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Cumming to quickly
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Cumming to quickly I've been seeing a guy and everything's fine and good except for he cums oo quickly any ideas on what I can do what he can possibly do? Good sex but its just over too quickly |
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Can he get it up for round 2? If he can that hopefully should last longer. He may need to see his Dr. about the situation also. One thought is for him to get you more turned off before fucking. ie oral on you, more foreplay, more play where you both get him close then stop. That last one is edging and some people do it better than others. There maybe others that have some more ideas.
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How old is this guy? have talked to him about this? maybe he does not know you want it to last longer Enjoy your day!
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Back when I was young I would cum pretty quick if I had not gotten off in a couple days. But 3-4 times a night was real comin. Each time I would last longer, with the second time lasting 10-15 min. I also noticed that going deep where my nuts were mashed between myself and a gal would cause me to cum quicker. The one thing that seemed to help me control how quick I cum is to be on the bottom and let her ride me. With regular activities the gals would normally have 2-3 orgasms before I would cum myself. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Relax..take your time...he may be so excited cause you are so damn hot..get on top and take control// When I was younger and I use to actually have sex I found that I could last for an hour or more when I was with lovers that I had had many encounters with and was very relaxed and on the bottom..the poor things sometimes could hardly walk when it was time to get up...be careful what you wish for HA HA!!
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Define 'over too quickly' To make him come later * Let him drink some alcohol * Stop, Go method Ladykiller0044
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Slow thrusting is a great way and also stop start with some foreplay inbeteen, and yes on the 2nd time he will last loner too. Don't critisize him for it am sure he knows it personally too.
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Slow things down. Women tend to think its all about them when they need to dynamically change things around during sex and make it about him to get their best action. Meaning, there are things women do in the heat of the moment that makes them forget why they are there in the first place.
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Well, I sometimes have that same issue. What I have discovered is that GIVING a girl a lot of oral sex helps slow me down. Of course the second cumin can be awesome. I will clean up the cream pie before being "coaxed" back hard. Let him try giving YOU a lot of oral sex then keep us posted
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Yeah, pretty much what has been said. With the build-up, the turn-on, the tension, it is easy to cum quick. But if that is the case, then those same things should also fuel subsequent follow rounds within minutes. Only other tip is for him to relieve his own pressure earlier in the day of date night.
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Variety is the spice of life, so just keep experimenting with different things and make sure you let him know when it's good/better for you. No need to be critical yet, some guys are not up for that feedback (I like to konw), Possibly ask him to just keep fucking you after he cums? I enjoy multiple rounds this way.. The "soft on" and the hard on can be equally as pleasurable for her. I'm a big fan of "she comes first" chivalry, but understand that it's tough for some guys to hold out. Best advice I can offer is to Keep working on it  Try 2 or 3 sessions a day. By the 3rd he should be able to last for quite a while.
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