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A Man's Perspective on Pussy Eating
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A Man's Perspective on Pussy Eating The deal for guys is that from a woman's perspective, great pussy eating can’t be disassociated from the workup to it. The workup sets the mood and excitement level and amplifies whatever talent you have at eating pussy. Without it, you're talent may come to naught so never go muff diving with warming up. Guess the workup is called foreplay, so it’s the foreplay that’s as important as the muff diving. Here’s my read on things. You need to have rapport with a woman; that is chemistry. She needs to know you a bit and feel comfortable with you and trust you. After all, she’s going to be alone with you, get naked and spread her legs so you can lick her in her most important and sensitive place. She wants to know that when she turns herself over to you she can relax and lean back and enjoy the encounter confident you aren’t a serial killer in disguise. Women aren’t like guys and need some connection with you, to trust you, to really enjoy you and what you have to offer, and that you value her as a person. This means there needs to be a nice build up and a nice wind down. That you’ll talk with her (not at her) afterwards to show you value what she just gave you and for you, to ensure she’ll invite you back. No wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am. No Donald Trump stuff… What I suggest is to begin slow... a nice massage starting with her on her stomach wearing just panties. Panties are good because you can rub sensitive places when they are dry without a problem. A good way to make those sensitive places wet. Critically, as you do this talk to her constantly. Tell her what you’re doing and what you’re going to do. That her shoulders and ass are nice, soft, exciting to you and that you want to make her very happy. Women like being talked to. They like their breasts and pussy and ass talked to so be verbal. Just soft and nice. Start with her shoulders with you straddling that fantastic ass. This way, as you work her shoulders she'll feel your own appendage get big and rub against her ass and between her cheeks. Women seem to like this. It’s erotic and fairly benign to a good way to start. But be gentle. This is an and not a pain session. Relax her and not punish her. Google massage to get an idea how to work your fingers and palms to do this. Work your way down her back, skip her butt and start on her feet, then calves and thighs. The thighs are the real target... rub them outside and inside, brushing her panty clad pussy in the process. Move up to her ass. Massage her buns and stroke her ass crack as you reach down and brush her pussy. Not hard, lightly, gently, sensuously, erotically. She'll become more and more excited as you progress. Seems like most women like this a lot so be sure to dwell on it a while. You’ll know if she likes it. Personally, I like this myself so it can go for a while if I sense she likes it too. At some point have her turn over on her back. Again, straddle her torso and begin with her shoulders, arms and hands. Hands rubs are sensuous so be gentle. Move to her breasts and enjoy their suppleness, their majesticness and their sensitivity. Understand all you need is but one cubic Harvey to enjoy a breast. And, that the smallest breast is the minimum one cubic Harvey you need. So big or small, all breasts are fantastic and fabulous and need to be enjoyed and appreciated. But be gentle, you’re not kneading bread but erotically handling something fabulous. And pay attention to her reaction to what you do. If she likes it do it. If she doesn’t then don’t do it. It’s her breasts and all have different sensitivities and likes and you have to pick up on that or you’re wasting your time. Brush them with the back of your hand. Run a finger around their mound, across their top, around the nipple. Gently squeeze the nipple. Gently kiss them, caress them, suck them, play with them. You should sense her arousal and increased excitement as you do this. At some point you move down… but not to the pussy. Skip the stomach as most people are ticklish and the last thing you want to do is break the mood by<b> tickling </font></b>her. Move to her feet and massage the soles of her feet but don’t tickle them. Rub her arches, her toes, her ankles, her calves and to her thighs. Do the thighs again; outside, top, inside and inside. Stroking, rubbing, enticing, sensuously, erotically. As you do the inside thighs brush against her panty covered pussy. Each time a little more. And each time a little further down until you are stroking her entire pussy top to bottom. You’ll know she likes this as she’ll be encouraging you. Gently move her legs apart and focus on her pussy now. Stroke it on both sides. Feel it between your fingers. Use two and three. With three, two on the outsides and one running down the