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How to behave...  

50isnifty 43F
8 posts
1/7/2016 4:38 pm
How to behave...


Be honest. What have you got to lose? No matter your preference, we can all tell there are many choices, just on this website alone. Unless you are a low-life sleazebag who gets off on ruining nice people's lives, tell the truth. If someone doesn't like it, you know they are not right for you, and move on. Seriously, you people who put up old photos of when you were thinner and younger make me laugh. Who are you trying to fool? What is the purpose? When someone finally meets you and sees what you really look like, it just pisses them off. Why would you waste your time on that? Be who you are, there are plenty of people that will be into you, really, and why would you want someone who wants you for what you USED to look like? Life is too short to deal with bullshit.
Be strong. If it really makes you feel bad or worthless, dirty or strange, just say no. The best sex is when you know the other person wants to please you as much as you want to please them or be pleased. It doesn't matter what you are into, we all have our proclivities. But if it feels good, DO it! If it doesn't, DON'T. Life is too short to be ashamed or unhappy.

love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
1/7/2016 4:44 pm

I here you. I truly feel same if it feels good do as much as u desire. Good sex saves lives it's a proven fact.


LonelytoOften 58M
327 posts
1/7/2016 5:16 pm

I've read two posts within the last month, both ladies met with something other than what they were expecting, they still followed through regardless. Sure, women want honesty, I believe that. Numerous post still show women being pissed off that they still fall for the same BS from guys that they always have.

I see very liitle evidence to the opposite.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/7/2016 5:39 pm

agree with you that the most important thing is to be honest, next is to show some good manners, and then treat everyone as you want to be treated


billydixy66 70M
180 posts
1/7/2016 11:06 pm

Behavior on such sites is always always interesting. And it doesnt matter if its men or woman, both are equally guilty. Both want to get noticed. However, when it comes to harassment men would appear to take the cake. They just don't seem to get it when they don't suit the preferences. Much easier on all if we just read and understand.
In my neck of the woods much easier as there just aren't enough people on the site to make it a viable way of finding partners


50isnifty 43F

1/12/2016 12:22 pm

Thank you.


Tridente_ 49M
11 posts
4/2/2016 8:55 pm

I understand people than don´t feel comfortable with body or face, but normally we look us worst than other.

That is a problem of confident, but finally i don´t like people shaming because i am looking to have simple conversation with simple people, not more not less, only real people with real feelings.

Other is picture from only sex parts, that´s ok for a trophy on table but nobody love it. This apply for men and woman.

Anyway, we are simple persons with a simple life, what is necessary do it complex?


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