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Double Standard on AFF, Really???
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Sadly, the double standard will always be there. I wish it wasn't, but it is and will continue. I can't tell you how many men I have talked to that think it is cool for them to want to have 2 or 3 women all over them and do the things they want i.e. anal, oral, bd/sm etc... but when it turns to a woman, say their daughter or sister especially, that is so NOT going to happen to them!!! No man is to look at their daughter like that nor approach her the way they approach us. There is a definite contingency of men on here that slam out the 'well you are here' mantra as if it means wanting or liking sex means we are lower than a life form and deserve no respect. Um.. they are here, why do they deserve respect and think they should be worshiped?? The number of men on here cheating because they can't get something at home.... well don't think that women that like sex are whores!!! I hate to say this one, but I know quite a few men that I have seen posting that this is not the place to get married as if we somehow are not worthy of marriage because we like the same things they do. WOW is all I can say. One may not come here looking to get married, but don't throw that water out the window yet as you just may find someone you really DO connect with. Assuming we are all just worthless whores, but you will use us for sex and go as well, that is just wrong. I know more than a few from here that have been married and I myself have been with my guy for 12 years. I am not looking, I am here helping newbies and chatting with friends. Not everyone here is here because they are whores or horndogs!! Maybe they do just like sex and should be appreciated instead of lambasted.
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There is many double standards on here. It is his loss anyway. Any man should be more then honored to be with you. I know I would reach me in my blog titled private mail
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8/5/2016 7:58 am |
People have different preferences. Men do not like being compared to other guys. When a woman has multiple partners, the guys will be in a 'competition' for your time  . The other issue is of 'belonging'...'you belong only to me babe'...It is hard to share.
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Sadly by the time it is acceptable we'll all be long gone.It'll take at least a couple of generations before it'll become the norm.There is nothing wrong with being one of the ground breakers of a completely anti monogamous society.The only thing standing in it's way would be the out break of an STD worse than aids. Using more than all the road!
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Maybe he was just afraid that the horn in the center of your forehead would bruise him when you kissed? OK, OK......to be serious..... While we can see where you might have been irked, we have to agree with some of your respondents above that this fellow was merely expressing his preference for a more monogamous swinging style. { how oxymoronic is that?? } Where he definitely is deserving of fault, however, is in not reading YOUR profile well enough ( if at all ) to understand what your reasons for being here are. When we start to seek out compatible playmates, it's incumbent upon ALL of us to be sure that a basic compatibility IS there. A little homework on his part could have avoided causing you such distress. OR.....He was just traumatized by a "My Little Pony" episode from the 80's
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Boo hoo, with pics like that you will have no problem finding partners
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