middle. You’ll feel her pussy change as she gets excited and you are going to get hard as a rock too (if you aren’t already!!!) knowing this is the real focus you’ve been working up to. Be brave and kiss her there. Rub your nose along her pussy. By now she knows what you’re going to do and that it’s likely to be a very good thing for her. You can feel her get wet and you’ll know when it’s time to remove the panties and do some serious muff diving. Get back down there. Blow gently on that fabulous pussy winking at you and saying “kiss me, kiss me”. Go ahead and kiss it. Gently. Lick it to wet it if it’s not wet. Now get busy eating a pussy that’s ready as it’ll ever be to test your talent as a muff diver. Chump or champ… this is where the rubber meets the road. Roll your tongue between her pussy lips, up and down her clit's shaft, between her clit's hood and clit, flicking ever so gently her clit. As you excite her clit and lips you'll feel them enlarge knowing when they do that you’re doing something she likes. Taste her juices and inhale her scent. Regal in them and how they excite you as you excite her. Have her grab your hair and direct your focus and pressure, pulling you into her pussy and pushing you away, adjusting what turns her on ever so slightly as your tongue works its magic. Make some noise. You can’t talk now except when you pull up for air. When you do, compliment her on her pussy. It’s lips, it’s clit shaft and hood, it’s clit. And, how much you are enjoying kissing on them. How responsive they are and what a delight it is to be there between her legs and how you hope to make her a very happy woman. Keep the focus on her and not you. Your reward will come later and the better you are here, the greater your reward will be later. You future is in your tongue’s hands at the moment. She is so wet... you slip two fingers inside her pussy and lick and suck her clit as you rub the upper reaches around the spongy top of that very wet responsive pussy. Your licking and sucking and rubbing are in synch with her body as you move together onward toward that fabulous O waiting to be taken. You know she’s close as you can feel her tensing for the O or if she begins to squirt. It’s close now so continue on and don’t stop. Sometimes it take a while to move from this moment of near ecstasy to an all out orgasm. Be patient and be emboldened knowing you are close. When it comes you’ll know unequivocally because suddenly she’ll pull your head into her pussy and it’s gushing as her orgasm spasms through her body. Pull her thighs against your temples and just stay there against her pussy while she enjoys every moment and enjoy every minute of her pleasure yourself. When she’s ready, she’ll move your head away. She may want to rest, eyes closed to enjoy the moment. She may want you to slip your hard one into her very wet pussy. She may want you to eat her again. My recommendation… eat her again... She'll be ready, love you for making her doubly happy and for forsaking your pleasure to give her pleasure again before yourself. Remember, amazing things happen to the patient diligent man and your patience will be rewarded in spades when your turn comes. |
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Damn I want you to test you theory on me...........
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3/19/2018 7:40 pm |
well done you have mastered the art of the oral experience for a lot of women and men could take lessons..it is hard to find a man whose oral talents outweigh the urge to wham bam.I hate the ramming of the fingers up into my puss its very uncomfortable and why men feel the urge to do that is beyond me ..I would much rather feel the wonderful sensations running rampant over and thru my body from the tongue and mouth that's my dessert after the main meal.Being an Alpha human female the female body is a bit more complicated for me orgasm takes a long time and men lose patirnce and have little control over their own urge..so again Bravo well done
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1 post 4/25/2018 12:53 pm |
I am a curious abacio also. Need more experiences at proton mail to com. My wife will be a happier camper tonight, maybe us tomorrow. Now if I can hold it long enough.......waiting
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I can tell you why guys think it's so hot to "finger fuck" you. They see it done on porn and they see those women respond, so they figure "THAT must be what all women want." They completely forget that porn is made for THEM, not for women, so the women on there do what MEN want!! I think porn has really screwed things (pun intended) up for a lot of women!
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Oh. My. Gosh! I wish you could send this to every man alive! So many men absolutely do not understand this! I'm like the first woman above, test your theory on me!! Please  Lyn
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