perfectly acceptable to others in other settings) I'd say...

Asking questions and simply saying hello is how one strikes up a conversation.

"get over yourself"!
64 and single is right around the corner!


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
7/10/2018 5:58 pm

I agree with you about terms of endearment. I don't like it when women think it is alright to call men by those terms especially when other women don't like men using those terms with them.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


tony25024 67M
214 posts
7/17/2018 9:53 am

oi. meu amor pode mim add, ok, beijosssssssss.


open4couple 49M/43F
2 posts
9/7/2018 8:48 am

Hello Crystal I hope you are enjoying life alli wanted was for u to be happy. good luck and God speed. if only you could be honest


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