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Blogs > phoenix71rebirth > Flamed by the Phoenix

Adapting To Circumstances  

phoenix71rebirth 52F
181 posts
7/14/2017 6:49 pm
Adapting To Circumstances

We all end up having to do that and to the best of our abilities.

I get so damn frustrated at times when people seem to think that since I have come home, that I will just OBVIOUSLY undertake everything - and they seem to forget I have 2<b> teenagers </font></b>who need education and for that I need money and I need to work.

Anyways I have long realised that arguing with people who have set notions of what should be while being illogical in its executions is a useless exercise. Best do what I can when I can and when it's all too much just say so.

Or better yet - the next time some 'well meaning' person says thank God you're back to take care of the parents full time, am going to give them my bank account number and a $ value they are to bank in every month so I can ALSO take care of my girls and myself.

Ya know what I mean? So we adapt to the idiosyncrasies of society and its perceived right to decide how one should lead their life from how you stop living to how you should be living ... you can ALWAYS trust society to decide for you.

Adapting to Circumstances should be a subject mandatory because somehow or other it will be VERY much a part of your life especially adult life when people get to tell you how to live it based on their views not based on your needs or situations.

**chuckling at least I still can laugh at how silly this all seems**

Be well and prosper!

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