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Pringles0510 49F
281 posts
7/8/2016 3:43 am
Creep


Always thought cyber bullying / stalking wouldn't happen to me.
Thought wrong

I appreciate someone who puts pictures of his face on here lots more than dick pics, but would now highly recommend not to put your face in your profile pictures where everybody can see them. Save them for friends only! For people you've been chatting with for a while and you trust in some way.

Got a message from my regular friend with benefits. Through Facebook someone had gotten in touch with him:
"Hi. just to let you know I have been meeting Pringles. I have had a chat with her and she wants left alone, if not you will have me to deal with. Do us all a favour and put a rope around your neck. Don't try to get in touch with her again. She's with a real man tonight."
(Some things left out, because they are quite personal).

For the record, I was with no one that night.
And felt physically sick when I found out what happened. My friend had his face picture as main profile and psycho arsehole must have recognised him.

Not long after that he started messaging me. Even mentioned my family and how he'd seen me and my in town. As soon as he mentioned my , I went to the police, just for advice. Well, fat lot of good that did me. I brought it on myself according to them, being on dating sites. Get in touch again when he shows up on my doorstep.

Awful messages kept coming in over the next day. When one fake facebook account was blocked, he would set up another. And received another message from my friend that someone had been to his house and spray painted horrible things on his windows. The idiot did it right in the view of cctv camera of shop across the street, so easy to see who it was.
Relieved now I know who it is and don't feel I have to look over my shoulder all the time when I'm in town. Just feel so bad my friend got so much abuse and don't ever want anything like this to happen again. I had never been in touch with psycho in any way. No messages, no flirts nothing from either him or me. Not sure what put him up to this, but I certainly never gave him a reason to turn nasty.

I know his name and where he lives. If I ever hear from him again, or he bothers my friends and family I'm going to tell everybody everywhere about him. Make sure he's kicked off every social media / dating site I find him on (just a shame he can set up a new account straight away, so not sure how much effect it'll have) and will do my very very best to make his life hell! Decided not to do this right now, because I don't want this entire thing to drag on, especially for the other people who were involved.
Guess some people must think I'm mad staying on these sites, but I refuse to let this arsehole control anything I do. So I'm not going anywhere!

So, bottom line.... Think carefully before you put mug shot on for everybody to see. Where you might think it won't happen to you, or it's mainly<b> teenagers </font></b>that do this sort of stuff, it's not - as I had to find out the hard way this week.

xxx

redduracell 53M
909 posts
7/10/2016 12:50 am

loonies.... keep safe and stay sane xx


Pringles0510 replies on 7/10/2016 6:31 am:
Definitely.

fannyliquor69 55M

7/8/2016 3:05 pm

presumably if he has been caught on cctv doing something the police will at least be able to do something for criminal damage. not really directly helping you but might make him think twice about doing anything else.
glad it not putting you off using this site, love looking at your pictures


Pringles0510 replies on 7/8/2016 3:12 pm:
Yeah, a £40 fine and a slap on the wrist. Absolutely disgusted with this, no punishment what so ever. Not enough evidence for the online abuse, so it's only the windows he has to pay for.
Hopefully it will have given him a big enough fright to stop him doing this again.

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