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Blogs > NaughtynNormal > There Is Movement In My Head

Sexual Compatibility in Coupling  

NaughtynNormal 45M
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12/24/2015 1:34 am
Sexual Compatibility in Coupling
Sometimes you meet a couple( or come across a couple's profile online)and you're completely in awe at the sexual chemistry the exude.At a single glance everything about them appears to be in tune...a certain inexplicable togetherness.It's usually in the way they subconsciously relate to each other...the touches,the glances,the smiles,their movements.It really is a rarity and a thing of beauty.

Now,before you start having serious doubts about your partner,let me put a disclaimer right here: that this often the exceptional couple.Not the norm.I'm quite sure that a few years of marriage( or dating) characterised by unsolicited nagging( and whining) coupled with jiggly bits and effects of gravity will be sufficient to murder any droplets of passion you may still possess post 30.
But then there's that exceptional couple couple that makes everybody wonder what they did wrong.Perhaps the better question should be what these vegan-sculpted-body-rich-super-hot-40s couple are doing right.(kidding, sometimes they eat fish.)

There's theory(I have nothing to substanciate it so feel free to give me evidence) that couples that are compatible sexually usually make better/stronger couples in life.
The definition of sexually compatible couples here would be a couple that have a variety of matched sexual interests.Ill paint the picture:

HE LIKES: Blow jobs,woman riding him,dominant woman,FFM,Bondage
HE DISLIKES: Eating pussy ,Ass play/Anal
SHE LIKES: cunnilingus,doggy,dirty talk,anal,MMF,Rough Sex,BlowJobs
SHE Dislikes:Bi Play/Bondage/Domination

RESULT: not sexually compatible

However much this couple may love each other,they will always want and desire different things in the bedroom that the other is not able to give.The question then becomes whether it is possible to live in partial fulfilment.

So my question for you...how much importance do you attach to sexual compatibility? And in your past experiences, is there any evidence to show that sexually matched couples do better as couples in life?

Next time I meet a potential partner,Ill probably lead with the fact that I'm a swinger.See how it goes from there.

Parting Shot:
A close friend of mine who has been a practising Psychotherapist for many years says the best unions are not achieved through compromise but through each partner getting 100% of what they want in alternation.

Chew on that.Happy holidays!

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