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Venus and Mars, Woman and Man  

fantasywife1 63F
55 posts
9/26/2016 2:56 pm

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2/20/2017 12:29 pm

Venus and Mars, Woman and Man


Did you know that women came from Venus while men came from Mars?
Is meant to symbolize women's nature vs. men's nature . They are so different.

Venus was the goddess of love and beauty in the Roman mythology, Mars was the god of war.

The astrological symbols for planet Venus ♀ and Mars ♂ are used to represent the female and male sex respectively, following a convention introduced in the the 18th century.
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A short blah-blah before I get to the main subject (it might be interesting):

All the planets in our Solar System are named after Roman<b> gods </font></b>(which ultimately derive from those of the Greeks)

☿ Mercury- named after Mercurius, the messenger to the<b> gods
</font></b>♀ Venus- named after Venus, goddess of love and beauty
⊕ Earth-named after Terra Mater (Mother Earth), goddess of Earth
♂ Mars- named after Mars, god of war
♃ Jupiter- named after Jupiter, god of sky and thunder and king of the gods, the chief deity
♄ Saturn- named after Saturnus, god of agriculture
♅ Uranus- from the latinised version of the Greek god of the sky Ouranos
♆ Neptune- named after Neptunus, god of the sea
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Now comes my subject: Women and Men, Venus and Mars.
Women are fragile, elegant, gracious, beautiful, sophisticated.
Men in turn are strong, direct, decisive, born warriors.
But how true is all that?

Women nowadays have almost absolute control over men, almost every big decision in a couple's life is taken by the woman.
She decides when her man is going to have sex, she has her headaches when and as often as she wants.
She will have sex when she wants a favor from you. She will deny sex when she is punishing you for a real or imagined frustration.
Man, you are sentenced to a sexless or sex-starved life.
What she doesn't know is that you will find your way around it. Either you are going to have cyber sex or find a person to have sex for real.
Women are not going to change that,no matter how hard they try.

Men on the other hand are placid, peaceful, lucid, reasonable- but foremost they are driven by instinct.
Men have the need for sex biologically encrypted, they are programmed to spread their genes.
They will chase the carnal pleasure as long as they are able to wake up with an erection.
Woman, you are sentenced to accept this as a fact.
In order to lower the chance of your man looking for sex outside the marriage, stop using sex as means of obtaining favours or as punishment. Just make love, have unconditional sex. More often, much more often than once a month.

Sex is the best antidepressant, fat-burning exercise and builds your confidence, it is bonding.
Sex is pleasurable for both genders, have as much sex as possible while you can.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/28/2016 3:52 pm

fantasywife1 replies on 9/28/2016 2:14 pm:
I agree with many points you have, generally you are confirming what I've just said (although some citations you responded to are taken out of the context I had them in).
I am talking about tendencies, I'm talking about misconception, about the way statuses are about to change. About feminism gone wrong. The message I wanted to convey is intended for men who are yet not too late to take control over their own life.
They are not wuzzies, they are just men who do care too much for their woman. In turn, the woman did put herself on a pedestal from which she no longer sees the man as a consort but as someone to look down to, to use and abuse.


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Indeed, feminism has tipped the proverbial scale in the opposite direction, rather than balanced it.

The message I wanted to convey is intended for men who are yet not too late to take control over their own life. .... And I applaud your conveyance.

They are not wuzzies, they are just men who do care too much for their woman. ..... Agreed, caring too much about his woman doesn't make him a wuss, but allowing his woman to doormat him, nourish him only sometimes or at her convenience, and he doesn't do something about it [even if that something is cheating] , then he's a wuss.

In turn, the woman did put herself on a pedestal from which she no longer sees the man as a consort but as someone to look down to, to use and abuse ... She can't place herself above her man without him boosting her up there [the affects of feminism on males], and when she started looking down on him, taking advantage of that, and he failed to bring her back down to Earth, then he became a wuss.

Good blog.


fantasywife1 replies on 9/28/2016 5:12 pm:
See, here I am, a woman talking unbiased about women's negative side and there you are a man talking unbiased about men's negative side... LOL, shouldn't it be the other way around?

I think that both genders are responsible for the current situation, raising awareness is the best one can do.
Wish I had more power and influence to stop the problem getting worse.
All I can offer is being the "fantasy wife" of all those frustrated men who are visiting my profile, giving them a few minutes of excitement or/and having a relaxed conversation.

Thanks for your comments!

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/27/2016 2:21 am

Women are fragile, elegant, gracious, beautiful, sophisticated. .... Romanticized nonsense, but some women do actually qualify.

Men in turn are strong, direct, decisive, born warriors. ....Also romanticized nonsense, but history does show that our society does hold this described man in high esteem. Children usually regard them as role models.

Women can be strong , direct, decisive, born warriors. Look at the MMA women fighters. Men can be fragile, elegant, gracious, beautiful, sophisticated. Although usually in most cases that would mean the guy is gay.

Women nowadays have almost absolute control over men, almost every big decision in a couple's life is taken by the woman. .... If she is the man of the house, then yes. Because she married a wussy. Many of those types around nowadays. These marriages tend not to last very long.

