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It's Just Sex
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It's Just Sex Becoming a hot wife and hubby - How did we do it ? Well as a normal couple, after a few the novelty of sex between us wears a bit flat, same stuff. We were both quite highly sexed but even so, its only good for so long then it starts to become mundane. So we diversified “mentally”, to start with. While we were having sex, we would fantasise about all manner of things sexual. It juiced up our sex life, we would paint a picture in dirty talk that was exciting enough, it makes a difference, a more powerful orgasm. That’s how it all started…… As time progressed, we explored all manner of tangents to our fantasies and noted what was a turn on and what was not. In this way before we even got to doing anything kinky, we knew what would be a turn on and what would not work for us. So many fantasies were played out this way. And a few more passed and we were still together. But we learned through this process, to talk openly between us. About taboo subject too. and in this way we grew more close and open and familiar with the values of each other and what we would or would not be prepared to try. This way we were able to keep an open mindedness that many couples could not. We can discuss possibilities until they become accomplishments. So after a while, more , you wonder what’s next – So its either another fantasy subject, or it’s the handcuffs or whip or the guy you have been fantasising about. Until you work up to actually doing the fantasy. Out comes the rope. You cannot step into this lifestyle without first knowing each other really well. You have to be able to talk about anything shocking or sexy or way out there and navigate the pitfalls and negotiate between you to get something that works for you both. The first such actualised fantasy for us was a third guy. He became an acceptable sex partner for her when time allowed. We had a family mad house going on too so it was a bit risky mum disappearing up stairs for 30 minutes. Now we started to with a bit of BDSM and FEMDOM scenes – she liked this a lot. She liked the feelings of power. And she liked hubby worshipping her. This combination laid down the foundations for her to find extramarital sex and have his approval. Affairlook was handy too. We never knew it was cuckolding but it was. He loved it when she was naughty. Which was not nearly enough. So one day they found the title “Hot wife” This was an acceptable name she liked, and would happily adopt. We explored the activities and as our lives moved through the we enjoyed many men joining her. We have arrived now later in life and she has taken to the hot wife role with a vengeance. She wants to make the most of it while we still can so she is driving the game now. Our particular fantasy is to drive him wild with jealousy to where they can have very intense reclaim sex. The scene demands her to be so busy fucking other men that she must deny him sex completely. He is further humiliated by having to serve her when she is with her lover in anyway they want. “Must obey” type of service. In her latest hot wife role, she demands to have enjoyable sex for her if she is having sex at all. And so her quest for suitably skilled lovers has been a long and difficult one. Also reliability is a challenge, some men only visit once in months. In fact, not many want to have sex every week. So she has decided to work a stable to try to find enough suitable lovers to be able to get laid 3 or 4 times a week. She has adopted a quite startling<b> philosophy </font></b>too, if they have had sex with her and they were any good at it. They can come back when they want and have as much sex as they want. She feels obliged to keep them happy if they are keeping her happy. “It’s only Sex” says she. She has also made it clear that even if they all asked her for sex the same week – she will not refuse any of them. It is her duty to keep all of her lovers happy. “As much as they want, when they want it” And when she is having enough of them regularly she can transition to the next part of our game where hubby is denied sex from her completely. This should start escalating the feelings of jealousy he is having especially if she and her lovers are taunting him and rubbing it in to him how much she is enjoying her side of the game. She will clearly be having as much sex as she can handle. She has decided to include a wicked twist to the game though – as she becomes more and more used to her various lovers and their relationships with her. She has decided already, not to stop when the game finishes for hubby. She will instead work hubby to where he feels some femdom attention and his jealousy is tamed and drained. Then she can push on and build it up again. What a tangled web we weave right enough. So our relationship works on many levels but our way forward has for many been as a femdom couple. She was the dominant one in the bedroom and he worshipped her. in many very intimate ways. He is also submissive to her in her hot wife role and a natural cuckold who derives immense thrills and satisfaction because she has extramarital sex. Her HW role has been a huge boost to their relationship. And she is loving the attention and keeps herself very attractive even now in her sixties she is still probably more sexually active than most 40 year old’s. And why not. We only live once. Make the best of it. |
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11/17/2019 12:42 pm |
I find this particular blog extremely interesting. A case study in fact into the power of sexual drive in a relationship and how parameters are set as time progress's. I have been thru the same process lasting many years until regretfully the relationship broke when i was offered a less stressfully one with another mistress and the original partner became obsessed with gang bangs and violence. I hope that the author and her partner continue to enjoy a long and fruitful relationship, (if not a happy one for the gent). Enjoy your holiday in the sun.
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9/28/2020 5:53 pm |
beautifully articulated xx
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