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Nice guys seem to finish last!?!?!?
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Keep trying is all I can say I'm sure you'll find someone suitable with a bit of effort.
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I like finishing last. That way I can watch those in front IMPLODE Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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Because women have sex drives, and the "Nice" behavior, is boring, flat line boring. The "Nice" behaving man, is 100 percent friendzone material. Her token gay male friend. You may has well be her little brother trying to seduce her into bed. Look at the women on here, who are divorced, or have ex boyfriends. What do they usually say about their ex? Right, they say he was an ass hole. A jerk. Undependable. Scum.....But, he is the guy she spread her legs for. She is the guy she had had children with. You have to take all the advice your mom gave you about women, and do the opposite. Learn to tell women, "No". Learn to tell women, "Can't , I'm busy". [even if you're not busy]. If a woman ever asks you if you're seeing anyone, don't be afraid to tell her you are dating other women. Three out of 5 times she will still give you her phone number. You come along, and she tells you , "I'm not that kind of girl, I don't have sex on the first meeting". But she did with someone else who turned her on. You can be sure she did all kinds of freaky things with those men who turned her on.
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Part 2.. Learn to stop buying women gifts. No more going out on dinner meetings. No more dinner dates if she has never been to bed with you yet. No more buying her a drink. She has money, she can buy it herself. Gifting the woman, treating the woman, buying stuff for the woman, doing stuff for the woman, is over. Done. No more. If you turn her on, she'll get with you sexually. Buying stuff for her, doing stuff for her, isn't going to warm her crotch up enough to want you naked in bed. As far as the woman is concerned , you're the equivalent of a man finding a nymphomaniac, you're the sucker who wants to give her stuff, attention, and she never has to have sex with you, as she sees it.
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Indeed yes, there are women looking for "Nice guys". These women have had all her wild fun when she was pretty and single, with the jerks and asses, maybe even popped out a few kids with them, but now she feels all used up and not appreciated, so she looks for "Nice guy" to make everything all better and pay for her kids. Don't be a sucker. You'll make a woman feel better about herself, then once she feels better, she will want some excitement, and go looking for a man who excites her. "Nice" behavior, doesn't get the job done.
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I appreciate all the comments, and I definitely feel a little more educated!!! But I don't feel that I have to act like a jerk or an asshole, just to bed somebody!!! That is not what I am trying to do!!! I will admit that I consider myself a "swinger", but I also like to get to know someone before sex, f'ing, or any other label you might want to use, so that there is more than just a physical connection. I also don't understand why ladies and couples tend to sterotype every single guy that contacts them. Sure there are some bad apples spoiling the barrel, but if you would give a guy a chance when you first encounter them, not all of us are going to do or act as the oes who f'ed up before us!!!!! Give him the benefit of the doubt until you see that he is a jerk or an asshole!!
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Learning to say , "No", or "I'm busy", or "I'm dating around and what is your number" [when a woman asks if you're seeing anyone], isn't making you an asshole or a jerk, but it does make you more interesting than the "Nice guy" [aka: Door mat]. Don't be afraid of being NOT NICE. You know what I'm talking about and what you need to practice, because you opened this dialog with "Educate me, I don't know why ladies ignore nice decent guys"..... well now you do. Those guys are boring, you may as well be her little brother. And learn to call women, "Women", not "Ladies", until she actually demonstrates she is a lady. Being a woman, doesn't make her a lady, any more then being a man, makes him a gentleman.
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