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When did I become so.... Social??
When did I become so.... Social?? I went to a coworker's birthday get together Monday night, after work. Not a big deal, just a few people hanging out, eating pizza and drinking beer..... Now I'm suddenly invited to a surprise birthday get together for another coworker on Friday night as well. It's like an alternate universe! Y'all know how much I 'love' hanging out with the work peeps after work.... Not! I can't say no, now. I've already been to one, now I 'have' to go to the other! It's just *so* much fun always being the single one in the group. No built in conversation partner to mingle through the group with. When you're single, you're flying solo! My plan is to make a quick appearance, wish the birthday girl a happy birthday, and escape unnoticed. Wish me luck! |
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totally get where you are coming from... work obligations especially SUCK good luck
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Young Lady, been there done that, make it early and loud, get a free drink and slowly work your way quietly out and back home... It is normal for these thoughts, you have. Dont think twice about it . Do and be done...
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I found in the past, once you attend a co-workers party, they invite you to all co-worker parties. That is one of the reasons I refuse to attend any party hosted by or for a co-worker. I will not mix my work life and my social life. It keeps me at peace that way.
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I found in the past, once you attend a co-workers party, they invite you to all co-worker parties. That is one of the reasons I refuse to attend any party hosted by or for a co-worker. I will not mix my work life and my social life. It keeps me at peace that way.
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Young Lady, been there done that, make it early and loud, get a free drink and slowly work your way quietly out and back home... It is normal for these thoughts, you have. Dont think twice about it . Do and be done... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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totally get where you are coming from... work obligations especially SUCK good luck
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Good Luck!
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You have a kid. Most will pull the kid card when they dont want to do something. Like, show up for work and stuff. 💁♀️
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Ha. Good luck!
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I never really enjoyed work parties; they always felt like an extension of work especially if the 'boss' was around!
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yea, good luck with that. not spending my hard earned friday night with coworkers. sorry, not sorry. it'd be more like "sorry, i couldn't make it. yea, you get everything you wanted? you had fun though, right?" answer a question with another question and keep it movin'.
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I know after reading this, that it may not help !! BUT !! Maybe being Social at this point is Helping keep your mind off of another aspect of your life that is going on right know and is just the thing you need for now !!! 🤠
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I understand what you're saying. I hate being the 3rd, 5th, or 7th wheel.
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You could always make an excuse.......like, you're laying a new patio then (even though you live in apartments!)
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well obviously you were on too good behaviour at the initial get together... /......drink heavily, try and hit on partners, and accidentally knock over a few expensive vases, art works..... ....you will once more retain your hermit status.....UNLESS you are far too entertaining in your destruction; then perpetual invites will be yours
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Alcohol helps!!!!
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... I know what to do ! Take the spawn with and introduce her to social life. See how that goes over. ♫ rock rock to the top, rock rock never stop ♫ ~Wee~ 𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦
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Good luck! I'm out on Saturday night celebrating my brother's 65th Birthday (even though his birthday was on the 19th). It'll be just myself and four siblings and I'm okay with that.
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You can't stay long at all. Did you forget that you have to pick up your kid at his/her friend's house that evening?
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8/25/2021 6:08 am |
Good Luck!
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You have a kid. Most will pull the kid card when they dont want to do something. Like, show up for work and stuff. 💁♀️
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Ha. Good luck!
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I never really enjoyed work parties; they always felt like an extension of work especially if the 'boss' was around!
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yea, good luck with that. not spending my hard earned friday night with coworkers. sorry, not sorry. it'd be more like "sorry, i couldn't make it. yea, you get everything you wanted? you had fun though, right?" answer a question with another question and keep it movin'.
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I know after reading this, that it may not help !! BUT !! Maybe being Social at this point is Helping keep your mind off of another aspect of your life that is going on right know and is just the thing you need for now !!! 🤠
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