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And so it begins....
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Wishing you luck!! I hope you're able to relax and enjoy your son's major accomplishment. Funny thing is I just got back from a vacation. First one since 2013 and I spent it with my ex! Long story short is we got along despite some major hiccups (delays, health issues and having to wear a damn mask thanks to anti vaxxers and kids) I can't wait to read about your trip! My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Sounds like you have your work cut out for you there McLade......I hope it turns out better than the initial signs suggest it might! You're a diamond mum for doing this for your boy.......it's an example your kids will take with them forever!
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That road trip doesn't sound if it'll be a great one!
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I certainly will wish you a lot of luck. Some Exs can be awful and some can still be a best friend. I have one of each. For some reason I can believe you are going to be thinking "I am doing this for my Son" a lot. Sending a big hug and good wishes for a safe and mostly sane trip.
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The sacrifices some parents make on behalf of their children is amazing. You're a wonderful mother and I'm so sorry your ex husband makes it so fricking difficult every step of your way. The silver lining is ... he is your EX husband, not your husband. At some point your children will have appreciation and a better understanding of your sacrifices.
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Luck 
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The sacrifices some parents make on behalf of their children is amazing. You're a wonderful mother and I'm so sorry your ex husband makes it so fricking difficult every step of your way. The silver lining is ... he is your EX husband, not your husband. At some point your children will have appreciation and a better understanding of your sacrifices. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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I certainly will wish you a lot of luck. Some Exs can be awful and some can still be a best friend. I have one of each. For some reason I can believe you are going to be thinking "I am doing this for my Son" a lot. Sending a big hug and good wishes for a safe and mostly sane trip. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Just got into vacation argument number one with the ex husband. I haven't even left Gaylord yet..... "[secret_lade]! You still planning on leaving at around 8am tomorrow?" The Ex Husband always sounds angry and pissed off with me on the phone, I hate talking to him on the phone. "Yes, that's my plan. I'd like to...." "Well, [oldest son] said if he has to do a drug test won't be able to go until after 10." "What do you mean a drug test?!? Why does he need to do a drug test?" "It's part of his probation." "Why am I just now finding out about this? Does he even have permission to go?" I was angry. Thank you, Douche Bag, for springing this on me at 8:30 the night before we're supposed to leave. "He may not even have to do one. He hasn't had to do one in a long time. Are you going to have room for my Yeti cooler in the back?" "I should, the back of my car is pretty big. [The Spawn] and I only have one suitcase. When you get here in the morning...." "I wanted you to pick me up." For God's sake, why is he always interrupting me???? "What do you mean you want me to pick you up? Why would I drive all the way out of town to pick you up so I can drive all the way back into town to get on the expressway?" "I want to leave my truck in the driveway so it looks like I'm home." Are you kidding me??? I'm doing this guy a HUGE favor. I'm trucking his ass all the way to South Carolina because he hasn't had a driver's license in 30 years. I've done everything I could do to make this trip as easy for myself and the Spawn as I can and he's already done nothing but make things difficult. "You know, you wouldn't do ANY of this for me, if the situation were reversed...." Cut off again. Damn him! "I should just fucking stay home!" Yes you should you miserable fucker!! "Jesus Christ, how about thinking about....." It doesn't take me long to realize how much happier I am when I'm not around the Ex Husband. For seventeen years my opinion meant nothing. Seventeen years of unfinished sentences and unshared thoughts. Seventeen years of someone else second guessing everything single thing I did. Seventeen years of, you're hair looks weird... why are you wearing that.... don't just hide in the corner like you always do when we get to my cousin's house. I disliked socializing with his derelict, half in the bag, pot smoking friends and would usually keep to myself. As much as I want to enjoy my upcoming vacation, I can already feel the wind being sucked out of it's sails. I just have to keep in mind, I'm doing this for my Son. It is so important to him to have his whole family at his graduation.... And they will be there. Wish me luck!
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