She decides when her man is going to have sex, she has her headaches when and as often as she wants. .... Yes, she certainly can do that, but if she married a man other than a wussy, he's able to attract more pussy.

She will have sex when she wants a favor from you. She will deny sex when she is punishing you for a real or imagined frustration. ... Sure, and again, more affective if she married a loser. Far less affective if the man can attract more pussy.

Man, you are sentenced to a sexless or sex-starved life. ... No. Wussy, you are sentenced to a sexless starved life. Maybe you should go get a DNA test done on your kids, just to be sure.

What she doesn't know is that you will find your way around it. Either you are going to have cyber sex or find a person to have sex for real. ... Oh she probably knows very well that is what he would do if he could. No half way smart woman would dare pull that nonsense on a strong male head-of-the-house male.

Women are not going to change that, no matter how hard they try. ... True, but due to failure in trying, they then refer to him as a misogynist, and/or cheater.

Men on the other hand are placid, peaceful, lucid, reasonable- but foremost they are driven by instinct. ... There can be found those types of men. But about , "Instincts", women have them also. They are just different from those of a man, as the mans instincts are different from those of a woman.

Men have the need for sex biologically encrypted, they are programmed to spread their genes.
They will chase the carnal pleasure as long as they are able to wake up with an erection.
.... Hence a planet with about 8 billion with many split DNA lineages. Go look out your window.

Woman, you are sentenced to accept this as a fact.
In order to lower the chance of your man looking for sex outside the marriage, stop using sex as means of obtaining favours or as punishment.
... This will be difficult for most women because her vagina is her only leverage of power. She damn well better look hot. Think about it, really no wonder prostitution is widely against the law.

Just make love, have unconditional sex. More often, much more often than once a month..... Yes, and it's actually physically healthy for the both of you. Don't be against throwing in some "Quickies" a few times a week.

Sex is the best antidepressant, fat-burning exercise and builds your confidence, it is bonding. ... True, actually can be bonding under the right circumstances.
Women always seem to get upset about her man having sex with another woman , and bonding with her. Women forget that most men have the emotional ability to see women only as a convenient piece of ass when he needs release.

Sex is pleasurable for both genders, have as much sex as possible while you can. ... Absolutely, because later on , the sex drive can go away for many reasons, one of which is having sex with the same person for too many years.


fantasywife1 replies on 9/28/2016 2:14 pm:
I agree with many points you have, generally you are confirming what I've just said (although some citations you responded to are taken out of the context I had them in).
I am talking about tendencies, I'm talking about misconception, about the way statuses are about to change. About feminism gone wrong. The message I wanted to convey is intended for men who are yet not too late to take control over their own life.
They are not wuzzies, they are just men who do care too much for their woman. In turn, the woman did put herself on a pedestal from which she no longer sees the man as a consort but as someone to look down to, to use and abuse.

JonandGwen 58M/60F
2 posts
9/26/2016 5:24 pm

I love this post for two reasons one is it is true that women have absolute control over men. but this fact is only true when the man truly loves his women and gives her this power over him .He will give up his fight to concur her and fight to protect her there is no truer bliss feeling then finding the one person in your life that your willing to protect and satisfy their needs more then your own. and two being how women uses sex to get their way weather to win the battle or gain the prize if women would only understand that the battle and prize both can be won and gotten by sex and not by holding it back more relationships would be saved and both men and women would be much happier. Jon with the love of my life Gwen Thanks for a great blog


fantasywife1 replies on 9/28/2016 1:09 pm:
Jon and Gwen, you both have the intelligence and wisdom to maintain a great relationship, you more than likely have many things in common which also helps. Just like my husband and me. Respect, consideration and honesty is the secret to a strong relationship. Women tend to forget this. Feminism has gone too far.

northshoretake2 50M  
1626 posts
9/26/2016 4:45 pm

I'm not sure I agree with some of the generalizations you've made. Specifically:

Women nowadays have almost absolute control over men, almost every big decision in a couple's life is taken by the woman.

Men on the other hand are placid, peaceful, lucid, reasonable- but foremost they are driven by instinct.


I can't think of many people, in couples or not, who fit those descriptions. However, the dynamics you described--most men will seek sex elsewhere if denied and smart women will not exercise control through sex--ring quite true. These actions, however, seem inconsistent with the archetypes you've shared.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


fantasywife1 replies on 9/28/2016 1:20 pm:
You are one lucky man! And so are the couples/singles in your circle.

Nola7011 68M
1021 posts
9/26/2016 3:58 pm

Listen, every man of my generation saw Queen of Outer Space," starring Zsa Zsa Gabor as the Queen of Venus (no King, no men), we already know.

People are strange when you're a stranger."


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/26/2016 3:51 pm

This is an awesome well-written post. Thank YOu

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fuckbudy60 63M
37 posts
9/26/2016 3:27 pm

that was like reading a cliff note from yrs back ... great job of summary of the whole situation


dodidadi12345 47M
16 posts
9/26/2016 3:10 pm

true 100 percent,tiday s women rule


fantasywife1 63F
18 posts
9/26/2016 3:00 pm

I know that most of the readers of my blog are men, feel free to comment and add your thoughts.
These are my thoughts, correct me if I'm wrong in anything I said.


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