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Why are there so many ignorant self absorbed people here  

rm_FunwithmeXO 59M
5 posts
5/5/2016 3:38 pm
Why are there so many ignorant self absorbed people here


Like WTF....this is suppose to be a sex site and people don't want to even chat.

Are they so full of themselves that they can't even say hello but I am not interested? How do you know you won't like or enjoy being with someone if you don't bother chatting and meeting. Like seriously, aren't most of us here for fun and not games?

And the hypocrisy on here....WOW!!!!!!!! But that's a subject for another time.

Come on people, let's have some fun and stop all the bulls *hit. If you not serious about playing go somewhere else and stop wasting people's time.

If there are women and couples who actually enjoy meeting people for fun sexual times, PLEASE contact me.

Have a great day.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
5/5/2016 3:48 pm

Just like any other web site, it's the internet.

Be all you can be, and who you want to be.

quite simple actually.


soph_uckingbad 37F

5/5/2016 3:55 pm

I can't really speak for anyone else, but I get HUNDREDS of messages to sort through every week, and I don't always care to reply to every last one of them. There's multitudes of reasons why I may or may not choose to reply to any particular message, but those are my personal decisions. I don't feel obligated to respond to everyone, and I certainly don't have the desire, time, or energy to spend chatting with, getting to know, meeting up with and having sex with hundreds of men every week.

So, you know...It's certainly not about being "so full of myself." It's a numbers situation, hon, simple as that. If I get 50 messages one day, I might only reply to 5 of them. Of those, I may or may not meet up with any of them. Maybe I get 40 the next day, maybe 70. Every day. Starts to add up though. I'm not obligated to reply to every entitled, whiny, passive-aggressive asshole who pleads for sex just because they told me they want to fuck me. SO what?


mark22444 40M
34 posts
5/5/2016 4:09 pm

Was about to say the same thing as the person above me. You are only looking at things from your perspective and not anyone else's. A lot of the women you contact on this site get contacted by TONS of men every day. The ratio of men to women on this website is utterly absurd and makes life for pretty everyone on this website suck.

Not everyone is going to respond to you, and if they don't, it certainly doesn't make them ignorant and self-absorbed. It makes them tired of being contacted a ridiculous amount of times every day. They don't owe a response to every single person that messages them. This post actually makes YOU look self-absorbed.


rm_FunwithmeXO 59M
1 post
5/6/2016 3:12 pm

First of all thank you for your thoughts.

Just a couple of quick points to clarify.

1) I have been on and off this site for close to 15 years and the demeanor of the people on here is MUCH worse. That is not only my observation but many long time users. Not sure how long you have been on the site Vain or if your from Winnipeg.

2) Based on your statement Soph let's assume that you get 50 emails a day. 50 x 7 equals 350 emails a week. Now I could possibly see that in the first few weeks and maybe even months but I have a difficult time believe you get 18000 plus emails from different people in a year and if you do I am not sure if I feel happy or sad for you...lol. if it's the same people who contact you and your not interested I would say sorry or not interested and if they dont, then block them. Problem solved.

3) Over the years I have met some wonderful people and have had some amazing sexual experiences so I am not the hutch back of Notre Dame. Then again I am not a Greek god like some others. I am just an average guy trying to have fun with other average intelligent fun people.

Look, I am not trying to hurt anyone's feelings but I am just frustrated at the way society is giving up on manners and civility. Its appearing that more and more people are just concerned about themselves and not the people around them. I guess that's why it's being phrased as the "ME" generation.

This rant is not exclusive to this site just to be clear but it is a appropriate forum given the circumstances.


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