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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

Happy Valentines  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
2/14/2018 5:14 am
Happy Valentines
To be honest I really would not mind a long term relationship at this point in my life.

I've stood clear for a long time over that long ass divorce cause even though I wasn't the cheater I was splashed in court as if I was a nymphomaniac. The paternity of my daughters questioned ..a whole load of bullshit.

I promised myself if I ever let a man into my life again it was gonna be on my terms ... I'd had enough of some misadventures since the divorce that taught me sweet talkers will get into your pants and thereon it'll go downhill if you don't respect yourself.

So now my are grown<b> teenagers </font></b>with solid heads on their shoulders. They know they're always first in my life but they also realise once they head off to college am going to be alone most of the time.

It was my daughters who've encouraged me to find myself a good man. As much as I know there ARE good men out there .. I find the odds against me ..I seem to have a natural homing device attracting the most self centred chronicallypossessive and yet open game himself and worst from experience everything he says is what made him fall for me becomes exactly why he hates me and is suspicious. I don't hide my men friends coz they are exactly that - friends. I'm not in search of benefits, I'm in search of a kindred soul to explore the world.

So 6 months to 47, I highly doubt my single state will change coz I guess after you've gone through so many disappoints, the alarm bells become ultra sensitive .. and I rather walk away one less misadventure.

But there are those moments when I think wouldn't it be nice to have a man who accepts me with all my imperfections as I accept him and to be able to lugh and love and live and know we don't need rings andmarriage papers to be sincere and committed ... perhaps I'm idealistic in hoping that he is just around the corner waiting to bump into me. Tis the hopeful foolish heart.

Anyhows all ya folks out there Happy Valentines and if you're with someone you love for more than just the sex ... may you always be blessed.

Have a good one people.
mbgbillybob 64M
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2/14/2018 3:54 pm

 Happy Valentines Day to you too my friend. Any guy would be lucky to have you.


phoenix71rebirth replies on 2/14/2018 11:28 pm:
Thank you Bill. Hope you had a good day too

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