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Being a BBW
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Being a BBW I usually hang out in my local room, the BBW room or the Mature room. If nothing is going on in those rooms, I venture into the Lobby. Last night, I got my first taste of 50 year old men acting like teenagers, and not in a good way. I happened to comment that I usually hang out in the BBW room. I was quite shocked at the comments made by these guys towards BBW's in general...not only were they close-minded and childish...but...I'd also been in the room a few times and chatted with these guys. I am not friends with them by any means. I guess I thought they were above this name calling, hurtful shit. But I was wrong. Unfortunately. I'm not whining. And it didn't make me fall to my knees, sobbing lol It actually just made me sad. I could not think of a thing to say to them in response. All I could do is shake my head and just laugh. Funny thing was...the women in the room (the regulars, not me) did reply, in defense of bbw's. A couple even said they had ample curves. I have always known men are visual creatures and women are more into what's inside. And I know this was just a few guys. I am not one to put everyone in the same basket. Nor do I pass any judgement on these guys. They are who they are. I was just a little surprised is all. Thanks for listening Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles |
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I haven't done the chat room thing since AOL in the mid-1990's. Sounds like little has changed. Mostly mindless flirting, without enough engaging conversations is what I remember.
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It's a shame that some men can not see the beauty in a voluptuous and sexy curvy woman. They are awesome. Don't let them get you down. I adore you all.
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As you know LL you can't fix stupid.....as for intolerance that affliction doesn't have an age barrier either. You can't let small minded folks get you down as I'm sure you know. There's a good reason why so many men are attracted to women with plenty of curves and that's because they find them to be very sensuous & desirable.
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Fat guys don't appeal to me in the slightest. But having said that, that doesn't mean I'd be mean to someone because of their weight - that would be childish and mean. Those men are entitled to their opinion, but they've no reason to act like dickheads and be mean. We all have our likes and dislikes, personal preferences and that's fine. Being mean just for fun doesn't make any of them a "man".
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all should be treated with respect and proper manners are required, everyone is beautiful in their own way, the golden rule is to treat others like you want to be treated
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I think notsure1949, hit the nail on the head! Very well said! Totally agree with him  Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD
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I usually see childishness in the “Mature” room so I no longer go there. Not a good atmosphere for open discussion or meeting people. Some people just feel a need to be “in charge” or “better”. The childishness is their issue. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Sorry that happened, being a bbw too, I could careless what anyone else thinks.
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Gahh!! you shouldn't care two hoots for what they say...people will always say all kinds of things ... for the record I'm a huge BBW fan! 
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